Where do you meet men??
I believe good people are everywhere. In the video I want to demonstrate that to you, firstly by telling you some of the unusual places I’ve met people, and then by asking you and conducting a little experiment…
Where do you meet men? Where was the last place you met a quality guy?
Let me know in the comments below.
I want you to think of this as an experiment where the more comments we get, the better this is going to be. I’m then going to draw on all of your comments in my next video and let you know the results.
Be specific about where you were, what the location was, and what type of location it was.
Were you taking a class, doing one of your hobbies, were you grabbing a coffee, shopping…tell us!
Retweet this, get it to your friends, share it on your Facebook, pass it on to as many people as possible, and encourage them to comment too.
The more comments we get, the more effective this is going to be. So I can’t wait to read yours!
Matthew x
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dont know if your checking the comments after this time but: I’m 32 and have been with my ‘the one’ for 5 months. He was a random friend request on facebook. I have some crazy evil family so NEVER accept friend random requests from people with no mutual friends, but for some reason I accepted this guys request. After checking out his photos all I thought was ‘how original another guy who likes camping and fishing’ what a right off. But we chatted a few times on facebook and met up one night as both our groups were going out to the same thing. 5 months later I couldnt be happier to be with this amazing person. He still doesnt know why he sent me that friend request except that in my profile photo I had a wig on and looked totally different, and ‘I looked familiar’ :) heres to facebook randoms !
Hi Matt,
I think what you are doing for us women is so great and empowering!
The guy I met was at a cafe. After going through the fast track program, I decided to create an opportunity, got proximity to the guy and asked him if the drink he was having was any good and if he would recommend it. Since then, I have been on two dates with him. After that he went overseas for a few weeks and I did as well. We have not spoken since the dates ( around a month and a half ago ) and I do not want to wait but rather create an opportunity with him and still have him chase me, but I am unsure how to play it. I thought of sending him a “clarrifier” text or a simple text saying ‘hey how was your trip?’ I need your advice though! What would you suggest? :)
I like this guy at my gym and we have small conversations here and there but I don’t know how to take things further. When I first met him I felt like we had a connection but now it’s casual. I’m pretty sure he doesn’t have a girlfriend. I can’t think of things to talk about, I’ve watched your videos Matt, they are great, but I still can’t think of things to say! I’m enthusiastic when I talk, I compliment him, I don’t know!
Oddly enough I met a guy at a strip club. I make it a strict policy not to date customers but there was just something about this guy that told me he wasn’t the typical strip club type. We quickly became friends then started dating. I’m still trying to break through his relationship issues, he still refers to us as just being friends however, he’s always taken a great interest in the things I do, encourages me in my new career and he does bring me around his friends all the time (two of which we spend time with on a regular basis, going on double dates). He’s always telling everyone who’s around us how wonderful, sweet and gorgeous I am.
I don’t think I’m misreading his feelings for me but it has been almost a year now and it would be great if he would actually acknowledge me as his girlfriend.
What do you think Matthew?
Hi There,
I met the last guy i dated at a dinner dance event in the city. A group of us went for the meal, and he came for the dancing after. He was the friend of one of the couples i was with. The place was quite up market and sophisticated and i felt nice as soon as i walked in. These night also attracts a slightly older crowd to bars or clubs so it was ideal. The relationship lasted a short while and to put it simply, he spent every day showing me how much he liked me and how i can trust him, and then one day did a compleate U- Turn. I was quite put off from going to these events again not for fear of seeing him or anything like that but i just felt funny. Anyway- went along to one at Christmas, met a guy, exchanged numbers droppped a few of your lines in the conversation, had a brief 2 day text conversation, said he’d call me…………never did!
Hey mathew
m indira the first time I saw him was at work he is my boss he’s a Jeweller , I work under him first I thought it was an attraction n it wud go away bt now I seriously like him even he likes me despite he’s my boss we hung up like 2 or 3 tymes bt now m seriously falling for him.. What bothers me the most is I feel he’s Neva serious abt me he accepts that he likes me bt Neva said that he loves me.. Biggest mistake I did was I slept with him before our relation could take any conclusion..!! N now he behaves like I am any other person and not serious abt me now I can’t figure out what to do next..!! Will he ever propose me ?? I wanna make this coming valentine really special..!! I want him so badly bt he doesn’t give me a fuck .is he ignoring me just because he has high status and I am just a worker for him?? Is it because he’s established and m not?? Should I let it go jus coz hes rich personality and m still struggling??.. Please help me out with this!! Can’t wait to hear frm u!!
I met my ex-boyfriend while I attend CCD classes. He was in my class, but he never approached me. Until one day, our class went to go do community service for a local Ronald McDonald Charity. Him, another classmate and I were partnered up. We exchanged a few words, and ever since that day we started talking more often during class, and he eventually sat beside me every Sunday at mass. Suddenly one day, he asked for my number. We started talking and became good friends. We had a solid friendship for a year, until one day he popped the question. Eventually things didn’t end up working out, but we left in good terms.
I met my last four boyfriends in night clubs around Oklahoma City. Only one of them was a “good quality guy”…the other three turned out to be either lazy losers, and one cheating playboy.
Last guy I dated I met him at shoppers world bus terminal, I caught him looking at me and thought he wants a cigarette. One thing let to another and now a year later we are still good friends
I met a guy at a social function in a fraternity house last year.I went with my friends and were just mingling with different groups.He and I talked the whole time and had this magic moment when we shared eye contact. I was taking pictures with one of my girl friends and he asked if he could have a picture with me. He then used his phone to take the picture and send it to me therefore got my number…
We went out to parties together and he took me out for dinners. It was all good but I don’t know why at some point he just stopped trying. I did have sex with him so right now I feel like he is just using me for sex. I told him yesterday that I wanted to end this weird relationship between us and I want to find someone else that would treat me more like a girlfriend. He looked a little upset but he didn’t fight for it!! He agreed to take a step back because he felt I was too high pressured and he didn’t like seeing the sad & angry side of me.
Basically I gave up on him and told him that we could still hang out but I’m no longer taking him seriously. I really need to move on and find a new guy because I want to be able to say “no” the next time he calls me.
The last guy I met was at the 24 Hour Fitness gym in my local area of San Diego.
In class, we were classmate and knew each other very well.
I met the last guy I dated in a club for people who like the same kind of music. Everyone is really friendly and they do an activity once a week or so.
I met my current boyfriend through a friend. I sing and needed a pianist to accompany me and she suggested him. A year and a half later, we’re together. He still accompanies me when I sing.
I met my last boyfriend in an elevator of all places! He came into the elevator with a moving box and I said “moving in or moving out?” He was moving in — just my luck – and we ended up dating for 4 years!
I’ve been single now for about 3 months and I meet men *everywhere* — the secret is confidence and eye contact. If I want someone to come up and talk to me I glance at him several times and smile a little and it works like magic. My top places are: cafe’s, the grocery store and at happy hours.
Usually I try to look for them at social activities, that do not have to do with single meetups at all. People seem to be more relaxed there…
san
I met my guy in the gym while I did my exercices. He came over and asked me “Hey, you wanna go out for a drink?”
The last guy I met at work and the first time we looked at each other there was a connection.
I met my last boyfriend when we sat next to each other in English class in 3rd grade….haha don’t worry that wasn’t the last time I dated him…I actually dated him earlier last year
The last guy I met was at a cantina after a concert we had both been to. He sat next to me and my friend and I noticed he was wearing the same wrist band from the concert. I asked him how he liked the show. We ended up talking over an hour about music and other things and my friend left the cantina to meet someone else. He and I have been emailing ever since, but haven’t physically seen him sine the first encounter. We seem to have several things in common. However I feel that men are really flakey these days and prefer to keep the relationship at bay via email or text. Men don’t seem to take risks anymore to initiate a date and connect with a girl. It’s frustrating and I don’t have time to play these games anymore and it’s a waste of energy. I wish men were more confident and willing to take risks. If I didn’t initiate a conversation with him we never would have talked. Plus he gave me his email address and told me to contact him. He didn’t ask me for mine! I feel that he should have. However, at the very least I met a new person that I can talk about music with and go to shows.