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MATTHEW!!!!
Damn!!!!! you really know how to motivate people! I think that you’re incredibly insightful and all of the advice you give is, well it really hits home and I can’t emphasize enough how much you have inspired me to do better, to BE better so thanks! quick question though, I purchased your get the guy three disc video but have not actually put the suggestions and techniques you go through in the video into practice, I’m a little bit of a chicken shit to do that so I was just wondering what I can do to work up the nerve and the courage to put myself out there?
WOW this hit close to home for me… I don’t know if you saw the message I left on your Last video but this helps me with that question more then you will ever know… you just gave me the biggest boost of confidence just then!!! I have what I was given I am tall I am slim I am blonde and that is who I am objectively but the way I am preserved because of that is wrong because who I am inside my loves my passions and my personality are not completely based upon what I look like on the outside and its wrong that people assume because you look a certain way that you will act a certain way as well. So from now on I won’t let the way I look (most self-conscious about being 6 ft) stop me from being happy. Oh and I love my eyes and my defined collarbone. And again thank you so much you are more help then you will ever know <3
You are absolutely right! Personality most of the times determines the beauty of a person. I really like your videos and all your advices, i’m a 21 girl and before you i was much more insecure. I’m still a little bit like that but i’m working on it. I just wanna say thank you, you make us feel all good with ourselves.
Hi Matthew!
Great video :-) Always great advice. Wish I could come and see you in the flesh, but unfortunately your events are too far away for me…
I once wrote about the same subject, and about how women are so caught up in what media and the fashion world see as beauty, that it affects their self-esteem, and even cause them to settle for much less than they deserve. We cover the real us from the world with thick make-up. I think it’s an insecurity, but that’s just my view.
I think real beauty is when you are comfortable enough with yourself, and having enough pride to show the rest of the world ‘Hey, this is me! Live with it’ regardless of what the current beauty standards are.
Interesting. I grew up in a very “caucasian” area of the US where I was looked down on for being “yellow/brown” mixed race. Now, it seems things have broadened in mindset on what is an appealing “beauty”. I know myself, that I’m still trying to get comfortable in my own skin, encroaching on my 40th year on the planet, still single, etc.
What’s under appreciated about my look;- is my mixed ethnicity. It would be great if that were appreciated at large.
Hello Matthew,
Thank you so much for your evolved and comprehensive openess. What an incredible man you are that you are so in-tune to look at yourself and share your thoughts and your insight with others.
I wish I could attend your women’s retreat…just a bit out of my budget. But would love the opportunity to see you speak if ever you are in the Los Angeles area. Best in NYC…thanks agian!
So inspiring! I’m so really ecstatic that you are posting up more videos, I can’t wait to see what’s to come.
Also, I never appreciate my amiable personality! I love to meet new people, And I never realized how important that is, since I get along with everyone!
An aspect about myself that I take for granted is my ability to have a sense about a person right away.
Thanks for the ending question Matt, it is an important one to ask. To have us look deeply into the mirror and find the good. Love it.
Namaste
Shannon
Yes, exactly! Thank you.
Hey Matt,
I love the fact that you are trying so hard to share your positive energy with the rest of the world. The part of myself i really appreciate is my ability to go through even the darkest days of my life with my head up.
“My strongest muscle is my heart.”
Welcome to NYC!!!
Thanks for putting up such a great video!! love the information and the point of view!
Hello Matt!
Thank you for the upload u r always there to help and provide support :) appreciate it and keep it up! U r awesome!!
And c’mon people out of all the good advice and thousands of good points he makes why would u wanna judge him on just a word he used to describe and obviously he doesn’t mean to offence other wise it wouldn’t be public!!! Why would he offend anyways??! :s
U just gotta let it pass and remmeber all the good advice he always gives!!
Matt u r great and we love you!
Come and visit Sydney and enlighten us with your talk :)
Mina. :)
Come to Australia! No excuses. Just get your butt here pronto.
xx
thank you!
Hi Matt
I really liked the video.
I know that you were strictly talking about looks when you referred to making the best of the cards we are all dealt, but the idea I took from it is that could apply to life in general. I remembered you talked about it in one of your older videos about life lovers I believe? About the idea that even if someone isn’t where they want to be in life atm, or in their dream job they are still making the best of things. They aren’t moaning about their situation, with plans and dreams to move forward. So would it not be the entire attitude of not being insecure about the cards we are dealt, looks or otherwise, and being happy in life no matter what we’ve been dealt? At least that is how I looked at your video and how I live life.
Kiara
Hi Matt,
Today’s blog really hits home for me. I have always believed that men and society, in general, appreciate only outer beauty. I have listened to countless of women always hesitating to perform certain action because they believed that they are not good enough or pretty enough.
For a while, I believed it too…
I began to behave in a certain manner thinking that it was what most attractive to society and men. As you can probably imagined, it did not work out very well for me. During this period of time, I truly did not appreciate my emotional side. I undervalued what I truly believe is my most valuable attribute, my heart. I was cold and that was not me.
So thank you so much for reiterating to me what is most valuable in a girl’s “perceived beauty.” This “perceived beauty” of mine has landed the attention of a man who is nearly perfect for me. And I truly do hope things will work out! :D
Thank you so much for showing women across the world how valuable they are just by being themselves. I am working on it myself and hope to completely learn to appreciate exactly who I am one day!
Best,
Tiffany
Thanks Matthew for your enthusiastic and genuinly supportive way of creating awareness in women so we can embrace all parts of ourselves!
Uplifting!
Cheers, Rita
Hey Mattew
I love all your videos and that you always connect with people in a such beautiful way, i’m always learning new things whenever i listen to you.
And to answer your question i would say i love about my self that i don’t get fooled easily in terms of love and relationship so far lol, and i like my hands and feet too lol :)
Keep up the great job :)
Leila
Hi Matt
I thought that it was about time that I left a comment regarding your new blogs which I am loving.
This one was quite poignant for me as it is a question that I have asked myself many times over the years.
Although it is very true that the media has massively contributed to an epidemic of insecurity, please also spare a thought for people, like myself, who have suffered the torment of an abusive relationship, in my case, verbal, in which I endured two years of being told I was unattractive (and at one point, physically repulsive). It has taken me many years (and even now, like everyone else, I have my bad days) to recover and I still find it an odd concept when I turn heads whilst walking down the street.
For all those women (and men) who have had similar experiences, please do not be ruled by what you have been told in the past, they are all lies, you are unique and you are beautiful and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
What do I like about me? My passion, my kindness and my generosity, these, amongst other things, are what define me as a person!!
….and Matt, thank you for your amazing work, your blogs are an inspiration and I am sure that you help many women go out into the world with their heads held high, keep up the good work and I look forward to future blogs with anticipation.
Hi Matt
Thank you for taking the time to talk about this topic. I know many avoid it because of the possibility of offending, but you dealt with it beautifully (pun intended). One thing I like about myself is my ability to connect with people. I make friends easily and I would say that is a gift that I am grateful for. I generally connect with the goodness inside people and am very fond of listening to their stories. I also take pride in my ability to embolden my friends and help them believe in themselves.
Thanks again!
Maddy