It’s hard to find love when you don’t feel loveable yourself.

When you know you’ve made a ton of mistakes. Or you’ve internalized the idea that you’re just not a likeable person.

It becomes a self-perpetuating cycle: “I don’t like myself, so why should anyone else like me?” Then we feel lonely, beat ourselves up, feel like a failure, and like ourselves even less than before. We retreat more and more into our shell and lose that “spark” that makes us attractive to someone else as a potential partner

This is exhausting. It’s unfair. And it doesn’t do justice to who you really are on the inside and everything you have to give to the world.

It’s an overwhelming step to think about how to suddenly become supremely confident. So let’s do something more modest today.

In this episode, I want to share a small thing you can start doing today to get back your self-esteem and begin to reclaim your core confidence…

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Are you hurting?

Is that hurt leading to overthinking? Rumination? A downward spiral of negative self-talk?

Do you feel trapped inside your own head, desperate for some relief, and anxious for the time to come when you will finally feel better?

If so, this is required listening.

To do something special for my Love.Life members, I invited the one and only Guy Winch (@GuyWinch) on for a special hour to help people overcome pain and hurt.

Guy Winch is one of the world’s foremost experts on dealing with heartbreak and “emotional first-aid.”

This episode is a special moment taken from that hour where Guy talks about how to deal with moments of terrible pain in a productive and healthy way.

As Rainer Maria Rilke said: “No feeling is final.” If you’re hurting right now, it’s going to get better. I promise. One step at a time.

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Including:

• Why we get sucked in by love bombing
• What “red flags” to look for early on
• How to be (healthily skeptical) before diving into romance
• How to move on after heartbreak

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I talk a lot about letting go of the wrong person.

But how do you know if someone is the wrong person? What are the red flags? How can you tell if someone is serious or just stringing you along so that you don’t waste your time?

This episode solves that problem for you.

In this podcast, I add a distinction that I’ve never said before and I don’t think you will have ever thought about… Let me know what you think once you’ve heard it, friend.

Much love.

P.S. For all the sh*t you’re going through right now that others don’t know about, I love you and I’m with you.

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You have to help me.

I believe there isn’t a woman (person) alive who doesn’t need to hear this message at least once in her lifetime.

I know, that’s a bold statement.

But when you see it, you’ll know why.

My work is about more than dating. It’s about time. Time = Life.

And this podcast is designed to save your precious time. It’s all about what “it’s complicated” really means. If you’re in a situation with a man that gives you far less than you want or deserve, this is the most important thing you could do with your time today.

And I rarely ask this, but please do more than listen to this. Share it with every woman you know. I have spent over a decade working with women in their love lives. I’d go as far as to say no one has been witness to more women throwing away their precious time on the wrong situations than me.

My No.1 objective is for this episode to help you get brave enough to say “enough is enough” in your own life. My 2nd objective is for you to help me save the lives of other women – your friends, your sisters, your mum, your daughters… anyone you care about.

People don’t always have the wake up call on their own. Sometimes they need our help.

No more wasting time. I know it’s hard, but I’m with you. I’m in your corner, always.

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