Where do you meet men??
I believe good people are everywhere. In the video I want to demonstrate that to you, firstly by telling you some of the unusual places I’ve met people, and then by asking you and conducting a little experiment…
Where do you meet men? Where was the last place you met a quality guy?
Let me know in the comments below.
I want you to think of this as an experiment where the more comments we get, the better this is going to be. I’m then going to draw on all of your comments in my next video and let you know the results.
Be specific about where you were, what the location was, and what type of location it was.
Were you taking a class, doing one of your hobbies, were you grabbing a coffee, shopping…tell us!
Retweet this, get it to your friends, share it on your Facebook, pass it on to as many people as possible, and encourage them to comment too.
The more comments we get, the more effective this is going to be. So I can’t wait to read yours!
Matthew x
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I’ve met them at the golf course and/or hitting the driving range. Fundraisers, cultural events and/or conferences. And believe it or not, even received a marriage proposal after one day working as an extra for a tv show. Who knew…and no I didn’t accept. An yes to online, but not really for me. And of course various social media venues, as well.
And lest not forget horseracing trackside…
The last few guys I met were online. Not good results in general. The last guy I met in person was through college classes. We had a few classes together and a relationship just evolved through friendship.
I met a great guy on Pukkelpop, that’s a festival in Belgium.
My last boyfriend was a friend of my stepbrother, I met him on my stepbrohters 18th birthdayparty.
The last guy I dated I met at a mutual friend’s going away party. It turned out that we had about 10+ friends in common and went to the same college and had the same major. That’s been a fairly common trend for all the guys I meet: through mutual friends and at parties.
met him in a meetup.com group. I’m not in that group anymore or with that boyfriend so I’m not mentioning the group name since I do not want to promote them. the group is in Toronto and is a general social group.
Hi Matthew!
I think a person can find amazing guys anywhere if one is open to it. However, I have met my favorite men through activities that my children are involved in:: hockey, tae Kwon do, soccer (football) etc. My latest Mr. Wonderful I met through mutual friends while I was already sort of dating someone else. I started setting up Mr. W with a number of my single girlfriends when I realized what a complete idiot I was and decided I wanted to keep him. We get along famously and are somewhere between friends and almost more than friends and I’m quite happy with it. Not only do I get to practice ditching the friend zone with him, which is super fun, but I also I get to practice meeting guys like at Starbucks or my gym. Although I’m not the casual hookup type, I’m also not ready for a serious long term relationship. I always laugh at the section in your book where you ask the reader to think of where your ideal man is on a Saturday night, like a sports bar, and go there, because my ideal guy would be at home watching a movie or playing video games with his kids. I always imagine myself peering in these single dad’s windows enticing them with a bag of freshly popped popcorn… :)
All in all, I’m having a tremendously fun time everywhere I go.
Thank you for your book, advice and fabulous videos.
Much love from a Canadian fan xo
I met my last bf at a friends’ wedding. He sat at my friends’ table and as we left, I gave him my contact info (even though we never spoke) because he wanted to go to a swing dancing festival with my friends.
I also chatted with someone at a church picnic because we were both looking for hamburger buns but didn’t go out with him because we had different priorities in life.
Hey Matthew,
I met the last very special guy about 4 years ago on my 1 year trip in Australia. We lived in the same backyard in tents for about 2 months. We both knew there was something in the air but as I was traveling with my former boyfriend, there was no chance at that time. We met again in Bangkok a few months later but still, I was with my boyfriend.
We stayed in touch via Facebook and 2 years later he came to visit me on his Europe trip. I was single at that time and the time we spent here was magical. Even so many years after we first met we had that very special connection.
Today, again 2 years later, we are still in touch and visit each other from time to time. If we wouldn’t live on different continents, I guess I would have found my true soulmate.
This story tells me, that you meet the good guys when you expect it the least. Good guys are everywhere, you just need to believe in it!
Hey Mat,
I meet him in Amika Club in Dubai, I foud him so gentleman..we have so many things in common and i like it..we been friends for more then 4 month now. i likes him and he sound the same..
I met him at a wedding I was attending. He was managing the reception, and I had to give him my number in the event he found any lost items to return to attendees. He called and asked if he could continue to call.
Hi matthew
I met him at my job at the vision center of a superstore. He works in a different department in the store. It didnt work with him because all he want is to be physical, which we have, under the influence, but nothing serious. Im really attracted to him, but i dont want to end up with a guy like him. My problem is i am attracted to the guys like him, and the guys who are actually nice to me and wants me for more than physical, I am not attracted to them. So i am waiting for your next video to learn where i can find great guys
Anika
I met my last boyfriend at a friend’s house party in 2000. My wallet was stolen at the party and he offered me money to get home. We had spoken briefly during the party and dance once or twice if I remember. We were together for 3 years and are still friends but he wasn’t right for me so I broke it off.
I met my exboyfriend at a meeting being held by an organization on campus at college. We spoke a few days after and realized we had some friends in common. We dated for 5yrs, we grew apart in so many ways.
I met him at a poolside barbecue organized by a group in my university to sort of meet new people, kinda like a meet and great.
I met him during springbreak in panama city beach. Literally inside the club, he asked me for a dance, and that was it. yeah, not a good place to meet guys, but trust me i met one of the greatest guys i’ve ever known there. So don’t judge based on the location.
After being married for 24 years, I have now been single for 4 years. I have not meet anyone that I have had a date with (or maybe more) other than via on-line dating sight.
What does that say about me…. Hmmm
A wedding – a destination wedding at that. My good friend and coworker was getting married, in Sun Valley – who could resist -Beautiful resort awesome skiing. I didn’t want to go alone, so i bullied a guy friend into coming with me. (seriously who passes up a paid trip to sun valley) so here we are at this wedding, and i’m dancing on the dance floor with some of the younger kids. swinging them around, making them feel like little diva’s, and a guy asks me to dance. Just comes up and says, lets show them how it’s done. From there we just clicked, when we both came back to seattle he asked me out on date. i said, yes, we had fun, always had “adventure” dates. Didn’t sleep together for awhile…lasted for awhile before we decided to move on because we were looking for different things.
I just met a new guy recently but we were introduced to one another by my moms boyfriend. this new guy works with him. He thought we might hit it off and via text on his phone exchanged pics and then new guy have me his # through my moms boyfriend. I called him and we met up a couple of days later. This was last week so it’s all new but I think we really hit it off. Hope to see him soon! Before him I met a guy online-that scene is not for me. Before that it was a year ago I lived in Georgia and I was doing a lot of TV movie extra work and I met a few guys on set. When you are in holding to go on set for a scene sometimes there are long waits and it’s a great time to get to know people. A few of the guys I didn’t like the same way and one we did. We met up for drinks and hung out once and then we had a lot of mid communication so I stopped seeing him for many reasons. So there are a couple of examples :-)
I met my last long-term boyfriend on a trip to Six Flags that was organized by my new co-worker/friend. I had only been in DC for about 2 months so my coworker thought it’d be a fun way for me to meet some people. He had just moved to the city and met my co-worker through a friend. He offered to be our designated driver even though he didn’t know any of us.
Hi Matthew!
I met my ex-boyfriend at a bar in Philadelphia named Monk’s. Its a Belgium beer cafe with the best beer selection on mussels. He offered me his seat at the bar. Ive also recently joined a bowling league at one of our swanky bowling alley’s and I met a couple of nice guys through.
Cristina