How To Get the Guy Podcast

This episode is unlike anything I’ve done on this channel before.  It explores the lessons I’ve learned from my many visits to Japan, including my most recent trip last month. From the power of doing less to a deep sense of collective responsibility, Japan has reshaped how I think about my relationship with others, myself, and life itself.  At the same time, I reflect on the dangers of romanticizing places we don’t fully live in, much like romantic relationships that feel distant or out of reach.  You’ll not only learn more about me, but also walk away with meaningful insights

We often tell ourselves we’ll focus on love “when things calm down”… when we have more time, more energy, or a fresh start. But what if that moment never comes? In this episode, Matthew shares five powerful mindsets to help you stop waiting and start making progress in your love life now. From understanding how overwhelm quietly keeps us stuck, to letting go of the illusion of the “perfect time,” this conversation is about learning how to take action in the middle of a busy, imperfect life. If you’ve been putting your love life on hold or feeling like there’s

As many of you know, meeting Audrey has changed my life in so many meaningful ways. I’ve never felt happier or more fulfilled in a relationship. And because I talk about her so often, this video has been one of the most requested by this community. For a long time, Audrey resisted the idea of doing this video. She genuinely felt that if you’re here to see me each week, you wouldn’t want her stepping in front of the camera. But thanks to your encouragement, she finally agreed to sit down and answer some of your most-asked questions. In this

Many people think commitment is only about timing, but readiness for a relationship is really shaped by feeling truly seen, understood, and safe... In this conversation, Matthew and Audrey explore why so many people feel discouraged about commitment in modern dating. They unpack the belief that no one wants a real relationship anymore, what actually influences someone to become ready for commitment, and how the right dynamic can bring out a more authentic, relationship-ready version of someone. If you’ve been wondering whether commitment is still possible, or how to tell the difference between real potential and wasted time, this episode

Most people come to this channel looking for advice on love and romantic relationships. But today, we’re talking about something that I think is just as important: friendship. In this episode, I dive into why meaningful friendships are essential not just for happiness, but for your health, confidence, and overall fulfillment in life. From the science behind social connection to the real struggles of making friends as an adult, we unpack what’s really going on, and what you can do about it. Whether you’re feeling lonely, disconnected, or just want stronger relationships in your life, this video will give you

It’s easy to feel discouraged when dating doesn’t go the way you hoped. A great date turns into silence. A real connection fizzles out. And over time, it can start to feel like, “Maybe this just isn’t going to happen for me.” But those stories aren’t the truth. In this episode, Matthew shares 10 mindset shifts to help you navigate dating disappointment without losing your hope or confidence.  If you’ve been feeling exhausted, hopeless, or tempted to give up on dating altogether, this episode will help you change your perspective and move forward. --- ►► Looking for love, clarity, or a