Here’s a really tricky part about dating: The moment you realize you like someone, it can feel like everything’s riding on winning them over. But what really makes you magnetic isn’t trying harder . . . it’s showing up as your confident, authentic self, and bringing your own value to the table without overthinking.
In this video, I break down how to shift your mindset so you stay grounded and relaxed, even when your feelings feel super strong. Don’t miss this key to creating a real connection that lasts!
Hi Matthew,
Following this on from watching the casual to commitment webinar. This video is what I’ve needed today. After joining love live annual subscription it’s what I’ve needed this Sunday as needed this kinda video on staying grounded and relaxed when liking someone. Cos that is one thing I struggle a lot with.
THANK YOU MH AND TEAM
This is awesome, to the point.
Thank you
Your thesis of the “Unique Alchemistry”as a core of the rare connections is truly Inspiring and perhaps the Rightest definition I have come across!!!
Thanks much, Mathew, for your always Exiting, Insightful, and Guiding videos
You do a Great Job for the lost Souls
I loved the “wallet” concept.. A different way of approaching relationships especially as you said, even in the moments of being single.
How do you move past what you always thought you “wanted/needed”… Because now it feels like it isn’t that anymore?
Thanks for all you do, Matthew!
Ive been following you for several years now and no other “dating coach” can touch you. The thought I come away with so often is the opposite of trying to get them to like me. I worry what if they like me and want to see me and I start to feel trapped and loss of my independence. Im the one with fear of commitment, not the guy.
I need this on repeat! I have definitely fallen foul of this in the past, even though I know you can ‘smell’ desperation. It’s such a turn-off. Great advice and loved the wallet analogy.
Great video. Thanks.
It can be used in every area of life, not just in your love life.
Love from Istanbul
Hi I really loved this video especially about confidence and the wallet .
I’m at the stage of being seeing someone who I really like and I’ve been trying not to be so desperately needy . Which I am . I’m sure it’s sensed by him . But I’m not so desperate that I will be in a relationship that’s not my wallet !! It is difficult though as I have been single and lonely for so long . I’ve never had the right one
I have followed you for years. I have been member of your fan club for the same number of years. What I love about your approach is you don’t try to get a woman to think about how the man thinks or feels; you focus on getting the women to feel whole on their own even before having a man enter the scene. I really love that you spend the time trying to get us to identify and be confident in our own gifts, strengths and talents, and what we bring to the table. We are not just pick me’s, we are individuals of substance and have equal importance in the relationship. Thank you very much for that approach. Much love and happiness to you in your marriage.
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