Have you ever been a victim of the most painful kind of ghosting . . . where you’re haunted by the fact that you never got closure with someone? It’s the sort of thing that can consume your thoughts as you obsessively look over the final exchange you had with the person and enlist your friends to help you dissect it, hoping they can spot a clue you might have missed. The reality is that this need for clarity and closure is a bid for control in a situation where you have none. Not only that, but every time you allow your thoughts to head in that direction, it’s another scratch at a wound that wants so badly to heal. In today’s brand-new episode, I give you the tools you need to move on for good from this kind of ghosting, including a text message you can send . . . not to get closure from them but to give yourself the closure you need. ►► Unlock My Best Dating Solution for Your Current Dating Situation Take the Quiz for Free at. . . . → http://www.YourDatingSolution.com ►► FREE download: “9 Texts No Man Can Resist” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com

I truly loved this conversation my friend @lindseystirling . So often in life we’re told how important it is to love ourselves without any explanation of what that actually means or how to practically apply that advice. If you’ve ever found yourself struggling with this concept, one practical tool is to recognize how we love other really important people in our lives. Our parents, children, siblings, nieces, nephews, old friends . . . our love for them doesn’t have anything to do with whether they have a good day or a bad day today. We love them because they’re ours, even though they can sometimes be difficult or don’t always realize their potential. And that’s how we have to start viewing ourselves. We don’t need to find all of these amazing things about ourselves to start valuing ourselves more. We love ourselves because we’re ours. WE are the ones responsible for looking after us. Love yourself like it’s your job; because it IS. — Download your free guide on how to get back into dating after heartbreak. Go to 3SecretsToLove.com and get your copy.

Why is it we become “too nice” with someone we like? It can feel like there is a before/after switch, where we decide we’re attracted to someone, feel the butterflies in our stomach, and can’t help but tighten up and struggle to express our real selves. And often, this can result in us being too accommodating, or giving polite-yet-boring responses, or in trying too hard to be liked instead of allowing natural chemistry and flirtation to happen. In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about why we become “too nice”, what we can do to be more of who we really are, and how to show our most attractive self in dating. — Download our free guide on simple texts you can send to spark attraction. Go to 9Texts.com to get your copy. — Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com — Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey

Happy New Year, Friend! Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about the New Year’s resolutions people make, and I’m curious how you’re feeling about yours today. After indulging during the holidays, we often place our hopes in the hands of our future selves, determined that this will be the year everything changes. Of course, having goals is a good thing, but the biggest challenge with New Year’s resolutions is how quickly they can buckle under the weight of our expectations. But it doesn’t need to be that complicated. Whether you’re stressed about the fact that the “you” who woke up today feels just like the “you” who woke up yesterday … or you just want to ensure your love life goals actually happen this year, this brand-new episode is going to help you get into the right mindset for 2023. You’ve got this! — * Take Action & Create a New Trajectory Toward Your Dream Life. Learn More About The Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat at: http://www.MHVirtualRetreat.com

When someone’s betrayed or hurt us—especially when we didn’t see it coming—it’s hard to avoid the lack of trust that latches on to us and shadows us into our next relationship. Is there an antidote to this? Is it possible to regain trust after heartbreak?   In this clip, I share an important message about how you choose to set healthy boundaries in a relationship when you’ve been burnt in the past. Check it out and make sure you don’t let your demons define your relationship dynamics going forward.   Here for you,   Matthew x   — Download my free guide and give your love life a kickstart today.  ►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com

Can you have a relationship that starts great – but becomes sexually boring? Can it happen with someone you’re truly meant to be with? It’s always a hard moment if you’re with someone who ticks many of your boxes, but one crucial aspect of the relationship isn’t working. So how much should you work to get the spark back? Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson discuss why the spark fades, how to get more honest with your partner about your intimate needs, and strategies to inject sexual excitement into your relationship again. — Download our free guide on simple texts you can send to spark attraction. Go to 9Texts.com to get your copy. — Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com — Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey