Where do you meet men??
I believe good people are everywhere. In the video I want to demonstrate that to you, firstly by telling you some of the unusual places I’ve met people, and then by asking you and conducting a little experiment…
Where do you meet men? Where was the last place you met a quality guy?
Let me know in the comments below.
I want you to think of this as an experiment where the more comments we get, the better this is going to be. I’m then going to draw on all of your comments in my next video and let you know the results.
Be specific about where you were, what the location was, and what type of location it was.
Were you taking a class, doing one of your hobbies, were you grabbing a coffee, shopping…tell us!
Retweet this, get it to your friends, share it on your Facebook, pass it on to as many people as possible, and encourage them to comment too.
The more comments we get, the more effective this is going to be. So I can’t wait to read yours!
Matthew x
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The last man I dated I met through a mutual friend in Israel. I moved here a year ago to earn my M.A. and became quite close with a girl in my program. One day, we were at a mall near our university and her friend, my ex, met us there, though I had no idea at the time that I would be meeting him.
The only person I have ever dated (and I’m 26) I met at a stop and shop, during my shift. I wouldn’t call him a quality Gent tho. He left after four months without telling me.
Rodeo Dr, CA. Was there at 10:30am after going to westwood for a little personal errand. Happened to spot the attractive guy walking to his job alone. I approached him with a weird question and we just connected :)
Hello Matthew,
I met my last boy-friend online at Meetic.com…he smiled at me and then left an email message…; )
At a festival where I was doing what I love to do very much – teaching energy work. He came to me after my performance to get to experience of individual session.
Hello Matthew,
I met the last guy at the bar at Embassy Suites in Jackson, Mississippi while on travel.
I met a guy at university campus, I was sitting outside under a tree and then my friends joined me one by one. He happened to come sit with us because of mutual friends and then we spent the afternoon sitting around making jokes.
After that, him and I would sit by each other in the cafeteria everyday and a month later I asked him to help me out on a film project… a long-term relationship came out of it!
I met my current boyfriend at an underground bar where his local rock band was performing. I scoped him out and asked my friends questions about him, then threw my underwear at him at his next show to get noticed. Then I contacted him on Facebook to get to know him, then finally talked in person at a show on Halloween (last year)… where I was dressed as a very cinematically accurate Hermione Granger.
We’re PhD students in the same office and played badminton a lot together :)
1. I met my last boyfriend at the seaside in the outdoor club when I was talking with other guys.
2. the ex boyfriend was a friend of my friend with witch I traveled on vacations. they came there to visit us and we after vacations we didnt hear from each other. after 3 years I ran into him in the same club as my last boyfriend. wooouuu that is weird, never knew actually until i’ve written it now.
Hmm… University, then work and work again…
My ex was my neighbor.. literaly 3 steps and 1/2 awy from my apartment. These are supposedly the “Crack head apartments” because of how they used to be here in the small town of Monahans Tx.
I met my last boyfriend standing next to me at a taxi rank after an arts festival. He was hot looking and mumbling to himself looking at his mobile phone and I said ‘ excuse me do you always talk to yourself in public? ‘ he replied ‘ yes pretty much cos I like what I hear!’ We dated for six months then he was relocated with his work overseas. It was spontaneous and it worked! Great guy.
The last guy I met was pretty much insane and he cyberstalked me. I met him on Craigslist. Of course, crazy stalkers can be on any dating site, but in general, stay away from free sites like Craigslist (and especially stay away from Craigslist). The free sites seem to attract very unstable men, even men who are borderline homeless and mentally ill.
I thought the pay sites would be better, but found that they weren’t. Guys there were every bit as crazy and just looking for sex.
Hi Matthew,
I am sending this note in response to your Where To Go To Find Good Men video. I met this new instructor a few months ago at the Ashtanga yoga center I take yoga at. During the last few weeks, he will come up and help me with the more difficult poses and seems like a really sweet guy. I always make sure and smile and say thankyou!! Yesterday he went over to help the guy next to me and i remember what you said in one of your videos that if there is some attraction a guy will find a way to come close to you.I love this attention from him and hope it leads to something good!Laura
I met my current boyfriend just outside the bar. I just got out of a relationship and was only interested in Find the guy and get the guy (and have fun).
I got out of the bar and it was raining very hard. So i took shelter near the door. He also took shelter there. So i set next 2 him and asked him if he was the new doorman :-) And everything Matthew says you should do i did. And it worked! And now i’m keeping the guy! He’s amazing! So ladies.. He can be anywhere. Be ready for him at any time ;-)
I met a guy at a café in town in Perth, Western Australia and it was a café just like Starbucks but in Perth it’s called the Dome. I met him in the Trinity arcade in front of Parker store which is for men. he paid for everything me and him shared some fries n had our soft drinks.
he once said to me we should just be friends because I don’t want one of us to get hurt and I accepted it but I really like this guy and he’s been very busy for the last few months n he makes time for me
You Inspire me so much matt n I’ve always followed your advice when I need it.
Dear Matt,
Merry C. to you and your dear ones!
You are an amazing Man! Thank you so much for so many things.
Here goes my contribution. From the heart.
Thanks to you and few other teachers I realized two things:
1.That I can TRUST MY INSTICTS ABOUT WHO IS AND WHO IS NOT A GOOD GUY
2.THAT I AM WORTHY OF A BEST MAN THERE IS AND NOT JUST of good career, expensive shoes and respect in a board room.
Sooooo, hw being done :), I met him the NEXT day after I have really made a click about my worthiness of a good Man/R in my head before going to bed!!
I was struggling with the click for sometime, but I clearly know when I made it.
Next day I had a business meeting that was set by one of our common friends and we clicked instantly.
It is a beautiful beautiful relationship-> totally diff from what I have experienced in the past.
Where -> does not matter at all. I had hunderds of buss meetings with good quality Men before, but was incapable of the step.
I know you get what I am saying.
So-> thank you soooo much!
I could have told so many beautiful things about you Matt!
You are one and only!
With my deep respect and appreciation!
K.
I met my last guy at my workplace. I know, it is not a specific space. Now I use the tools to keep him for myself!
By the way, I like your work Matthew, keep going!
I met the last man I dated in an expat bar in Istanbul, Turkey. I’m currently living here teaching English.