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  • The best line to tell yourself about rejection:
    “I never get rejected, I just simply weed out people with poor taste”

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  • A guy I am interested helped me with my interviewing skills and at the time he stated his interest in me. I had not heard from him in about 2 weeks so I called him and invited him for a “Thank You” Lunch (I really wanted to see him and spend time with him), He said ” I have to check my schedule” really we all know what time lunch is! I’ve seen him and talked to him after this and he has not mentioned it at all.

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  • I met a guy (in his mid 40s) about six months ago. He just broke up with his gf then. It was her who broke up with him after 6 years of being together. Now, after being friends with benefits with me, he s still not over her. They are in touch and they see each other often, which makes him feel even more heartbroken. He is almost stalking her by now, trying desperately to get her back. And here I am. Rejected. Feeling like the third one in a tango. I dont understand how is it possible that he doesnt feel my love and my kindness. I’m not insistive as I know we are not really together. But Im giving my best to him. I immediately felt attracted to this person, he wasnt a man of my dreams but certainly came closer than anyone ever before. I’m 24 by the way. Now, he told me he cannot commit to anything at the moment as he’s still dreaming of her to come back. And that’s after I gave him everything I could. I don’t feel as much pain as I used to along the way, sensing his connection to her (we only started talking about this whole thing recently, before it was my intuition and friend’s telling me they saw him with her). But I m confused how is it that he doesnt see me the way I deserve to be seen. We have so many common interests and just match perfectly. I m aware I might have made mistakes such as playing along with all of it and not trusting my intuition. So he is rejecting me now, not saying no to me explicitly but nearly. Well, this isnt a success story yet but guys it s about to be. I m moving on and although often find myself stuck in this situation back again, I m extra mega super strong and can be bigger than my own limitations. i wish him and his ex love, and let go of this situation. While I wish I could be more charming/enchanting so I could make him forget about his ex, ultimately it s him who didn t give us a chance choosing to be stuck in the past.

  • I just got rejected. And god, it just always happens. Someone gets really into me. I am by my nature, standoffish, at first. I guess, yeah, I am a little hard-to-get, just how I am. I attract some incredible guys. So I don’t have a problem with attraction. Not at all. It’s when that guy finally gets through to me. And it all goes to pot. I am sensitive, emotional, and well, too giving. If ONLY I could maintain my usual stand-offish demeanor when finally I fall… well I know that’s my problem. Anyway it happened again. And I would do anything for this guy. I swear I would walk to the ends of the world for him. And he’s not even that special. And I still have a lot of other options. I guess it’s the guy who rejected you, you can’t really have, you want the most? I dunno. He was just so charming, gorgeous, friendly, sexy, raw sexuality, and cultured. He was a sommelier and god the wine he bought and served me. Anyway, he chased and chased. He was so very sensitive. It sounded like he wanted a relationship. We slept together and yep that was it. I am crazy. I know I just got, well, clingy. So he said he wasn’t interested. And I’ve pretty much agreed, he didn’t deserve someonelike me. But now I am working on a game plan for showing him I am the right girl. Yeah, I should probably just give up. And move on. But this stuff is like drugs, the one you want the most, that’s all you want. So we’ll see. I am dating a lot of other men to try to keep my mind off him. Working on getting in better shape. My plan is to show up at his new restaurant in maybe a few months, looking hot, and just being non-chalant. But being open to him. And doing my best to stay as I was, not overly into him, when I first met him. Trying to be a “cool” girl again. We’ll see how it goes. Hate being rejected. Just makes me want to show him that I am much better than he thinks I am. Oh dear, you can see the conundrum.

  • I had *never* approached any guy therefore had never experienced rejection. So one marriage, one divorce and two kids later as this guy and I enter into my first flirtatious banter…I high-speed into fantasies of marriage and a happily-ever-after. Then two days into our textual messaging conversation he cracks a joke about marriage.

    I blundered, I fumbled, I mumbled and made a desperate wisecrack and basically made a fool out myself. The embarrassment of how erratically high I was on adrenalin and fantasy still makes me go red! Deeply humiliated me to the core. And that guy was such a sweetheart (no sarcasm I *really* do appreciate that he was so clear) – he didnt even bother replying back. And when i did text him to congratulate him on something he had achieved he texted back: ‘I am so awesome!’

    But I am so grateful to that particular guy. He was the first guy who made me realise that I *could* be attractive and his rejection made me realise I was doing something wrong. I didnt want to be the idiot I felt. And as with each rejection it made me question everything about myself. I *loved* feeling attractive – how could i make it an attribute a part of myself?? And that search led me to Matthew and his emphasis on authenticity and the understand of oneself and of the other to make the whole magic of love real. I went in search of ‘being attractive’….and i found ‘how to love and be loved’.

    Thank you Matthew for the amazing work you and your team are doing!

  • Not sure what happened. Met guy at gym. friended him on Facebook started chatting on messenger. He seemed interested flirting etc. one week later I was defriended and blocked. No explanation. Now see him at the gym and he hardly says hi. How do I get him to talk to me again

  • So I was seeing this guy from Iceland for two years. I ended it cause he did not want to commit. He keeps saying he had a bad history with him mother that makes him commitment phobic as he hated her. We broke up. And then We got back after three years and had great sex when I found out he was sexting another girl who was super hot since two years . I got pissed initially when she contacted me n told me stuff abt him and then he blocked her n fought with her for ruining things between him n me. I was happy he chose me over her that too three years later. N she is way hotter than me..silicon n all! Then..he turns cold chicken on me and I asked him let’s get into a relationship ..he said no n said we r wrong for eachother. I felt so rejected. Thought maybe he has gone back to her . I blocked him from social media . Now what should I do? That other girl has huge boobs , nice figure. I’m like small boobs n athletic

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