Maybe it’s happened to you before: you knew you kind of liked a guy, but then he did one special move that made your heart do a triple back flip – now you are crazy about him.
How does this happen??
It’s not about fancy tricks, it’s about understanding this secret of deep, lasting attraction…
The way he looked at me
I knew I had met someone different and special when he asked me about my future. No other man had before, in fact my ex refused to discuss the past or the future. Someone who was interested in learning about my future became so much more attractive to me.
Two things: When I am talking to him, he listens so intently, like I am the only person in the world. Secondly, when the topic of his family came up, he started to talk about his youngest sister and how she is so mature and that she is an inspiration to him. Then he started to tear up. In that moment, I knew he was a man with the values that I desire.
Hi, i am a dancer and i wish to dance after marriage.I just saw his pictures and got his contact.. so i was chatting with him for the first time. And on 1st day only he was taking so much interest in my dance videos. He appriciated and that was the moment i felt that he could be the person i m looking for…. thanku matthew… ur videos are helping many women in positive way like me. M grateful to you… thanx a lot
I really appreciate this message, I was about making same mistake with my relationship by telling my boyfriend am not educated like him that what if he finds someone better than me he was so angry with me for saying that
Hi Matthew thanks for your excellent advice & videos. Really liked this one. For me it happened when the guy I was talking to told me that his friend was going through a tough time and he was going to visit him & just spend some time with him. It really increased the attraction for me as I value friendship a lot & it’s also something I have done many times with my friends. It was encouraging to see that men do this too. Another moment was when he said WOW. When I told him about an instrument I played when I was younger. It really felt like he was in awe of me & no guy has ever done this before
I recently went on a date that was beyond expectations! I knew from the photos he posted on the dating site and the descriptive words he used in his profile, that he was my ideal date. I had thought of this over and over before the first date and when I arrived , searching the room with my eyes, the initial impact was magical when our eyes met…his smile was genuine and inviting . We stated before the date, what type of outfits each would be wearing and I found him almost immediately. His smile spoke volumes…the best moment was, when we simultaneously stated to each other, that we were comfortable and felt like we have always known each other…somewhere in time… that was so special and I will never forget that moment.
Sadly , although we totally hit it off together, a prior girlfriend, came back into his life and he said he had to go …even though he broke it off with her months before. I am sad..and miss him everyday. We spent a month together and funny how I just know that he is who I’ve been looking for, for so long… and I do believe he will be back!
Aw, you made me tear up :'( However, I also do believe he will be back, just because of your description of how you guys had those magical moments (vs. someone he already broke up with once) Fingers crossed for you!
I knew when I saw how he interacted with the kids in the production where I first met him. Also just the way he makes whomever he is talking to feel important.
I was at a restaurant once with my then boyfriend. Our waitress was beautiful and I told her she was absolutely gorgeous and she smiled and thanked me then took our order. My boyfriend told me that night he loved that I noticed the little things and that I was confident enough in who I was to lift people up. I thought all he would notice as well was our hot waitress haha so we both benefited from that moment!
This does resonate.
A guy recently stayed over the night after we met and when I came back from the shower he had prepared some breakfast (that he brought when he had to leave earlier to check out of his hotel room) which was already pretty sweet but the moment that really put a big smile on my face was when I looked into the bag of bread buns and ALL of them were already cut in half by him… ^_^
My boyfriend told me how attractive he found me after I put together a 3D wooden puzzle which I had never seen before but someone else had left on the table undone.
I was doing a bartender course in London.
one of our instructors came off as an arrogant prick, or at least that was my first impression of him.
he was teaching us the flair part or show part of bartending, and the first time I watched him practice his own routines for the upcoming competition, I just melted! never ever have I been drawn to someone like that, the happiness, passion, and determination was just glowing off of him, even now 2.5 year later, thinking of that moment still makes me smile from ear to ear :)
loved this Matt. Thank you. Mine was when ‘new man’ went out to fix my broken rear view mirror without me knowing – a small thing maybe, but it was distressing me and i didn’t have time to take it to a garage. I had real butterflies in my stomach. I knew then he would be in my life for a very long time.
Yes! Love this concept! More on this topic please.
We got in our first fight. It was over the phone. We hung up awkwardly knowing we were both still mad. I called back 15 minutes later to attempt to fine calm resolution. He was able to step away from the emotions of the situation with me and problem solve a solution for the future in which we both admit a challenges and committed to working on them as a team
The way he speaks about the things that he’s passionate about – it displays his incredible intelligence in a manner that doesn’t come off as arrogant or superior. It’s rather humbling, actually, to be around someone so driven to dive head first into a subject and just soak it all up.
I’m in love with teacher. I don’t know it is attraction or love at first sight. But I want him badly. He is always on my mind. I don’t know anything about him even I don’t is he single or committed. I don’t care at all. I just want him. But I don’t know how to show him my feelings and make him attracted towards me too. Help me please.
I was at his house and I said, as a joke, that I had to buy some slippers because i was coming to his house more often. So the next day he picked me up, I saw that he had a bag in the back sit but I didn’t ask what it was. We entered his house, he left the bag on the floor in the living room and I went to his room, he went to the bathroom. One minute after his mother was asking “what is this?” . She thought it was mine, so I went to see and She got the slippers out of the bag. I didn’t understand at first. And than it hit me. I went to the bathroom with a big smile asking him if it was for me and he act like he didn’t know what I was talking about until he opened the door. You right. It’s the little things
Mine: The moment that got me was when he grabbed my hand and pulled me up to dance at a bon fire after everyone had left…
His: The next night, he invited me to another bon fire, same thing happened but he kissed me and we lost our balance and we tripped and landed on the ground and we just laughed… he told me that he fell for me at that moment, literally! Lol
I am so drowning to this guy from my church. I think he’s the sweetest guy ever. He’s really really quiet and is just so hard to start a conversation with him. People like that, how do you approach them about your feelings towards them?
I’ve definitely been hit with the Microattraction spell.
I recently stayed over at a guys place after we met and when I came back from the shower he had prepared me with some coffee and breakfast and said he had to leave but I could take my time to head out, but before he left for work he asked if I wanted him to start my car for me. I was already touched by his thoughtfulness of making sure I was caffeinated and fed, but also was sweet enough to take some time out of his morning to start my car. Even though it seems so trivial. I felt was so unbelievably happy that someone asked and wanted to do that for me. I knew that morning that I wanted to keep seeing this guy.