Where do you meet men??
I believe good people are everywhere. In the video I want to demonstrate that to you, firstly by telling you some of the unusual places I’ve met people, and then by asking you and conducting a little experiment…
Where do you meet men? Where was the last place you met a quality guy?
Let me know in the comments below.
I want you to think of this as an experiment where the more comments we get, the better this is going to be. I’m then going to draw on all of your comments in my next video and let you know the results.
Be specific about where you were, what the location was, and what type of location it was.
Were you taking a class, doing one of your hobbies, were you grabbing a coffee, shopping…tell us!
Retweet this, get it to your friends, share it on your Facebook, pass it on to as many people as possible, and encourage them to comment too.
The more comments we get, the more effective this is going to be. So I can’t wait to read yours!
Matthew x
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i met my exboyfriend to a bdayparty, because a friend introduced us. most of the guys I met trough some common friends, wether we met on an gelateria or to a cafe bar in downtown.
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the last guy i met was through a single muslim marriage web site
Online … first meeting at a winery. It seems these days that online is the only safe place to see and be seen.
I met my last friend at one of my rentals, he was visting his sister. We dated 6 years. He turned out to be a jerk. I stayed in the relationship to long.
I meet men from Online dating sites, or Facebook. I am not normally approached in public and if I am, It’s not from quality men, they are usually creepy and gross, meaning over weight, stink, say foul things. I have men look at me in public all the time, and I give a friendly smile, most the time they snap their head the other way. Which always tells me that they were not looking because they were interested, mostly because I stand out because I am so tall. It destroys your self esteem over the years for sure.
I met my 2 ex BF’s at work…one turned out to be a mutual break up and the other a playboy jerk….and the next guy i turned my gaze upon seems to be a play boy too….wat a waste…!!!!
My friend took me to the opening of his friend who is a photographer. He was doing an exhibition of his work. I really liked him, and we got on really well, talking and laughing for most of the night, as we went altogether to a pub after words. I invited him to my birthday party, and after my birthday party we started to date each other. It was all great at the beginning but he’s a kind of party animal, with an idea of less-stress life, so commitment isn’t his thing I guess. Though if I would read “get the guy” at the same time as I was dating him, we would be still together.
Gym. I was minding my own business then he decided to come up and mind it for me. (extra info – me 39, him 24)
Not sure if this is really helpful, but I found an ‘old friend’ on Facebook after not speaking or seeing him for approx. 20 years. He only lived two hours by car away from me. Sure enough he came to visit and we hit it off.
Still two years into the relationship it was a harsh awakening, since he turned out to be very judgmental of others, had trust issues with people being honest, and then he actually tried to fit me into his frame of mind-set of that category too (all that after he was so very smitten about me and the relationship for the first part) … As you can imagine it ended in heart-break and emotional turmoil.
My take on this …. There is no guarantee in relationships to turn out to be everlasting in joy and happiness….
If you ask me, love yourself more and refrain from placing all your heart-energy into another human being. If you feel you must be in a relationship take good care of yourself and NEVER open your heart fully, always keep a bit of a distance so you won’t that the rug gets pulled under you when shit hits the fence.
I stopped to engage, because I can’t withhold as I would like to be engaged fully and being able to show up as my true and authentic self by opening my heart. Yet with the odds of “Nothing lasts forever” I have lost trust to not being hurt eventually.
I decided to not have a relationship at all, because it hurts too much when the guy changes his mind, doesn’t feel it anymore, or simply turns into a cheater because one woman never is enough when it comes to the sexual department, or him being insecure whether he should be with you or his ex! Most of them simply like diversity (no matter how good looking you are for him as it creates chemistry, no matter how kind and loving you are, no matter how great you all get along at the beginning due to mutual interests, no matter how much value you are creating for him since that will be taken for granted at some point and time etc.)
For all the people who are looking to be in a relationship, I do agree with Matt, one can meet guys everywhere, at best hang out at places that pertain to your Likes if you look for a mutual interest relationship (Art-Galleries, Study-Groups, Cooking-Classes, Swimming-Pools, Golf-and Tennis Clubs, you name it! Whatever your heart’s desire.
Girls, just please be aware that you probably won’t find a guy in a club if you look for a serious relationship. 99% of guys in there only look for a quick pick-up. ( … and NEVER date the DJ!!! – he is well sought after by hundreds or thousands of other women, so he will have his pick of choice very night to take home someone else!)
Take good care of yourselves ;-)
I met my soon to be ex of 16 years in the MOA at his job at Macy’s
I believe the best place to find someone, is threw the places you go in your own life. If you go out searching then you could end up with nothing in common. At least if it’s a place you usually go, then the chances are higher you have something in common.
I met my current boyfriend at a cadets’ student party.
I sat on a sofa at this night club this party was held and my cadet was leaning on a sofa next to it. Then one of his cadet friend put an empty glass on the sofa. I asked him if I should move the glass to the table next to the sofa and then I moved it. After that he sat next to me and we started talking and he talked to me the whole night and called me the next day exactly the time he had promised (I told him he could have my number if he was going to use it).
I met him wearing a t-shirt and my baggy university overalls as pants(student thing in Finland) and we have been a couple now for 6 months and I couldn’t be happier. He admitted noticing me before that but he is a bit shy with women so he may have never talked to me without me giving an easy starting point. So sometimes it’s really worth giving a hint/opportunity to a guy you would like to get to know better.
In Facebook
Okay, I’m not going to say where I met my last boyfriend because he was not a good man to me. But I will say where I met the current guy I’m talking with. I met him in San Marcos at Texas State University in a class. It was political science. I met him through my friend Kaitlin, and we sat next to each other throughout the whole semester. We became good friends, and he kept in contact with me since I left. I came back home in Houston due to health reasons. I later found out I have a gluten intolerance, and other food allergies I was unaware of that was making me so ill. This past March, he sent me a letter on Facebook. The letter was a confession that he had feelings for me. After reading the letter, I was upset because he told me this on Facebook of all things. I also had no clue that he was interested in me, until he brought it to my attention. I told him, “Will, I wish you would have told me sooner because you could of saved me from dating all these douches”. We worked through the confusion over the phone, and we’ve been talking since. After talking with him for awhile, I found out that he’s a romantic. He thinks of little ways to show his affection for me. One day, he asks me what do I eat for meals. I told him a long list of things, and he says, “Tomorrow I’m going to live my day how you live yours. I’ll text you everything right before I eat it to clear it with you so that I don’t accidently cheat”. I was surprised and asked him if he is really going to do it. His response was, “Of course. I mean, I have no excuse not to. For just one day, I’ll be doing what you do everyday. If I can’t last one day, there’s something very wrong with me”.
This guy is amazing! I can’t believe I found someone who is supportive and loving, and many things I’ve been looking for. Things have been great and I can’t wait to see where this relationship will take us!
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I meet my last boyfriend at a my church camp when we were teenagers. started off as friends.
I met my ex husband in my local gym I went to, after I had just returned from being overseas for a year. I met my last boyfriend, in our local pub/restaurant here in Pietermaritzburg, South Africa, and we had just finished watching the Rugby World cup and a live band had started to play. I was sitting on my own at the table, while my friends were greeting other friends, when this man approached me and asked me to dance. We danced (and I had so much fun because we danced so well together), that when he asked for my number, I gave it to him and hoped he would call. He did, and we made arrangements to see each other a week later and then we continued to date from then. It was the dancing and having fun that got me.
I met my last boyfriend in the school cafeteria. My friends brought him and he introduced himself, so I did the same and we ended up talking for the whole lunch period.
I met the last 3 guys I dated at a Food & Wine Festival (I ran into mutual friends and he happened to be with them), a drive through In&Out (he was in a taxi at the drive through and I was walking by the taxi), and at a bar in another city (he was standing by the bar and came up and said hi to me).
The last guy I met was on the bus! We started a conversation, and became really great friends!
The first (and last so far) guy I met after my 19 1/2 year marriage ended actually came to my house to give me an estimate on a roof repair. Needless to say that did not last very long. I’m trying to get up the courage to start getting involved in different groups in my area. They vary from singles to fitness and anywhere in between. I’m just not good at meeting new people.