Where do you meet men??
I believe good people are everywhere. In the video I want to demonstrate that to you, firstly by telling you some of the unusual places I’ve met people, and then by asking you and conducting a little experiment…
Where do you meet men? Where was the last place you met a quality guy?
Let me know in the comments below.
I want you to think of this as an experiment where the more comments we get, the better this is going to be. I’m then going to draw on all of your comments in my next video and let you know the results.
Be specific about where you were, what the location was, and what type of location it was.
Were you taking a class, doing one of your hobbies, were you grabbing a coffee, shopping…tell us!
Retweet this, get it to your friends, share it on your Facebook, pass it on to as many people as possible, and encourage them to comment too.
The more comments we get, the more effective this is going to be. So I can’t wait to read yours!
Matthew x
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We met on facebook! Certainly the most hopeless place to meet someone..
Gas station in order to fix my friend up which was my only intention. Great line I used and if interested, I can leave it next time. It worked like a gem and now he won’t leave her alone thanks to me.
Grocery store I used to work at in a nice neighborhood in downtown Chicago. All were cutomers; 2 of them became really interesting friends and all were very sweet guys.
I met my boyfriend through mutual friends! My best friend and his best friend are dating, and they set us up, so we all went out to the club and we hit it off.
I haven’t been in a relationship for over 5 years, and the guy I dated then I met over 10 years ago at college in Greenville, SC. He played intramural soccer with some of my mutual friends and I met him through them.
Other quality people I’ve gone on dates with I met:
Volunteering to paint at a community center in Atlanta with a church group
Volunteering on a high school church retreat at Panama City Beach
I met the last guy I dated because we were both serving on a nonprofit board (shared cause, natural reason to interact, and we became friends first).
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Last bf I had, I met online.
Our first date in person was at Forest Room 5, a cool bar in Denver.
I met one guy I dated while riding my road bike…..he just popped up right beside me and we started chatting.
Another guy I dated I met in a hotel elevator in Hartfort, Connecticut (to be fair we had played the flirty eye game the evening before in the hotel gym, so it made conversation easy).
And yet another fella I met and dated had the lucky happenstance of crossing paths while sharing an airport shuttle back to our cars and discussing how much we both loved to ski (both of us were returning from ski vacays).
And there ya have it.
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Best,
Kami
The last guy I was seeing first asked me out while I was working. He was a customer (I work at a smoothie joint), and I asked him how his day was going. We got to talking and he gave me his buisness card and asked if I wanted to go out to dinner sometime. I’m not 100% sure if he was a quality guy, he wasn’t a bad person but he admitted to being somewhat of a manwhore. We saw each other for about a month and a half and he was always sweet to me. He has a baby on the way from one of his hookups though and doesn’t have time for a relationship, but I’d still say the experience was a good one and I’m glad I made conversation with him that day :) I have a new friend now at least!
I met him at a surprise birthday party for a mutual family friend.
The last guy I dated (briefly) I met online. Brief because it turns out that he had a problem being honest (deal breaker) and was obsessed with bantering about his ex wife and complaining about his child support payments (3 teenagers). His profile was the exact opposite of who he is in reality.
The other is someone I dated for 2.5 years and met through work. He is senior to me and lives in another city. As it turns out, he likes to date the payroll and has someone in each city that he travels to. Ick.
I am learning so much through Matthew and his videos and book. I can now spot and understand why I tend to be attracted to and to attract……the wrong types. It is exciting to look forward to what is ahead. My eyes are wide open everywhere I go – oh and my antenna is up :)
Good for u! I feel the same way. Glad I am learning and also looking forward to getting the guy and keeping him:)
I met my last guy I dated for 2 mths at a craft market. We were both there selling. I am a New Orleans children book author and illustrate for the Juju the GOOD voodoo series and he did beautiful wood carved cutting boards. His table was across from mine.
Matthew I just adore u! Thanks for your time and effort in helping people who have are having a hard time finding someone :)
In English pub in Abu Dhabi lol x
I met a “perfect catch” of a guy who was my contact at a local sports venue. My church would go to the local WNBA games.
It didnt work out because I didn’t know all of the wonderful things Matthew teaches. I am looking forward to getting the next perfect catch;)
I met the last Guy on the corner of the Kalverstraat in Amsterdam. He bumped in to me and my cup of Starbucks wich he ended up to be covered in lol x
I’m 42 years old. I’ve had two long term relationships with the only two guys I’ve ever dated. I’ve been single for 4+ years now. About a year and a half ago, I “hung out” with a guy, on and off, for about 6 months. I met him online. He was not a good person. I met my first boyfriend in college. I met my second boyfriend at the gym where we both worked out. In the last couple of years I’ve been on a few dates with guys I met online and one other guy I met through a friend.
It’s extremely rare to meet a good person, let alone a good man. I don’t think there’s any one place to meet good people or good men. But I wish all the ladies who are currently searching good luck and happiness.
The guy I met, that I am most interested in, was working on my friends house in the mountains of North Carolina. We were very comfortable with each other and conversation came easily. That was 4 months ago and we still text, phone, and see each other whenever I am up in the mountains. Hopefully it will eventually turn into more of a romantic relationship.
The frozen food section of Trader Joe’s. I was there in a rush to get a few things for work, dressed having just come from a pool day (aka kinda grub), certainly not looking to meet anyone. I was looking at ice cream, he was on the other side of the aisle. We made eye contact, I smiled, turned around and the next thing I knew he was standing next to me. We struck up a conversation and ended up dating. It ultimately didn’t work out but it sure was a fun way to meet someone!
The last guy I dated I meet at a volunteer meeting for a youth event I was helping with. It was held in one the volunteers homes who I had never meet before. The event was run by a guy I am friends with. He then introduced me to a few of his friend which included the guy. My friend also happened to be best friend with this guy.