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P.S. *Matthew insisted we set business hours because he gives us the same advice he gives you: It’s important to have happy, fulfilled lives. We must admit, a little recharging does feel nice and it makes us much better at giving you the support you need!

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You’ve just put yourself on the path to get the love life of your dreams, and it’s going to happen quicker than you ever imagined!

As a member of Matthew’s Love.Life. VIP Experience (formerly Fast Track to Mr. Right), you’ll get a front-row seat to join monthly LIVE Q+A coaching sessions with him, with the chance to get your pressing question answered in real-time.

This is the only place he offers ongoing live coaching, designed to help you improve your love life, your confidence, and increase your love for life.

You’ll also get bonus webinars with his top-level coaching and special guests, on-demand video training, insider access to his private VIP blog, and a supportive community of like-minded women.

Your 14-Day free trial gives you access to your private Love.Life. Members Area where you’ll find:

  • The date and time of the next LIVE, monthly VIP coaching session with Matthew and his top-level coaches
  • A place to submit your own burning question for a chance for Matthew to answer it personally on an upcoming LIVE webinar
  • Insider access to Matthew’s private VIP blog
  • On-demand coaching
  • A supportive community of women like you
  • Module 1 of your video training unlocked and ready for you to explore (You can start applying these techniques – and seeing results – as soon as tonight!)

If you enjoy Love.Life. (which we know you will), you will be billed $69.95/month for continued access. (Members say the monthly coaching session is so valuable, it alone is worth the cost of the entire program!)

Each month, you’ll unlock another insight-packed training module – along with a private invitation to that month’s VIP webinar – for the same price, instantly accessible online in your private Members Area.

You can cancel your subscription any time by logging in to your Members Area or by emailing our friendly support team at support@howtogettheguy.com.

We’re so confident that Matthew’s programs will transform your love life, each one comes with a 100% money-back guarantee. Here’s how the following programs work:

  • Attract Any Man
  • Attraction to Commitment
  • Get Him Running Back to You
  • How to Talk to Men
  • The Momentum Texts
  • Impact
  • What Men Want

You have 30 days to try these instant-access programs. So take your time! Try out Matthew’s seriously powerful, proven techniques. If they don’t work for you for any reason, just send an email to our customer support team at support@howtogettheguy.com within 30 days of your purchase* and we’ll give you a full refund. (*30 days from the first payment on programs with a payment plan)

At-Home Retreat

With the Matthew Hussey At-Home Retreat, immersion is key to your success, which is why members of this prestigious program have 30 days of unlimited access to all of the life-changing coaching and tools. In order to honestly assess whether you’re ready for the level of transformation that results from the At-Home Retreat, it’s crucial to take those first 30 days to apply the concepts to your life. If you don’t see a dramatic shift in your mindset within 30 days, simply click here and let Customer Support know you would like a refund for your At-Home Retreat program.


It’s called The Matthew Hussey Retreat, and it’s the pinnacle of Matthew’s in-depth training for women.

If you’re truly serious about change, Matthew can take you through a powerful process that will quickly transform your whole life in ways you never dreamed possible.

This process will give you the two essential tools you need to achieve absolutely anything you want:

  1. A Blueprint for your ideal life
  2. The Core Confidence to take action and create your ideal life

There are 3 WAYS to experience the process:

No matter which method of the program you decide is best for you, Matthew guarantees that this intensive training will get you 10 years’ worth of life-changing results in your love life, career, and relationships.

Due to our insanely busy schedule of live events, media appearances, and creating videos and programs for Get the Guy, Matthew and the team just aren’t able to take on personal coaching clients anymore.

But here’s some AMAZING news that just might be an even better solution for you…

Did you know that Matthew offers LIVE coaching sessions with him for his VIPs every month?

As a member of his Love.Life. VIP experience, you’ll get a front-row seat to join monthly LIVE Q+A coaching sessions with him, with the chance to get your pressing question answered in real-time.

This is the only place he offers ongoing live coaching, designed to help you improve your love life, your confidence, and increase your love for life.

You’ll also get bonus webinars with his top-level coaching and special guests, on-demand video training, insider access to his private VIP blog, and a supportive community of like-minded women.

This is the kind of insider access to Matthew – with powerful, personalized advice – that women ask for the most.

If you’re interested in checking out the community, just tap the link below and you can start your free 14-day trial immediately on the next page.

Then, you’ll be taken to your private members area to send Matthew your specific question…

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Please visit our media page where you can submit an inquiry directly, or contact us at media@howtogettheguy.com.

Due to the high volume of inquiries Matthew receives, we regretfully are not able to answer each and every message. However, please know that we sincerely appreciate every opportunity presented!

We know you’re feeling uncertain and like your situation is super complicated. Or dramatic. Or impossible. Or just really, really specific. Which is why you’re wondering, “How can a program that Matthew created for lots of women possibly solve MY problem?”

But if you stood in front of Matthew right now and told him exactly what was going on for you, he’d tell you, “Trust me. Let me be your partner here. Follow my steps, and together we’re going to get you results, so you can stop stressing and start enjoying your love life again.”

The truth is, your success and happiness in love depends very little on the specifics of your situation with a particular man – and much more on your commitment and ability to master a few crucial areas:

Understanding how men really think and what motivates them to behave the way they do in dating/relationships

  • Creating lasting attraction
  • Setting your standard for how you expect to be treated and maintaining it
  • Communicating effectively with men
  • Building a relationship from the casual phases through a solid commitment

Matthew offers programs to help you master every one of these areas and, yes, they will work for you, regardless of your specific situation. All you have to do is follow the plan he sets out for you!

Remember, Matthew is so confident that his advice and techniques will get you results that he offers a 30-Day money-back guarantee* on many of his programs. If your program doesn’t work for you, you don’t pay, so there’s no risk at all for you to give it a try.

*Please note: All of Matthew’s love life programs (and Impact) come with a 30-Day Money-Back Guarantee processed via email. The Matthew Hussey At-Home Retreat also comes with a 30-Day Money-Back Guarantee and refund requests must be made via the VIP customer support link within the program. But still completely risk-free to give it a try!


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It’s true that most of our content was created with women in mind, but we find that our At-Home Retreat Program and Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat programs have incredible effects for any gender! If you’re feeling uncertain, we encourage you to go ahead and give them a try regardless of your circumstances. We think you’ll love them. They’re incredible, life-changing programs.


“I can now confidently say that you’ve shattered my whole world and helped me see the beautiful vibrancy that is this life. I live with a newfound joy in my heart every second of every day.”

-Eric (Male At-Home-Retreat Graduate)


The best part about The At-Home Retreat is that you don’t have to take our word for it – try it for yourself and see what you think! If you find that this program isn’t working for you, you can initiate a cancellation request within 30 days.

Start My Journey From Home

Another fantastic program for men is Impact, Matthew’s core non-love life related program. Focusing on the ways people can have “impact” in their lives – negotiation, networking, public speaking, debate etc. – Matthew walks you through the tools that have helped shape his own success in the media and as a speaker. These life-changing concepts can be applied in your personal life, your career, and in dating to skyrocket your confidence.

Start Making an Impact