Maybe it’s happened to you before: you knew you kind of liked a guy, but then he did one special move that made your heart do a triple back flip – now you are crazy about him.
How does this happen??
It’s not about fancy tricks, it’s about understanding this secret of deep, lasting attraction…
I met retired marine about 8 months ago when I accidentally sent a text to the wrong number. We texted for about a week and we decided to go out for coffee. When he came to my house for the first time, he was sitting in my living room and my cat curled up on his chest. He was so gentle and tender with her. I couldnt help myself. I just to stopped and watched him from the other room. Even after all these months, I still watch him out of the corner of my eye and am touched every tiime he is sitting in my living room petting my cat just like he did the first time we ever met.
This is truth before I woke up he has prepared break fast and served me on my bed
I worked in a small retail store which was crowded at the time with people buying Christmas presents. A 5 y/o came in on his own with a 5€ bill clutched in his small sweaty hand. He looked overwhelmed by so many people and must have felt completely lost. My boss spotted him immediately, said “excuse me” to his clients and asked him how he could help him. The kid showed him the money and whispered that this was what he wanted to spend on a present for his Mom, but he didn’t know what to get. So my boss went through the whole store, showed him his recommendations for Christmas presents, let him choose one and wrapped it up nicely for him. Only when the boy had left the store, beaming with happiness, he got back to the other customers. Fell in love instantly :)
I went for a walk along the seafront one winter afternoon with a guy I was dating. Afterwards when we went to the pub for a drink he revealed that he had brought a torch with him just in case it had got dark whilst we were out. Such a small thing but his being prepared protective instinct was just so attractive.
Hi Matthew
First I’d like to thank you for the fantastic fun videos and advice you always provide.
You asked to describe a micro attraction moment in this video.
For me, this happened a couple of weeks ago. I was meeting my boyfriend in the morning, he didn’t have a lot of time and he had a bad back. I asked him if he could drive me to my surgery as I had to drop of something. He did without any hesitation and with pleasure. That’s when I fell in love properly, I sort of was but wasn’t sure whether he felt the same. Well, I needed have worried. I wrote him a sweet thank you text telling him how special he made me feel at that precise moment and that I felt this huge wave of love and desire wash over me like a wave.
He didn’t get back to me straight away, as a matter of fact, it took him the whole weekend! I panicked and thought I’d he’d done a runner. I was so miserable but deep down I know he loved me but never told me. But I could see it in his eyes, the love in his eyes was so obvious.
Anyway, he finally replied on Sunday evening. He told me he felt so overwhelmed and he actually did think of doing a runner, he said he gasped after reading my text.
He told me he fell in love the first time he saw my picture and when we met for the first time when he walked into my house! It was then that I realised also that we had this amazing attraction for each other but it took me until that micro attraction moment to really fall in love with him. I told him that I love him too and it’s the most wonderful feeling. I never thought that I would experience love again at this time in my life, I’m nearly 64! He’s 50! How about that!
We were on our way to dinner (our first date) and as I stepped out of the taxi he took my hand and didn’t let it go until we sat down at our table.
Laughter.mutual, Similanetious.The sexiest standard to live by, surduced with the “complimentary medicine”,
It’s like lightening..( hot fuzz style)
Trick is to keep the Grid alit with tht electricity.
My moment was when we had been to see the Christmas lights in London and we were in apacked bar. My boyfriend was waiting to order drinks so .. I was standing behind him .., I put one arm around him and leaned my head on his back and then he reached back and took hold of my other hand.. oh Matt . this made me melt. Such a small gesture but so intoxicating
When a guy was talking so passionately about the wine shop that impressed him and how much he appreciated every little detail that was put in to a shop as if it was a museum; he was going over small tiny details that were perfect about that wine shop – the way the prices were carved out on the wood, the order in which the bottles were arranged, and stuff like that. It was sooo attractive because it showed how much beauty he sees even in little things like that and how passionate he was about the details…
When I got a kitten last summer, I spent a lot of time with her and took care of her and she followed me wherever I went. (ex. she always sat on my feet and licked herself while I brushed my teeth). Whenever my boyfriend noticed that the cat showed me love or that I was kind to the cat, he often took me in his arms and told me that he loved me :)
We went out last week for buying some gifts to my family and went to a fountain pen store. He’s very into that area and knows more than me. We had a great shopping there and went to a café to check our groceries. Days later he told me, while he saw me filling new ink for his newly bought pen, he suddenly felt very sexy and wanna hug me at that moment. He said he feels happy and don’t know why and it’s actually just an intellectual activity, nothing strange. He said, he never thought he’ll share his lonely interest w a woman in this life, he always does it by himself. Probably this is what you’re saying.
I had only had 2 dates with a guy and felt very attracted physically. He had just started a bathroom remodel project and a few days after the second date, I sent him a couple of links with image ideas and purchase places that matched his theme. He was SO surprised and complimentary that I had taken the time to do it. THAT was a big thing…that he understood my giving heart…..:)
The guy I was seeing was really into Fantasy Nascar that I would watch with him. I would go to the bathroom and come back and he would have a pillow and blanket on the coach beside him for me to be comfy. While watching I would pay attention to his ranking in his league and call out his stats and he would say to me smart is so sexy.
I was with a guy, he was driving through a parking lot, when a gust of wind knocked a frail old man right over. Without hesitation, he put his car in park, jumped out and ran to assist the elderly man. Not only did he help him up but he treated him with respect so the mans dignity remained intact. I was impressed and amazed but he acted like he hadn’t done anything. I married him several months later. That was 35 years ago.
We live in Florida Keys. My stepdaughter, her mom, bother and infant sister and stepdad lost everything! Their home, my stepdaughters car, etc. the family was split up in different homes. The stepdad was sleeping in a camper outside their home trying to protect what was left of their things. Stepdaughter was here with us. Her mom was with her sister, with a newborn. And her brother was at friends houses, or with his dad in the camper. The stress of the family being separated was tearing everyone apart.
I take care of a vacation home for a child hood friend of mine, who lives a few hours north. I asked her if my step daughter and her family could stay at her home, until FEMA could come down here, or until they could figure something out?? She said absolutely, my friend said that it was a wonderful thing for me to ask and get them a place.
I didn’t tell my boyfriend that I had talked to my child hood friend. So I asked my boyfriends ex wife to come over to the house. She came over and I explained that I watch a house for a friend, I then handed her the key to the house, and said she is willing to let you and your family stay until you can figure things out!! At that moment the ex wife eyes filled with tears and we cried together and we-hugged and then she almost fell to the ground! My boyfriend then came up behind us both hugging all three of us and he was crying too!! After she left, He said baby that’s exactly why I fell in love with you! Your always looking out for others and you make me want to be a better person!!
I was invited to a wedding and I told the guy I was seeing to come along. We had so much fun but the specific moment was when we were going out from the party to our room and the grand ma of the bride was there and he just talked to her like he knew her and joked with her in a really sweet moment.
The other side.. when I listened to him and payed attention to his problems maybe not to solve them or help him solve them but just hear him out and support him. That was the moment for him
When my boyfriend and I first started dating he always got up first and brought me breakfast in bed and packed a lunch for me for work that day. I always thought that was the sweetest thing.
He says one of the things I did that he always found attractive is that I offered to put sunscreen on his back when we would go to the beach.
Makes perfect sense. I went to have a shower to get ready for a night out and whilst I was in there, he had taken the dress that I was wearing that night out of my suitcase and laid it on the bed neatly for me. Thoughtful and interesting!
I felt really attracted to guy whom I was meeting for second time. After a not so fun evening as planned and anticipated by both of us, he was concerned if I reached home well. He felt sorry about the way it went.
When he apologized for being distant
And in a bad mood. Tjat it wasnt my fault and he didnt want me to think it was.