I get it…. You’ve all had a good laugh at my botched spray tan. (In case you missed it, watch last Sunday’s blog and check out all of the negative comments on YouTube).
Now you may think that type of thing gets me upset, but it doesn’t. It used to, of course – I’m only human. But being in the public eye, I’ve learned a few things about overcoming negativity and bad energy, and I want to share them with you today…
Hello. I’m Agata and I recently watch Your videos for I enjoy how Your mind works. I work with mindsets and You provided me with more than one valuable checkup. I post a comment here because if there is a chance that You haven’t moved on the subject mentioned since posting it, I would like to offer another point of view. So, to the point.
The reflex response You observe in Yourself is the best one. There is a reason for everything, every ‘insecurity’ has the potential to be explained because things with body doesn’t just happen accidentally. The insecurity You feel is the subconscious clue to something yet to be explored by Your conscious mind. Therefore, the very uneasiness while explaining the insecurity marks the time when You try to know Yourself better. Uncomfortably may it seem to do that with someone who You would call a ‘toxic’ person but sometimes – they are the only suitable ignitors to break through the firewall of owning it.
I only say this because I get the notion that You weren’t as satisfied as usual with the solution You came with. I would propose then two-path operating mode.
First would be to face the remark without any signs of impact that it has done and this is suitable when the environment can’t provide any assistance, when there is no good will and one feels weakened.
Second is to pursue the explanation nevertheless. But not for the benefit of the instigator. For one’s own benefit. That is the equivalent of using the force of a punch against its performer and – foremostly – the way to use the energy You receive that changes it from negative to positive.
Many kisses and I hope this might be of some value because I like to see the strong men realising that they don’t need any kind of shield anymore.
Agata
P.S. I also leave it unedited :)
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