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Are You Pretty Enough For Him?
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a couple of things i like about myself – that for some reason turns other off is my sense of style (i like the conservative look/elegant/sophisticated (i guess most people would call it the rich look) lol), and one thing i like but don’t like at the same time is that i am a great listener (but not a great talker) – this usually ends up with people telling me that i make the situation awkward (which in turn means i usually end up with no friends…which is what i hate but if they’d hang out with me long enough and give me a chance i break out more and talk more – but they usually never give me that much time) – and i laugh at ridiculous thing lol (like this habit of laughing when something is Not funny – but it makes me laugh – people tend to look at you as if your crazy)…
Another nice post with a wonderful message. It can be so intimidating to get out and about sometimes, but really I stop paying attention to the way other people look in about 15 minutes after meeting them. Nice to have a reminder that we are more than the sum of our parts.
Oh, and I like my smile. :)
Thanks for the video :) Have learned a few things through them… not many chances to try them out through. Totally left alone by men for some reason :D
Have fun in NY
Others tell me that my attractive traits are: being loyal OR being flexible
I think my most attractive trait is being very caring and kind to people.
Hello Mathew,
firstly, you look good with shades on ;P
and now to the point (and a question too)
WOW! its like you read my mind. I was just going to ask you the exact same thing. I’ve always thought Im not pretty or beautiful and that why would I guy want to approach me? he is looking at my friend not me… what’s so special in me n bla bla bla. yes insecurities. that’s exactly that and Ive tried to control that and Ive been a little bit successful too. I try and appreciate myself for who I am…. question: I wear braces…. and does that mean its taking away from my beauty? I mean, what if I see someone Im attracted to and I give him a smile and all that. what if he looks Im not worth it? or pretty? think stuff like “ewww, she isnt even pretty… she is overdoing it” or if Im slightly flirty with someone and the guy thinks ‘She thinks too much of herself. she isnt even pretty’ then how do I tackle that? i guess, that’s one thing that scares me alot and has stopped me from taking risks…
One thing I like about myself: I like my eyes, they are dark, chocolate brown and I like it when I put silver eye shadow on them. people dont really notice them but i personally like them :)
really appreciate your help! -Neon
hi wow u are amazing I love yours tips !!!!!
come to mexico !!!
Dear Matthew Hussey,
I just wanted to thank you for taking the time to post these videos. It is nice to hear your words of wisdom as they are much needed. Please continue to stay in touch with all of us :)Stay Beautiful!
Makenna
p.s you mentioned in your video that we should leave a comment on something that we find beautiful about ourselves. I would have to say i love my upbeat and happy persona. I also think my hair and eyes are very beautiful too…Thank you for reminding me what true beauty is :)
You are awesome!! Thanks for all the things you are doing for us “girls”.
Wish I could marry you ;)
Kisses from Mauritius
Hi Matt :)
I really like to listen to your videos, but unfortunately none of the advice is rubbing off on me yet. I don’t know why, but I just can’t attract guys as more than friends. The majority of my friends are male, but I can never seem to interest a guy as a romantic partner. I asked my closest friend for tips, but he just shrugged and said he didn’t know any, he just said that I was probably just a “one of the boys” kind of girl, which is sort of true I suppose because instead of makeovers, I do camo paint in the air cadets, and instead of shopping, I go paintballing. I asked a girl that I speak to in class sometimes too, and she says it’s because my standards are too high. They aren’t high at all though- I’m only looking for someone I get along with, they don’t have to be superman. I can’t exactly help it if I’m decent enough not to sleep with over 2 thirds of my year group like some people I know. Any advice for a confused 17 year old? I’m on the verge of giving up xD
i appreciate that my eyes change colors from day to day. they vary between brown and green and gold and every shade in between. i like that! i feel your pain with the packing, i’m going on a long trip in a few days and the packing is driving me nuts! have a good trip
-Amanda
I have fabulous ears, nice hands and a nicely warped sense of humour. Plus I usually get on with people.
Have a lovely time in NY!
Hi Matt,
Brilliant video again. I really appreciate my singing voice. Don’t get to use it very often unless singing in the car counts.
Enjoy New York, amazing city, especially Brooklyn Heights.
Love,
Jennifer
I asked my ex once what he liked about me the most. He answered me that I was pretty and there was really nothing else he could come up with. During the awkward silence :), I realized that this was the most hurtful thing anyone had ever said to me.
Anyhow, my point is that the ‘objective beauty’ is highly overrated. Ask yourself this: would you rather be an objectively beautiful retard, or be subjectivly beautifull and smart? For me, it is a no-brainer. And don’t tell yourself you have neither, because that’s bullsh*t.
Gifted people are everywhere, most people just don’t know what their talent is that could make them shine. No matter what your talent is, if you have one and you are passioned about it I could talk to you for hours. This is what attracts me in people (along with a good sence of humor of course..) and I am sure I am not the only one and there must be some men that feel the same way.
Oh and Matthew,
Since I have just recently became acquainted with youre blog, I don’t know which topics you already discussed in this blog or somewhere else. I would really like your view on ‘when to sleep with a guy’. Does all the waiting and letting him chase really make a difference? Or are we waisting our time :).
Hi Matt !
Today a plastic surgeon (I’m a med student so I meet a lot of them) told me that my mouth was perfect and gorgeous ! It’s so funny, I’d never paid any attention to my mouth… now the more I look at it the more I like it, and I think I’ll start wearing some lipstick now :)
Thank you for all the greats videos et bon voyage !
Hey Matthew, great video :D It really got me thinking. My features would have to be my eyes, eyebrows, and eyelashes. Everyone tells me that they are beautiful. Personally I think that the old saying “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder” holds true to your video. What may look pretty to one guy might not look pretty to another. Keep the vlogs coming!
I wish hearing beauty is objective would help, but not feeling attractive can be ingrained by constant reinforcement. I believe a guy can think a girl is pretty, but because she isn’t, ” Hott” they will ignore her because they see having attractive women as a sign of status. One of my friends was invited to go clubing, but the guys in the group actually told her that the friend she invited was not attractive enough to go with them. Sometimes even when you are feeling confident being treated differently or ignored by men can just beat that out of you, desipte trying not to let it get to you. Sometimes this treatment comes from closer sources too. I have an older sister who is , ” model” attractive , and I have always noticed when my parents talk to her they tell her how nice she looks; when I get a compliment it is usually something to do with being smart. Sorry for the rant… lol
If objective looks aren’t important then why do you have a make up artist on your women’s weekend to teach women how to make themselves look more beautiful?
That might be for a confidence boost or something but that is a good question.
Matt,
Great video and straight to the point..
As for the question of the day, well I think my whole body and personality are amazing so I can’t really choose!
Hi Matt,
This was a great blog! Thank u!
I have soo many insecurities! Never been confident with my looks despite my friends telling me often that I am pretty!
Even when I date, guys tell me I am cute or hot but I don’t seem to really believe it! It’s weird!
After your weekend though I definitly felt more confident, and im smiling more, people have noticed and I ‘feel’ more attractive for the first time just because I am happier in myself :) and that’s thanks to you!
It also goes both ways, as I’ve dated some pretty amazing ‘looking’ guys recently! But something changed after your weekend! These ‘hot’ men don’t seem soo attractive and their company isn’t so exciting! I think I have learned finally that real attraction really is on the inside…and it’s not enough to just be ‘cute’ or ‘hot’, I want a good heart and and amazing spirit! I guess I am a ‘fussy b****’ lol, and i am proud!
Luv ya… Have a great time in NY! Come back soon xx
Matthew,
I don’t think you need to apologize for using the word bitch. Some women just need to get over it. I didn’t feel slighted and I COMPLETELY UNDERSTOOD YOUR POINT! I look at people’s faces and many women carry themselves in this manner – in public – or they just looks unhappy or sad. People forget there internal selves is sometimes so readily displayed on the surface. Great video and thanks for addressing this most critical issue that affect us and men, too.