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How To Know If You’re In The Best Relationship Of Your Life

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Love has a funny way of sneaking up on you.

Sure, the Disney movies make us believe that it’s all lightning bolts to the heart and falling head over heels with a dashing prince, but in truth, sometimes you don’t realise you’re in an amazing relationship until you stop and think about it.

The truth is: love is in the small things.

It’s waking up in the morning and seeing someone next to you whom you want to spend the day with. Someone who you don’t have to explain all your jokes to. Someone who brings you orange juice and chicken soup when you feel sick.

So here are 5 key signs you’re in the best relationship you’ve ever had that you might not have noticed yet…

1. You enjoy thinking about each other’s needs

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When you’re with someone special, you’re happy to meet their needs.


Because you understand them. Because you know this person has your back and you in turn have theirs. Because you know that investing in this relationship only ever returns greater happiness and fulfillment for both of you.

When you actually enjoy making each other happy, instead of resenting it, you know you’re onto something special.

2. You can be completely yourself

True love makes you feel free to be who you really are. It opens you up and makes you realise that your uniqueness is something to not only be accepted, but treasured.

The best relationship is one where you feel completely safe to speak your mind, be your (sometimes weird) self, and decide what you want without judgment.

3. You don’t dream about being single anymore

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When you’re in an amazing relationship, your life has so much added meaning and richness that you can’t imagine what you’d get out of being single again.

Instead of thinking about the variety and fun of being “on-the-dating-scene”, you think of the joy of making an ever-deeper connection with your partner and becoming an incredible team together.

4. You know things aren’t perfect, and that’s ok

And the final sign of the absolute best relationship of your life is when you give up the illusion of perfection.

You realise that both of you have flaws – he’s messy and bad at planning and it drives you crazy sometimes – you can be opinionated and complain about work too much. But you both know that what you have is stronger than those annoying habits.

Instead of every disagreement becoming a threat to the relationship, you figure it out and work through the difficult times together. When you’re willing to do that and come out as better people for it, you’ll know you’re with someone you can spend the rest of your life with.

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8 Replies to “How To Know If You’re In The Best Relationship Of Your Life”

  • Matthew I’m not sure if your writing these or if Stephen is, but whoever is writing these blogs every week I’m loving them! I have never been in a relationship but I will be ready for him when he comes into my life. Thanks to Matthew and Stephen I notice my uniqueness and am proud of it You Husseys have created a tribe of diabolical dreams for men out in the world.

  • Matthew I only just recently discovered your YouTube videos. ( I live in Spain ). They are teaching me so many things. I’d like to commend you on your topics and responses. They are always smart and ever so entertaining. Never a dull moment with you Mr. Hussey. You are the best role model/guru ever!

    Thank you for being you.

    Ana (aka Rose Garcia)


    I cannot believe you used to be shy ! Really ??

  • Good morning Matthew-

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    I appreciate you greatly for your time and I hope to hear from you!

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    Warm regards and thank you kindly,
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  • I texted other guys when i was in My relationship and he found out by looking into My phone, do you think is there a recovery from that, i did it cause we werent in a good place right now and i guess i was feeling lonely and wanted validación from someone else, is the worst thing i ever did to a partner and that i could ever o to him, even do i didnt actually sleep with someone else and truly wasnt planning on doing that, is was wrong. And i dont want to loose him. I truly belive we are right for each other.

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