Where do you meet men??
I believe good people are everywhere. In the video I want to demonstrate that to you, firstly by telling you some of the unusual places I’ve met people, and then by asking you and conducting a little experiment…
Where do you meet men? Where was the last place you met a quality guy?
Let me know in the comments below.
I want you to think of this as an experiment where the more comments we get, the better this is going to be. I’m then going to draw on all of your comments in my next video and let you know the results.
Be specific about where you were, what the location was, and what type of location it was.
Were you taking a class, doing one of your hobbies, were you grabbing a coffee, shopping…tell us!
Retweet this, get it to your friends, share it on your Facebook, pass it on to as many people as possible, and encourage them to comment too.
The more comments we get, the more effective this is going to be. So I can’t wait to read yours!
Matthew x
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We met at a thai restaurant at the birthday party of friends in common, a year and a half ago. last week we broke up,he’s got anxieties to deal with & is finally addressing them. i think guys should come with a warning signal like “hello i’m normal, but i got anxiety issues!” despite that we are still keeping our commitment to go away for the weekend with the same friends up the mountains. i’m expecting it to be at least normal awkward!!! Wish me luck for trying.
The last guy I met was on the street by LA Fitness (gym), I wasn’t going to the gym I was just waiting near the gym for my girlfriends so we can meet-up & go out. He commented on my high heels, “Are you going to the gym with those nice high heels.”
Hi Matt!
I have two stories to share. :)
One of the guys was a WWF recruiter (if that’s the right word) and we met on the street. We talked for at least 10 minutes, but unfortunately, he never asked for my contacts…
The other guy is American and I met him during the dragon boat world championship where I worked as a volunteer. We’ve been chatting on facebook for a while, so who knows? :)
I met my last two guys at bars through mutual friends.
the last guy i dated, i met him at a theme park where we both worked part time
The last guy of interest I met was when I met up with a coworker to head to one of my friend’s Tupperware parties together. We work at a department store and were headed to the bathroom so she could change, she spotted this man she knew shopping for swim trunks and headed over to say hello. I was instantly interested but had a lot going on, so any time I saw him I said a polite hello and didn’t dwell on it. This past fall he walked by with the usually hello and I said “you can stop and chat sometimes if you want you know.” (He owns a business in the same mall we work at that runs seasonally). For the rest of the season he stopped to chat nearly daily. We’ve kept in contact and every couple weeks talk for a few hours each time. While the conversations are deepening he has not yet asked me out, and I’d really prefer the guy to do some pursuing!
I met the last guy I dated on Eharmony dating site.
The last guy I dated I met when I was out for my birthday at a themed bar, and my sister dragged me outside so she could have a smoke and a guy came up and started talking to us. We sat down with him and his friends, and one of his friends who was taller than me I gave my number to. We dated for 8 months.
I met the last two guys I dated on a free dating site called pof. I guess I should have realized the type of men but on the pay sites it’s no different. Booo
The last guy I dated, I met while he was taking all my vitals at a work health fair. He was weighing me, taking my blood pressure, etc. He was my nurse
The last quality man I met was at charity fundraising event he was hosting in the West Village of Manhattan. Prior to that on an airplane ride to Miami from New York City.
The last attractive man I met was in the classified ad of the local newspaper. He was advertising an apartment that he had for rent. He’s my current landlord. We never dated because of the several reasons. One the legalities of being the landlord and that I’m renting but mostly because he was living with someone already and lastly I’m an older woman and he’s only 6 years older than my son. I learned visual chemistry is not enough. Although he told me I was his best tenant that as far as it went. Not very romantic is it.
last boyfriend: Art opening & drawing session at Maitland Art Center. FL. We were both drawing a model at the opening.
second to last boyfriend: Art opening: City Arts Factory gallery, while volunteering. He liked my pants.
The last guy I met was at a new friend’s fundraiser party for their theater company. The party was in the company’s theater space. I noticed him notice me, so I struck up a conversation and we bonded over our taste for unusual food.
Before that I met a guy at the bar associated with my University’s alumni club in my city. I decided to go by myself to watch our first football game, even though I didn’t have anyone to go with. We started talking while waiting to order a drink, and I spent the rest of the night talking to him and his friends.
The last guy a met was on my trip in australia, we met in a hostel. And i met my exboyfriend through a good freind, we where on the way to a bar that evening and then we met him and his his friends on the way, 2 weeks later he was my boyfriend, the wierd thing is that i told my friend 2 hours
before we met the guys, that i knew i will meet a guy today.
Recently met a guy in March this year and we both realized we actually live in the same neighborhood, just didn’t have the courage to talk to him. As he would occasionally say hi to me when heading in opposite directions. One evening were both waiting for the bus at the stop going the same direction As I was going to work, and he was heading out somewhere, he asked me for the time of the bus, and we started talking on the bus, and met him again on the same train in the city I called him over to sit with me, and we talked all the way home and he asked that we exchange numbers and meet and talk, and since then we have been meeting and hanging out, and seeing each other..
The last guy I met was from the Eharmony site. We dated for a year.Then soon after he asked me to move in with him and it lasted another 2yrs.I work in a hospital so I do meet a lot of men.I have not dated since. The “Off Button” is on.
The last guy I dated I met on match.com. However, we apparently met two years before at a charity event. I later found out he sent me to facebook frien requests after the charity event, but I denied both of them. Still makes me laugh to think about it. Other places I’ve met quality guys in the past have included my gym, the Westin hotel bar during a major celeb golf tournament for charity, through friends at a giant birthday celebration.
I met my ex on a scuba diving trip to Cozumel. We both signed up for the trip through our local dive shop. Since I had only broken up with my previous boyfriend two months before the trip I didn’t really notice him nor was I looking for a new relationship since I was still getting over my previous one. Then about 2 or 3 days in to a 7 day trip I saw him in a different light after a few days. It’s interesting how quickly one gets to know new people on a small boat heading to dive sites. I chatted with him but didn’t really think anything about it. As the trip went on we got closer and closer. After we returned we started dating and I found out that he only lived 5 minutes from where I lived but had never seen him before. Talk about a small world lol. Unfortunately the relationship only lasted 4 months.
I have met and dated Three men recently
The first was a man that I was introduced to by common friends. We met in NY city where he lives at the hotel bar where I was staying. He showed up with 2dozen white roses.
Gentleman 2 was sitting at the bar at Houstons restaurant in Montreal airport as I was preparing to go on a NY weekend.Conversation started and it ended with everyone at the bar being amused by the obvious intention of this man to see me again and all patrons and staff encouraging me to give the man a chance and give him my card. I have since been in constant contact witht his person who lives in the US and is trying to make a rendez vous weekend to explore.
returning Monday i had a previously arranged date with a gentleman that I met on line a year and a half ago. He called me out of the blue asking if we could meet.
all nice men