Your responses to my last blog post made me think…
Song For The Day
Comment below! Bath time song or summer driving?
I Suck. Here’s Why…
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Most def a song you listen to in the car. ;) Which is normally Michael Buble for me. lol But def love the song choice.
And no way do you suck! Seriously like at first I thought you were telling us bloggers that we sucked and I’m like whattt!!? lol But, you are doing a great job and I just adore your videos, I actually never realized you were gone in the first place. I don’t have problems with my love life, I’m single yes, but def don’t have any problems there. So I don’t watch your videos for that. I just get a kick out of watching you. :) But, my favorite video you put up was on the three steps to Confidence. I think every chic should watch it.
Just keep posting :)
Christi Joy
Hi Matthew,
Thank you for demonstrating such transparency and real leadership skill. It is so helpful to hear other leaders tell the truth about their struggles and the learning curve in creating great online communities and relationships. I am a psychotherapist and a leader in a global business that supports life-affirming change in organizations. It felt so affirming to hear you share your insights about perfectionism. I suffered from the same challenge and saw how it negatively affected the relationships in my community. So hurray for you for seeing the connection and acting on it.
Beyond that you are also demonstrating an essential skill for building trust and deepening intimacy in any relationship. The great capacity to bust yourself (especially with compassion and humour), to apologize, to not over-promise, and to make a strong intention to work to do better. It shows genuine maturity, care, and leadership in life. So thank you for your courage, your hard work, and your willingness to show up authentically.
Blessings,
iyeshka
I definitely encourage you to share your thoughts and inspirations with us in a regular bases if possible. There are many technologies which will make it time convenient and efficient so that you can tweet/ update your facebook status more regularly. I agree with previous comment about someone just typing it up for you (like your great assistant/ friend Ed). When you do not have the time to physically do certain things, but you are still responding to your fans and ex-seminar attendees with your own words. Ultimately you will have to delegate and I really think you are getting better at this. Getting Ed to respond to some of your emails on your behalf etc.
It is always great to hear from you and share your thoughts with us. For those of us who need a bit of a push and reminder when we are trying to be the best we can be, be high value, your encouragements and inspiring quotes are food for thought.
From all of what you have taught and shared with us, the single most effective and life transforming technique or idea which I use everyday is always carry a warm friendly smile on my face. This does sound very simple, but because of the reasons why you should have a smile, and the explanation and mindset you have so thoroughly explained to us, and the kind of results I’m getting, it really has changed so much in just how I see and engage the world. So thank you and keep your videos coming. x
i can hardy believe people can actually find negative things to say about you, but then again people are full of surprises. I just wanted to say how much your advice has meant to me both in dating and especially as an entreprenuer. Its really pulled me through some pretty discouraging times. You have given me the kick in the ass i needed mant time and i am incredably gratfull. thank you :)
Hi Matthew,
This was a lovely video. It wasn’t what I expected but I thought it was nice of you to share it with us. I am not able to attend seminars or pay the bucks for all your tutorials but I have watched some on your youtubepage and I also read your emailsnippets with great interest.
I have been dating for a while now and I think it’s an interesting journey and also a rocky one. The people you meet, expectations you might have, it’s all up to you and then hopefully the person you meet will be a good match, or not ;)
Your video’s made me realize that dating is fun and that it’s ok to not be in a relationship right after your last one. I have always thought it was a personal failure that I have been single for a while now but they made me aware that the only failure was actually thínking I did it myself. I only did that tó myself :) Now that I know I have been dating much more mature guys and I just know that in a while I will find a good match for me again.
Concluding I would like to say that you should also give yourself some rest, the world won’t stop moving if you aren’t able to update here so much. Take a break once in a while cause I think you are doinge great allready and all the social media demands are beyond crazy sometimes. Put away the phone and relax :)
All the best,
Eva from Holland
thanks for adding me to your mailing list
and thanks for your time and the effort you make to do those videos to help us, Matthew.
about the song i think it’s Suitable for both cases …. we don’t want your friend to be sad.
Hey Matthew,
I just want to let you know that I have watched many of your videos and I think everything you are doing to help people is wonderful. The story of how I actually discovered you is kind of interesting, because I wasn’t seeking out advice to help stimulate my love life. I was actually contemplating how I could improve myself and make myself a better conversationalist, so I decided to do a youtube search on it and ended up finding one of your videos. I’ve been watching them ever since.
I know quite a bit about the psychology of men and women, as I am a psychology major and have also read a few books on the subject, and I must say, all of your advice is great. I have found that the main problem that exists today in relationships between men and women is the inability to communicate effectively. I think the advice you give helps people learn how to do this because it is so insightful into how the minds of many men work. I just want to thank you for all of your great advice. I wish you all the best and hope you know how much all of your work is appreciated. Try not to stress out too much about not being able to answer every single comment. I, along with many of your other fans, already know that you do so much to help us. You are an amazing person! :)
It most definitely a cruisin’ summer day song! You were spot on Matt! Oh and I’m TOTALLY agree with you, who has time to respond to every little comment on a blog!!! However, you are doing a Fantastic job of it on this one! Way to go! Woohoo! Oh and I LOVE song of the day…just an FYI. :)
Wow, I sound like I don’t know how to speak normally! I meant it most definitely is a summer cruisin’ song, AND I TOTALLY agree with you! Apparently I didn’t edit before posting. Sorry!
Hey Matthew, great video :)
And you don’t suck, don’t beat yourself up over it! We do really appreciate “face time” if you will, but we know you’re a busy guy, no worries :)
And I would definitely have to agree with you.. car song! Haha, stick your hand out the window and do the little wavy hand-floating-on-the-breeze thing as the sun passes through the trees..
Btw, that “Seconds” video was beautiful! Thanks for sharing, and thanks for doing what you do!
Much love xx
Hi Matt:
I”m recently become acquainted with your work, and really enjoy your insight, your energy, and your perspective……but-I”m definitely with Ed….bathroom song:)
I am having no luck whatsoever. Last time I saw my crush, Prince Charming, I said: “KABULLAH.” And that’s not even a word.
I am only twelve, but yet I’m in love. I am completely ignoring the saying “there’s more fish in the sea to catch”. I am ignoring that. BIG time. I’m not giving up. It’s not like I’m desperate around him. I go all shy and stupid and I look exactly like a fish – that’s all – I once even dribbled.
Believe me, you need to make a video for me. Have you read the things I need to work on when I first signed up???
If you have please help me out. There’s nothing here on the blog that never really helps me. I only see him like once or twice or three times every two weeks! He’s in high-school. And I’m in intermediate. He used to like me last year around term four – like you’d know if you read the things I need help with that I first told you when I signed up for this.
I didn’t just sign up here for nothing; I signed up here for help on love.
I’m having real problems, not only with guys like this boy at this school who keeps on touching me (which I hate) and Prince Charming – but also with my parents. They never really went like out… my mum got assulted by my dad. I’ve hated boys since I found out. Then I met Prince Charming: hot, nice, smart, and in love with me… but now a year nine. But anyway, I changed. I loved him. Like love at first sight. It actually took a while to make him like me. And when he started, I totally messed up all the time.
I just wanna say, you DO suck to me – but to others, you rock. I don’t get it. I guess I’m just mad because now I thinks it’s too late and that he doesn’t love me anymore. And that depresses me so much. I pretty much wanted to die. Disappear.
But anyway, thanks for the video. I hope you get to read this and to reply to it. Please don’t hate me. I’m not mad-well I am, but not mad mad. Just mad.
Omigosh, I have once again lost my head. Actually not, otherwise I’d be dead.
You rock. Please help me out. Actually HELP me. Not kabulp me.
You know, it’s OK if you don’t wanna reply to this. I’m just a silly girl. Who is ‘infactuating’.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, you decide what to do.
Please help the-girl-who-has-almost-given-up.
xx
I think you both win~ I can see myself in both situations! YA YA. Thank~you so much for your blog~ You are a great inspiration, unbelievably awesome!!
Hey Matthew i have a question for you i have followed few of your advices and guess what 2 days ago the guy that i really liked started to take a new a step but i’m kinda confused from what he did.. see what happend is, when we finished our party and about to leave to my place he hugged me and placed a kiss on my neck! so i thought that was like a little bit wiered, and by this action i’m actually confused i don’t know if he likes me or he just desired me on that night… I think i really need your advice and your opinion about this.
I say this song is good anytime. I am currently just checking email and what not, while listening to the song. It is very catchy and soothing, yet fun.
and definately that’s not a bath song lol… so you win ;).
Looking forward to hearing from you
Wow, really nice song….I think it’s a great song to wake up with in the morning.( yeah…I just woke up :P) I’m glad too that I’m in the mailing list, great mails. :) Ok.That’s it.
P.S: you don’t have to respond to this, really.
this is definitely a Vapiano song :D
Matt, it’s refreshing to know you’re human and that with so much going on you still check in for your bloggers. The song is great, currently breaking up a dull afternoon in the office so thank you for posting it! Very excited about the upcoming email, I am yet to come to a seminar but think I need to..
Thanks for all your hard work, it’s really appreciated. You are an inspiration. X
I kept smiling throughout the video and I’m glad we’ll be hearing more from you! I just finished my IB Diploma today – sooo happy to be done with high school. The song is PERFECT for a day like this… LIFE’S GOOOOOD! :)))
It’s okay if you don’t have time to update us on a daily or weekly basis, I’m always glad when your newsletter comes out, whether it’s been a long time or not! Thanks for catching up with us! And I’m excited about all the big things happening for you, keep up the good work!
Love from a Swede in Germany :) x
Summertime drive definitely :] thanks for being so great Matthew! Everytime I watch one of your videos I get motivated to go out and be the confident person I know I can be (thanks to you)! Keep on doing the magic you’re doing!