Where do you meet men??
I believe good people are everywhere. In the video I want to demonstrate that to you, firstly by telling you some of the unusual places I’ve met people, and then by asking you and conducting a little experiment…
Where do you meet men? Where was the last place you met a quality guy?
Let me know in the comments below.
I want you to think of this as an experiment where the more comments we get, the better this is going to be. I’m then going to draw on all of your comments in my next video and let you know the results.
Be specific about where you were, what the location was, and what type of location it was.
Were you taking a class, doing one of your hobbies, were you grabbing a coffee, shopping…tell us!
Retweet this, get it to your friends, share it on your Facebook, pass it on to as many people as possible, and encourage them to comment too.
The more comments we get, the more effective this is going to be. So I can’t wait to read yours!
Matthew x
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I met my last boyfriend while holidaying on a campus of 150 people. I was carrying my laundry to be washed and he was standing on a 2nd floor landing staring at me lol. I placed my laundry down on the ground and ran up the 2 flights of stairs and crept up on him and gave him a fright. We chatted for 6 hours and a romance blossomed from there we were together for 4 years.
It would be the same if you were asking – what time of day, or – what weather is best for meeting guys? – It doesn’t matter. You can meet a great guy anywhere. The places we meet people we fall in love with are as random and diverse as any ones we visit every day. It’s not about the place, it’s your state of mind and heart that will attract him into your life. The precision and speed of finding him depends primarily on how you feel about yourself, not where you roam.
I met him at my friends boyfriends house. It is his cousin and he was there while my girlfriend and i where cooking a meal for her boyfriend. he joined for dinner. after that i met him a couple of times while i was having a drink with my girlfrien, her boyfriend and him joined us. A couple of weeks later we started dating.
I met him at church where i used to sit next to him.
The last guy I dated I met at a chiropractic clinic. He was my chiropractor…. I think he broke some kind of code by dating me.
Hey Matt!
I met my last boyfriend abroad while I was doing an exchange from university. He came over to our dorm to visit a friend. We made eye contact briefly but never spoke to each other (when we met again later he told me that he ‘noticed’ me back then). Months later he came over again and we were introduced to each other. I told my friend that I found him interesting and she set us up for lunch. After several dates I was pretty sure he was interested. We were taking a walk once and I was telling him about games teenagers play in my country. When I was explaining about ‘spin the bottle’ (they don’t play that in their country) I dared him to kiss me and he did. Note: I didn’t specify where.
It didn’t work out in the end, but it was a fun experience.
I met him on a train. I noticed him immediately but didn’t dare to approach him. Then after an hour or so I saw he had taken out and started reading my favourite book. In that moment all I heard was Master Matthew’s voice in my head, saying “Enough with the bullshit excuses!!” So my heart pounding I started a conversation with him (about the book).
We’ve been dating since.
Hi Emma,
I love that you took a chance and it paid off. Thanks for sharing! x
And oh, this was only two weeks (!) after I started to follow your blog and videos. So THANK YOU, Matt – you really know your stuff.
(I wonder how many lives you’ve changed???)
That makes me feel great. Thanks, Emma!
I met my last boyfriend through a good friend of mine, at his house. She was hanging out there, and she introduced me to him. We were pretty interested in each other, and ended up dating for about 10 months. I loved that he was a mechanic and loved working on cars. That was what intrigued me about him.
ex collegue in canary wharf
On Paddy’s day in a small community on the edge of south west Ireland almost a year ago. We talked a bit and the next time I met him we talked a bit more and more.
A real quality guy, unfortunately it didn’t work out. One of the reasons that it didn’t get a real chance is that we both knew that he was not staying and I’m not leaving. Like almost every time the new great men that I meet are just passing through. If I look at the men who are living here (and believe me I DID), the chances of finding a great single guy are very small. Can’t you make a topic about how to get a guy in a small rural community with a cold, rainy and windy climate and convincing him to stay while most of the time your covered in mud, smelling of seaweed and manure and wearing big sweaters and wellies? Maybe the reason why they don’t stick around is that I’m to crazy for them for liking my life the way it is.
The last time I met a guy was when i was attending my theories of crime class at my university campus. He sat a few rows in front of me but we really started to talk outside of the room before class would start. We liked some of the same stuff but at the end of it all I called it off because we had very different views on the amount of alcohol one should consume weekly :/
Hi, the last guy that I met was my ex schoolmate.
He invited me for a peaceful protest rally.
It was my first experience joining the rally at the stadium
Merdeka,KL in Malaysia..
After the rally, we both meet up with his parents to say Hi.
Then, he have got to rush back with the majority to leave KL.
He is really helpful,protective and caring.
Does meeting an ex schoolmate count as meeting a guy,too?
He will have to fly to the US soon.
i met him on one web site,he wrote to me,it was so funny when he say that accidentally found me,and he has decide to wrote me anyway.and we are chating long time,the first time he invited me to the dance…next to dinner,He was very attentive,and romantic,suddenly he stopped writing, he says it does not have as much time,i asked him is there something wrong?He said that nothing is wrong, that is all right but has little time.hmm but in all 24 hours,he can take just 1min to send me hello.he could at least be honest and say that I’m not more interesting for him.
I met my current boyfriend (yes i still read your blog even though i now have a boyf, because without you i wouldn’t have one!) in the street. My friend and i were on our way to a bar and he asked us where it was :)
Aside from that ive met guys at bars, on planes, in class, through friends
xxx
The last guy was someone I had seen around town several times but never spoke to. I had the attitude that if he was interested he would talk to me so I never said a word — neither did he. Then shortly after I started the Fast Track program I saw him at the gym. I decided to practice some of the techniques from your program and it really paid off! We started talking and hanging out together and although he ended up not being “Mr. Right” I made a great new friend!
Hi Clara,
I love stories like this that show that you have to create the moment! Thanks for sharing. x
Around early September this guy moved into my neighborhood from Idaho. At the time I knew nothing I his existence; however, my best friend and I had spent a lot of time in public this month. While We were in public we kept on seeing this guy who would wave at us. After maybe our third time seeing him, we started to wonder who it was that we kept seeing. We never spoke to him, but for about a month we continued to see him everywhere we went and in the neighborhood. One day on the way to class we spotted him riding his bike, and I said, “look it’s that guy again!” And my friend expressed her desire to know his name, so as we were driving past him, I rolled down the wind and yelled, “Hey, what’s your name?!” And he yelled his name back. Later on I found out that he was in one of our vocal classes, and, that same day that all of this occurred, I invited him to lunch. Since then we have found out how freaky it is that we have so much in common, and we have been dating for a few months.
I met an awesome guy at a urban dance club in Frankfurt (Germany – I’m from there).
I saw him and was totally fascinated by his aunthentic smile and dance style.
After smiling at each other and dancing next to each other for a while he introduced himself. We had a great conversation for about 3 hours. It was the first time I have felt so comfortable talking to a guy since years. Unhappily, he broke up message contact after a few weeks. I don`t know the reason why, but I hope I’ll sometime meet a guy like that, though, who wants to get a step further. But I’m sure about that – Thank you, Matthew!
Last guy I met, not a boyfriend or someone I dated, was on an airplane. He was the cutest flight crew I ever saw. I was reading a book, tried the look trick Mathew talked about in “Fast Track to Mr Right”. He smiled in return. That gave me a bit of encouragement and I tried the handkerchief trick, but with a bookmark. I purposely dropped my bookmark (oops) and next thing I know, the guy picks up the bookmark, and started a conversation. I didn’t get a date or a number but I did get a bag full of chocolates from the guy :)
has been really nice to think about this – the most memorable place i have met a guy was at a campsite. i stayed in a tent for a few weeks in queensland as i was working whilst travelling. i came out of my tent one morning n saw the guy in the next tent. although we had met and spoken before this was the moment that the ‘OMG!’ penny dropped. we had some lovely times, and even met up in New Zealand. alas it wasnt meant to be.
I work in a ‘computer’ store, and the guy bought a ipod shuffle from me, when I rang up the bill he asked if he could get my number with that!!! Blush! It was extremely unprofessional for me to give it to him, I mean I could have lost my job, but I did it. because he was probably the cutest floppy haired snowboarder I have ever seen. The next day I met up with him and we ended up taking a whirlwind trip to the mountains nearby. Best bit was that we listened to that stupid little ipod the whole time :)