I’m a big believer these days in the power of no.

What we decide to say “no” to in relationships is often as important what we say yes to.

And I’ve seen thousands of women saying yes to all the wrong things, like men who say “I’m not sure about us,” for whom they wait months and years in the self-torturing hope he’ll change his mind. I even had a woman recently say to me, “He says he’s trying to choose between me and another woman.

Should I wait for an answer? Or should I move on?” Seriously? Wait for an answer?

Screw that.

It’s time to say no to being undervalued forever. One of my favourite quotes says: “If you put a small value on yourself, rest assured the world will not raise your price.”

So if you’re still hanging on that “one guy,” I need, need, need you to hear this. It may just be the biggest wake-up call you’ll ever get…

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Ever found yourself in a situation where the person you are with is doing something that affects you negatively, only they don’t see it as a big deal?

They tell you they don’t think they’re doing anything wrong, and that you should be OK with it.

That’s what happened to the woman whose story I tell in this episode.

Her boyfriend was regularly texting a female friend he’d made only recently. Every time she got upset about it, he told her she was being unnecessarily controlling and jealous and that he wasn’t doing anything wrong. In today’s podcast, you’ll see exactly what I think she should do about this situation…

I always think one of the hardest things in a relationship is trying to figure out where we are overreacting and where we are justified. It can be maddening. If you’re wondering whether what someone is doing around you should be a deal-breaker, this will help you figure it out once and for all. Always in your corner.

P.S. The first-ever Live Matthew Hussey Virtual Retreat is just around the corner. People from all over the world are signing up to join us October 16th – 18th, not just because they have always wanted to take my Retreat, but because it’s a fraction of the cost of my live Retreat (and with none of the travel and time off work!).

There may never be a better time to join the Retreat than this. Go here to book an appointment with one of my team and find out more: http://www.mhvirtualretreat.com.

Answering YOUR questions on topics including:

– what to do when a guy is acting flakey

– creating a “flirtatious energy” (and how to do it)

– how to be less insecure in a relationship

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What do you do if the person you are with comes to you telling you he wants a break?

You’re devastated, you’re scared, and every instinct in you tells you to fight for this person you care about so much. What would you say to him?

In these moments we often do exactly the opposite of what we need to.

If you’re in this situation, or you ever want to know what to do if someone says this to you again, I’,m going to give you the only response you’ll ever need… 

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Do you ever worry that the chemistry will fizzle in your relationship?

Or does it seem as though the butterflies have already flown away?

Don’t worry.

This episode contains a game plan to save you…

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Have you been gaslighted before? Is it happening to you right now?

If you’re not sure what “Gaslighting” means… It’s when someone manipulates you by psychological means into doubting your own sanity.

Over time, this can have a dramatic effect on our self-esteem as we slowly begin to doubt ourselves until we no longer trust our own instincts.

It’s nasty.

 

f you’ve ever expressed your needs to someone or tried to tell them about something they did that hurt you and you were made to feel crazy, this message is for you.

It’s a horrible feeling when we are upset or anxious and we don’t even know if what we are saying is reasonable or whether we are overreacting… that’s why I’m so excited for you to listen to this episode.

It’s going to bring you a sense of peace and calm again… I’ve got your back, friend.

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