How To Get the Guy Podcast

Two years ago, I met Ann at one of my Retreats. She stood up in tears and told me something I’ll never forget: “I feel like I’m not worthy.” Life had given her plenty of reasons to believe it. She had spent years feeling unseen, making herself smaller, and slowly losing touch with the person she used to be. Two years later, I sat down with Ann again to find out what happened next. And even knowing parts of her story, I wasn’t prepared for everything she had to tell me. If life has ever made you question your worth

Sex can bring up some of the biggest questions in dating: When is the right time to sleep with someone? Should you talk about what it means beforehand? And what if you have sex and they suddenly pull away? If you've ever worried that sleeping with someone too soon could make them lose interest—or felt like having sex somehow meant giving away your power—this episode is for you. I'm answering some of the questions people come to me with in full SOS mode, including: When to have sex with someone you're dating How to talk about sex before you sleep together (including a

It starts off feeling like the relationship you've been waiting for. The connection is instant. They can't get enough of you. Every text makes you smile. They talk about the future, make you feel chosen, and leave you wondering how you got so lucky. Then everything changes. The messages slow down. The excitement disappears. You're left replaying every conversation, trying to figure out what happened and whether any of it was real. The hardest part? Love bombing doesn't always look like manipulation. Sometimes it looks exactly like the beginning of a healthy relationship, which is why so many smart, self-aware

After so many requests, Audrey's finally back! In this week's episode, she's answering some of your biggest relationship questions. We talk about rebuilding trust after heartbreak, jealousy over a partner's past, feeling "behind" in dating, keeping a marriage strong, and what really makes someone attractive. Whether you're single, dating, or married, I think there's something in this conversation that will stay with you. --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"Where can I actually meet someone?" It's one of the most common dating questions, and one that's become even more frustrating in the age of dating apps and endless swiping. In this episode, we explore why so many people feel stuck meeting the same kinds of people, whether there's really a "best place" to meet someone great, and the simple shifts that can dramatically increase your chances of finding a meaningful relationship. If you're tired of wondering where all the good men are, or feel like you've exhausted every dating app and social circle, this episode will help you rethink

Love bombing can feel exactly like the beginning of the relationship you've always wanted. The chemistry is instant. They want to see you all the time. They talk about the future, make you feel special, and everything seems to move at lightning speed. Then, just as quickly, something changes. The messages become less frequent, they start pulling away, and you're left wondering whether any of it was real. In this episode, Matthew breaks down three simple ways to tell the difference between genuine interest and love bombing. He explains why intensity isn't the same as intimacy, the warning signs many