Do you get nervous that you’re not good enough? Feel a deep inner worry that you’re a “fraud” waiting to get found out?

This is called “Imposter Syndrome”, and it’s a common trap that can make us live with SO much unnecessary anxiety and it holds us back from opportunities.

In this clip, Matt explains how to defeat imposter syndrome with a simple mindset reframe.

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When it comes to sex, some of us have very specific ideas about what it should be like in a relationship.

There’s the “sexual destiny” mindset, which says that sex should be amazing from the start and is entirely about natural chemistry.

Then there’s the “sexual growth” mindset, which says that sex can improve over time and couples can work out sexual differences.

In this episode, Matt and Stephen discuss the difference between these mindsets and what they mean for a potential relationship.

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When a relationship with someone we had strong feelings for (or even loved) ends, we tend to get overwhelmed with emotions.

Whether we were with them for a short period of time or in a long, committed relationship, these feelings are universal.

They can come in the form of raw heartbreak, the feeling that we’ve lost control over our happiness, a paralyzing fear that they might move on, an overwhelming desperation to get them back, or simply the pain of missing someone who used to be a constant in our life.

The trouble is, when heartbreak, control, fear, desperation, or pain are at the wheel, the desire to make ourselves feel better becomes insatiable and this will in turn start to dictate how we conduct ourselves. The solution? Setting yourself a goal.

Perhaps you’ve heard of the “No Contact Rule” but don’t know exactly what it entails, or maybe it sounds a little too counterintuitive for how you feel right now, especially if you’re holding out hope that you could still get back together . . .

Well, I’m here to tell you that’s not the case, and in this episode, I distill the best I’ve learned about breakups and the “No Contact Rule” into everything you need to know on the topic, including what you can say at different stages.

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Has this ever happened to you?

You’re on a first date… and…

He’s charming, handsome, and you feel like you have chemistry…

But at the end of the night… he doesn’t ask for a second date (nevermind a third or fourth).

If this has happened to you (or keeps happening), you’re likely missing one of the two essential things that make him reach across the table and say:

“I’d really like to see you again.”

In this clip, I tell you EXACTLY what to say so that he’ll ask you out again (and again, and again)…

(You might be surprised at how simple this is AND how often you’re skipping this step when you’re interacting with a guy you like, especially in the early stages of dating…)

It’s genuinely crazy to me how obvious the phrase in this video is, how simple it would be for people to say, how many more second dates it would get them… and yet, they still aren’t doing it. I’m excited to read your thoughts in the comments.

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What do you do if you feel a special connection, but he keeps you waiting on the big question of commitment?

In a spontaneous Instagram live, Matt recently coached a follower who was struggling with this exact dilemma.

If you’re sick of sitting in the “waiting room” and hoping for something to change, make sure you listen to this message.

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Few things can match the heady exhilaration of dating someone and building momentum through regular texting and a sense of closeness.

But what about when the texting on their end is . . . kind of slow and intermittent . . . where there are big gaps in your text exchanges that leave you feeling unsure as to where, exactly, you stand with that person?

Feeling this way might even lead you to start analyzing their relationship with their phone the next time you’re with them, looking for clues as to whether their sporadic phone usage is consistent in their life or reserved just for you.

At some point, they might’ve even shared a generic line with you like, “I’m so rubbish with my phone,” or “I’m really bad at replying to people!” But is this really true?

In this week’s video, I not only answer these questions, but I dig into a really common mistake people make in this area.

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