How To Get the Guy Podcast

Most people come to this channel looking for advice on love and romantic relationships. But today, we’re talking about something that I think is just as important: friendship. In this episode, I dive into why meaningful friendships are essential not just for happiness, but for your health, confidence, and overall fulfillment in life. From the science behind social connection to the real struggles of making friends as an adult, we unpack what’s really going on, and what you can do about it. Whether you’re feeling lonely, disconnected, or just want stronger relationships in your life, this video will give you

It’s easy to feel discouraged when dating doesn’t go the way you hoped. A great date turns into silence. A real connection fizzles out. And over time, it can start to feel like, “Maybe this just isn’t going to happen for me.” But those stories aren’t the truth. In this episode, Matthew shares 10 mindset shifts to help you navigate dating disappointment without losing your hope or confidence.  If you’ve been feeling exhausted, hopeless, or tempted to give up on dating altogether, this episode will help you change your perspective and move forward. --- ►► Looking for love, clarity, or a

Do you ever watch ‘90s and ‘00s romcoms and wish dating still had that playful, flirty banter that seems to have disappeared with the rise of dating apps? Well… let’s bring back the art of flirting! I recently asked my male Instagram followers to share the most meaningful compliment they’ve ever received and why it stayed with them. The responses were eye-opening. Many men said they rarely receive compliments and one even said he’d never been complimented in his life. Which means when a man does receive a compliment, it can genuinely stay with him for years and create a

Texting can make or break the early stages of dating. One message can create excitement . . . while another can stall things completely. In this episode, Matthew shares 5 practical texting tips designed to help you move promising conversations toward real-life dates. From playful ways to spark intrigue to subtle shifts that build emotional connection, these strategies help you avoid the common patterns that keep people stuck in endless texting without real progress. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Unfortunately, a lot of people are actually really bad at predicting what will make them happy long term. When it comes to dating, many people get stuck on a rigid “type” which is usually a checklist of traits they think their partner must have. But interestingly, research shows that while most people have a long list of qualities they want, they often end up perfectly happy with someone who only matches a few of them. So how do you figure out what will actually make you happy in a relationship? And how do you evaluate that when dating apps mostly let

Many people believe that finding the right partner will finally make them feel complete. But what if the real work begins before the relationship even starts? In this conversation, Matthew sits down with Humble the Poet and shares the lessons that changed the way they understand love, attraction, and self-worth. They dive deep into: why we often chase the wrong people, how childhood patterns influence who we’re attracted to, and why the ability to receive love may be just as important as the ability to give it. Whether you're single, dating, or trying to build healthier connections, this conversation will