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Are You Pretty Enough For Him?
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lol, you look like Johnny Bravo when you wear the sunglasses! But it’s a nice look for you.
Today I am celebrating my humor! I love laughing and saying outrages or just off quilter statements that make people shocked that I would say it then laugh so hard cause I did!!!
hahaha! too true! :D
Heyhou! That reminds me of what I missed in those awesome bloopers: an eyebrows dance with the sunglasses. I’m always fascinated by moving eyebrows, especially with no eyes visible ;D. No offence. Just makes me laugh. Yeah, me and my crazy ideas. I guess I should appreciate them more ;D. What else can I appreciate about me? My sometimes mischievous attitude, the laughter in my eyes. I’m not going on here ;D. I guess my self-confidence was already too big, so I had to learn first how to dim it down…and now how to build it up again to a healthy level. I really appreciate that video and I love the song.
Thank you, Wise One for such great advice….. it is true that the whole package counts and that we should make the best out of it and to be the mistresses of our own lives. I have been told i am quite charming and hv a happy personality….i realised that it is not how beautiful you are, it is how you look at life that matters. We are all given choices everyday and it is up to us to live life over and above that 100%. Do come by to singapore if you do have the time.
And then theres the people like Matt who have objective AND subjective beauty, unfair dude, unfair :) seriously though, this vlog comes at a good time for me. Thought you were going to do the usual speel of ‘every guy has a different type / it takes all sorts to make the world go round’ yada yada, but makes you think though…sure everyone has a ‘type’ they go for, but theres more to it than that, and while (objectively) I’m not anyone’s ‘type’ I am very good at being me and that is my answer to your question… what is something I like about me that is unappreciated by everyone else…my ability to just be me
Hmm.. I like how my eyes are shaped.. Never really paid attention to them but now that I notice i DO LIKE THEM :)
I felt like you were really speaking to me! I’m glad to see that I’m not alone on this journey that seems a bit abnormal at times.
I bring light and laughter wherever I go. I am such a positive force full of joy and love. I am integrated and feel so incredible about myself…I am a beautiful girl that magnetizes everyone around. I am joy. I am Love. :)
I like that I have a big heart, I am a great listener and that I am open-minded.
Hi Matt,
I can relate to what you say about objective looks and the “package” that we present. Beautiful people are nice to look at, but the personality or conduct may not exude positive energy. When you experience this, the physical beauty quickly loses relevance. I have become disinterested rather quickly in someone who while being very handsome fell short in his personality. On the other hand, I have found that certain guys capture my attention who are not particularly overly handsome in the traditional way. What i realize appreciate is that I they have a “magnetism” about them that i find attractive. The funny thing about this is, that I quite like finding that type of guy attractive and it means that i am not wasting precious time in seeking perfection.
So about my best features? LOL! Well I am told that my eyes “say alot”. Also that I have killer legs and a killer smile. LOL! Hey that’s what i have been told.
Keep making videos, Matt and stay true to yourself! Hope to meet you at an event someday.
Best regards,
Katherine
Thank you so much for this video. I have been watching your videos for a couple of months now and they have helped so much. You really are just amazing and I thank you so much for your advice that I try to apply to my life every day.
Can’t wait for your next blog:)
I LOVE this video Matt. So awesome! I love your description of perceived beauty – very encouraging!
I guess what I need to look after more is my hands. My mum always says that I have beautiful pianist hands. I need to take care of them more.
Thanks for the motivation!
I LOVE the bloopers at the end of the video! Very funny! We get to see more of the ‘behind-the-scenes-Matt’…
Safe travels to NYC!
Hi Matt,
(I apologize for the bad english, it’s not my native language)
I wanted to thank you for this video, it gives me hope and make me think about why I’m so insecure about my body. During the first two years of high school there was this guy who told me everyday how hugly I was and how fat I was. I begun to belive this as well. Now I feel better, but this experience really affected me. It’s like, deep inside, I still feel like other people think those things. Nevertheless, I’m still 18 and I think I can’t let this make me feel so bad all the time. I’m trying to make a change because I deserve to feel comfortable with my body and I shouldn’t give a damn about some stupid bully. Thanks again for this video, it was really important to me.
One thing that I love about myself is the fact that I have uncommon hobbies, like comics and cosplaying. Sometimes my friends don’t understand this side of me, maybe they think it’s stupid or childish but I don’t care. Instead I think this makes me special.
Hi Matt
Wow that is what I needed to hear today, I have a crush on a guy who I was telling myself was too attractive for me. I feel alot better about myself after hearing this, and also found it insightful as to why I find him so attractive…it’s not his looks it’s his attitude/ mannerisms…I suppose beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. Thanks and by the way I like your honesty and language…PC is for the faint hearted!!
Hey Matthew,
Yes, I can confirm you are right about the info in this video.
P.S: you look funny with those sunglasses! and good luck in New York ;)
Hi Matt
Your such a delight to watch and always insightful!
This is an area where I always seem to second guess myself but I understand it differently after watching this :)
One thing I like about myself is that I’m super cheesy! I like to be a hopeless romantic, not only about love but also about life. I’m a bit of a dreamer but I find that sometimes my so cliche and wild views on life make me so much more fun to be around and actually help some people sometimes.
P.s. I also like my curly hair.
My eyes.. definitely.
It’s cheesy to talk about your eyes any other time, but they’re awesome! They’re a dark green with a dark orange around the pupil.. and one has a freckle in it.. :P
Hello Matthew. I wanna thank you for this video.
I got my first boyfriend 3 month ago, but the thing I
haven’t understood was how he could fall for me when it’s so many beautiful girls out there. In my eyes he’s really attractive, so I thought it was weird that he would choose me when he could choose a hotter girl.
Thank to this video I’ve understood why he chose me, it’s because of the whole package, the same reason to why I chose him and like him. Because of the whole package.
Thank You so much and keep on being inspiring.
– Svea from Sweden
Hi Matt
Just wanted to say that what you say about beauty was great!! Only yesterday was I sneakily looking at a text message a young school girl sitting next to me on the bus wrote and it went along the lines of “why won’t you go out with me? Is it because I’m ugly and fat?!”
Firstly, I shouldn’t have been looking at what she was texting, but secondly I thought it was very sad that such a young person would say something like that about herself.
I’ve gone through years of thinking the same thing and it’s taken me quite a while to get that notion out of my head.
I’ve read a lot of stuff about relationships, how to succeed in relationships and the same message keeps coming across….It’s how you feel about yourself.
We’re all different. We all have something to offer to people, we’re all sexy and beautiful and we should all believe in that!!
We can’t expect someone else to make us feel good about ourselves (wouldn’t that be giving them too much of a responsibility?) It all comes down to ourselves.
We’re all just ace!!!
I used to think that some lovely man would me happy, but happiness comes from within. I am in a relationship, but I’m happy with me and I’m happy in the relationship, but the happiness began with me first.
At 33, I’ve realised that I am happy with who I am and how I look and the person I am….there’s nothing wrong with me.
It’s not being big-headed or arrogant, it’s about giving yourself the respect you deserve.
I just hope that the girl on the bus will realise that quicker than I did!!
Thanks Matt for bringing this to the attention of all those lovely ladies out there…it’s great to hear :-)
Heidi
xxx
I like my eyelashes! :)
hey, another great video ;)
I’d have to say as a couple others did – i am a bit superficial when it comes to looks too – if a guy is more “physically” attractive then he will have a better chance at talking to me than the other “non” attractive guy would – one question i have though “how can i get these so called “good-looking guys to be attracted to me?” it seems i attract all the guys i am NOT attracted to in the least bit – kinda depressing makes you wonder if you are “pretty” – it runs through my mind sometimes (not all the time) that man am i that ugly that i seem to only attract the “ugly” ones (in my preferred taste of men)? for once i would like a guy i am attracted to to be attracted to me as well…
I feel your pain I find this happens to me to! Any suggestions Matt?
I almost cry seeing this. Last week my actual boyfriend said that he was thinking to break up with me at the very start of our relationship because I wasnt beautiful enough.
Thanks for doing this