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Song of the day (featured at the end of the video)…
Are You Pretty Enough For Him?
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The consistency in my behavior towards people i am in a relationship with and even otherwise, i would not want to confuse this with predictability. I just know what I want and am not scared to go all the way to make it happen.
Learning a lot in the course of manifesting love in my life :)
Thanks for making all these videos. Sorry about the negative comments you were getting on the last two. Don’t stop!
Please don’t use the words shit/bitch. Be classy and talk politely. You are young…but it makes a difference. Thanks for being a good model. I don’t think you need to discuss your words on the videos… please just edit your videos if needed. I appreciate it.
Thanks for your help in dating and your insights. I agree beauty is the whole package. Actors/actresses may not be pretty…but take care of themselves/smile/have personality/thin. Beauty is on the inside more than outside which changes as you get older. If a guy judges by looks…he may end up with someone he can’t relate to but is pretty on the outside.
Hey Matt! Once again you’ve managed to hit the head of the nail dead on! Beauty – inner beauty albeit – is something I struggle with quite a bit. It’s difficult to acknowledge, I think, that we are all beautiful in our own, special way. I mean, in the pack of poised, posh, prim, “plastic” (and I mean that in the nicest way possible) women, it’s difficult to find yourself as a straggler on the outskirts beautiful. And that is just the predicament between societies elite women, and women of normal stature. It is an entirely different slice of bread when it comes to the way a man merits a woman’s beauty. It’s downright nerve wracking to contemplate on what a man’s first impression of a woman’s appearance is. I used to hide under my unshapely clothes because I was conscious about being viewed as a sexual object by men. I want a man to look past my physical appearance and look into my soul and my true self. Although, I do have faith in the male population and believe that my knight in shining tin foil is out there! In any case, I’ll cut my little rant here that I’ve voiced short and end with this: I believe that beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder, but I guess now I just have to wait for the right “beholder” to come along on his merry way.
PS. As for the answer to the Question of the day: as far as physical characteristics, my sky-high cheek bones and my tiny lips. And for my personality, it would definitely be my honesty; I’m always beating myself up for how honest I am.
PPS. I liked the song of the day, it definitely lifts the spirit! :)
i love my ability to think positively:) i love my smile and my eyes. i love that i keep trying and don’t give up and i love that each day there are new possibilities!
I Really like your music – the part I apprciate about me is my lips and my facial transitions (Funny eh) and I apprciate the way you move your lips and your eye movments which seem to indicate such a genuiness (Funny again?) Enjoy THE BIG APPLE dont bite it too hard
To answer the question of the day…I think I under appreciate my height, usually i think on it as a bad thing, most guys being shorter than me, but I think it gives me an interesting way of viewing the world…literally lol
Hi Matt!
I just love your vlogs, I always feel better after watching them! :)
Well, I love everything on me! :) Because that’s unique! I love my looong fingers, my small waist, my eyes, nose, smile, etc. I love being short, because I can always wear very high heels! I love my sense of humor, I’m always for having a great time, and I love that I’m so confident, because I’ve come a long way to be like that!
I remember when I was younger, I was so insecure in myself, but today, when someone says to me that I’m not skinny enough, tall enough, not pretty enough.. , I just say to them – If you think that, that’s YOUR problem, not mine. Especially when someone says to me that I’m not skinny enough, I just love to say to them – if you think that, you should visit ophthalmologists! ;)
Big kiss from Croatia, handsome! ;)
Hi Matt!
great video! It makes me really angry when I hear people saying that just because they are average, or less than that, they can’t get a handsome man/woman! I have a flatmate (woman) who is really concerned with that and speaks nonsense for hours about the matter and it drives me nuts! And no matter how hard I try to convince her she’s wrong, also by using evidence (I am average, but I really like myself, and I could get also hansome guys, same as my other average friends……), she won’t believe me! SHe thinks looks are TOO important…But in real life noone who isn’t terribly stupid would go out with someone just based on their looks!
In any case, I won’t listen to her moans anymore, it just draws negativity on me!;-)
As for the homework……appearence: as odd as it may sound…..I love my nose!
personality: I love the fact that I always say what I think in a very direct way.
I totally love your video. You’re speaking truth into our hearts, Matthew. Maybe we’ve heard this before or somehow it seems logic, but the way you put it is really powerful. Thank you.
Wow so many truths that we just don’t see.
My under appreciated feature is my responsibility and being so punctual.
You always give us food for thought!
Have a safe trip
X
Hey there Matt,
I really liked this vid-blog of yours. I work with special ed kids who ALWAYS feel that they aren’t good enough, not pretty enough, not tall/smart/funny (…) enough and I try to basically give them the same message you gave us here.
I even talk to my friends about it when they feel down, when they feel un-loveable (and who doesn’t from time to time) – however, I find it soooo much harder to TAKE this advice than to give it. Don’t get me wrong – I actually believe in it (otherwise I’d be a phony for giving advice I don’t believe in) – but it is hard for me sometimes to not just see or focus on my (perceived) flaws. But you ARE right and I have decided to keep up those positive thoughts when unwanted bad ones creep in… So thanks for that :-)!
Very well said Matthew! I have a friend (guy) who is nothing special in the looks department but he has such personality that is very attractive (hard to point out anything specific, just the way he carries himself I guess).
What I like about myself the most is my hair. Whenever I feel like nothing else works, I do my hair and put on a smile. I always get compliments throughout the day. It brightens up my day and helps the initial sadness or dissatisfaction with my looks at the beginning of the day fade away.
Welcome to New York!
Yes, guys can fall for you when they know you well, and this has happened to me a couple of times with long-term friends. So while I agree that men fall in love with a whole person not a ‘look’, if you’re out in public if a guy doesn’t immediately find you physically attractive you won’t get past stage 1 – talking to them! I have literally had guys step in front of me to talk to my very attractive friend as if I wasn’t even there! The problem is opening up situations to allow people to get to know your personality when they immediately dismiss you for not being Claudia Schiffer. Bet your gf is a bit of a looker isn’t she Matt?
I like the outtakes the best :D
And the answer to the question of the day is my eyes. They rock!
Hi Matthew :) Your video is very refreshing and informative. Thank you for taking time out to creating this video even though you’re scheduled to fly out to New York soon. I do agree about the objective beauty and perceived beauty. As a petite woman, I used to be very self-conscious. Now, to answer your question of the day, I do love my height now. I’m a firm believer that beautiful things come in small packages ^_^ Also my most cherished features would be my mouth, my expressive eyes and last but not least, my youthful looks.
In terms of personality, I’m sweet, family oriented, determined and out spoken (I feel that the last one is underappreciated by most people). Good luck in New York and thank you for sharing :)
My most underappreciate quality is that I do unto & treat them the way I like to be treated. I always come from a position of respect, openness/neutrality, and just trying to be helpful and cool
im gonna be on this website for the next 2 hours. i need this so bad. 1 thing i don’t usually appreciate: how intelligent and driven I am. 2- Physical- I have a nice booty.
thanks Matt
hmm.. your question was hard, because since I have a great deal of insecurities, I make sure to remind my self of the things I like about my self, so I’ll write a list just to make an extra reminder since I’m feeling pretty bad about my self at the moment.
I appriciate that I like to help other people, that my waist is pretty small and my boobs pretty big (even though they can be pretty annoying finding cloths that fit nicely and stuff). I appreciate my face, the relationships I have to family and friend and especially my wonderful little brother. I appreciate the ability to find beauty in most things and most people and the openness I bring to those people.
Also what you say totally make sense, even though I can be superficial about my own looks, when I look at a guy, looks don’t matter. Maybe you’ll think, that is just something she’s saying, but of cause I can se if he is good looking or not I just don’t care that much if he’s open and charming and my type I don’t care if he’s not that good looking, I’ll fall for him any way