What do people who are naturally good at flirting do differently?

It’s easy to assume they’re more confident, more attractive, or simply better at knowing what to say. But after nearly 20 years of studying attraction and watching hundreds of first dates, I’ve noticed something else going on.

In this week’s video, I break down three great flirting scenes from movies that look completely different on the surface but all have one surprising thing in common.

And it’s something most flirting advice completely misses.