There’s a ridiculously simple principle Matt talks about in his seminars. So simple it seems kind of silly. Naïve even. But it’s actually great.

It goes like this: “Make it a rule only to like people who like you back. If you can do that, you’ll never go wrong.”

Sounds tough, I know. 

After all, attraction isn’t a simple choice right?

Many of us feel we have no control over who we become attracted to, which can often lead to that great generator of humanity’s worst misery and best poetry: Unrequited love.

Unrequited love is when we fall hard in love with someone who don’t love us back. It’s the painful kind of obsession that keeps you awake at night, and sees you spending hours at your laptop obsessively scouring your crush’s Facebook profile praying that they don’t change their status to “in a relationship”, or that makes your stomach convulse at the thought of catching them kissing another person.

If you’ve ever fallen hard for someone who doesn’t return your feelings, here 5 reasons this happens and what you can do to get your life back…

Your phone buzzes. It’s a text from him ;)

You can feel your stomach flip over with excitement. Every message he sends is like sweet honey for your brain. “Damn”, you think, “I’m an addict.”

And then you fire a cute message back. And you wait…and wait… “Why isn’t he replying?” you want to scream to your friend on the couch next to you.

But she’s too busy with her phone to notice.

You try to shift focus, but you obsessively check for a text every 30 seconds.

Sound familiar?

We’ve all had this agony of “anxious waiting” with someone we like. It’s distracting, it’s unattractive, and it drains you of your peace of mind every minute you sit in limbo. If you’re sick of waiting for his text and want to finally take back your power, listen to this…

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One big myth I’ve heard from thousands of women is, “I’m only attracted to the guys who are BAD for me”. 

People tell ourselves the lie that there are either:

(a) Boring, safe, dependable nice guys

(b) Exciting, sexy assholes who will treat you badly

In this episode, we blow apart this myth and show why UNIQUE PAIRINGS are the ultimate secret to attraction, and what you MUST look for in the guy you choose for a long-term relationship.

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Another week in isolation…

This crisis is really putting a magnifying glass on my (alarmingly natural) gift for hibernation, as well as my capacity for eating chocolate.

How about you?

It’s also exposing a lot of cracks in relationships – both those under the same roof and the long-distance ones – as they strain under the weight of this “new normal.”

Just this morning, I had the pleasure of working with a woman who is in my live coaching group, and she confided that she was having an issue with her boyfriend.

Like many, she found herself in a long-distance relationship all of a sudden, as she and her guy self-isolate about 30 minutes from each other in their separate homes.

I said to her, “That must be tough. Are you speaking every day?”

Her answer revealed more than I anticipated… It quickly became clear to me that her needs were being ignored, and that she was ignoring a conversation she needed to have. Something I’m worried too many people are doing right now.

If you’re in a similar situation, where you’re feeling scared to ask for what you need, then you need to hear this episode.

Thinking of you.

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A couple of episodes ago we asked you: What are the moments that made you fall in love in the past?

We call these moments micro-attractions.

Yes, you can find someone sexy. You can like the same movies. But it’s those little behaviours that totally fly under-the-radar that make us say, “Holy crap! I’ve never met anyone like this before!”

So, Steve dived into the inbox and looked at YOUR stories of the moments that made you fall head over heels and discuss what this tells us about long-term attraction. 

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Well hello there from isolation. Guess what? we made a new podcast for you.

It’s about how to be a more interesting and engaging person in any interaction with someone through 5 quick principles you can instantly apply.

And since most of us are having long-distance conversations with everyone right now, the ability to talk effectively has become utterly essential.

These techniques will show you how to take your talking to another level. And I know they work because I live by them. They are relevant whether you’re in the same room with someone, sending voice notes to a new guy, or connecting with a love interest over the phone as we all social distance. (They also apply to business, so you get two for one in today’s episode.)

Can’t wait to see what you think.

If you want the free training I mention in the episode so that you can have MASSIVE impact in the First 5 Minutes of Any Interaction, click here to download your copy → http://www.First5Guide.com