Where do you meet men??
I believe good people are everywhere. In the video I want to demonstrate that to you, firstly by telling you some of the unusual places I’ve met people, and then by asking you and conducting a little experiment…
Where do you meet men? Where was the last place you met a quality guy?
Let me know in the comments below.
I want you to think of this as an experiment where the more comments we get, the better this is going to be. I’m then going to draw on all of your comments in my next video and let you know the results.
Be specific about where you were, what the location was, and what type of location it was.
Were you taking a class, doing one of your hobbies, were you grabbing a coffee, shopping…tell us!
Retweet this, get it to your friends, share it on your Facebook, pass it on to as many people as possible, and encourage them to comment too.
The more comments we get, the more effective this is going to be. So I can’t wait to read yours!
Matthew x
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I met him online actually… on Facebook. And he was my only love so far (I’m 20).
I met my last relationship about 4 years ago through one of the local newspapers. I had placed an advert and he replied. We dated for about 2 years.
About 7 years ago I met a guy at a singles Ball in Hutton in Brentwood, Essex It was his first time at a Ball and mine. The chemistry was there the first evening, but I only saw him a few times as he was still in love with his ex wife. I have not met anyone else like him since.
Met this guy I really liked for months last year in his band at a gig I arranged, but we didnt really speak til a few months later when I had a really bad day and we got talking on facebook and we started to hang out and it felt romantic for a while. I was aware he only wanted to be friends, but still I wanted something with this guy someday and there were times I thought he might like me back. I confessed to him how I really felt, but someone I thought was my friend who knew everything about me and him took him away from me forever just recently and left me in a very bad place. I suffer with depression and it really sucks having a mental illness that can’t be cured.
I tell you what though, before my heart was broken, I did meet a guy in a bar in my hometown and he said hello and not many guys do that at random to me, but I was shy to make convo with him, mainly cos he was playing pool with his mates at the time and I was waiting for a phone call from my crush. So was it was an awkward time. I am considering trying to meet the guy again if he’s at the bar the same night. If not, then no big deal.
I’ve met interesting guys in the “usual” places:
– at University parties
– through mutual friends (most often by coincidence at parties or in bars but also on set up dates)
– in bars and nightclubs
– at work or through work functions
I once wrote my friend’s cute neighbour a note and put it in his mailbox, asking him to be in touch the next time he was having a party with his flat mates as it seemed like they had a lot of fun. He contacted me and told me it was a lovely surprise and took me out. He would have liked to continue seeing me had I felt the same about him (We had seen each other in the staircase of the house and nodded “hello” so it wasn’t completely anonymous).
I also once met a French guy on the train to Lyon. I didn’t have anywere to sit and he pointed at the seat next to him which was free.
When I think about it, I have met tons of interesting men. However, I’ve only met one I really fell for. One I felt like I would actually have wanted to be with for the long run.
At a dance class event on a Cruise
Hi Hannah,
I love this! Dancing is a great way to build attraction. Thanks for commenting. x
The Marylebone – the pub in Marylebone High Street in London! That was where I met my last boyfriend!
The last 2 quality guys I met – one I was set up with by mutual friends, and one was on a Christian online dating site. I met my last long term boyfriend at a house party ( were we each were friends with a different housemate).
Some of the less quality men I have met – Internet dating, in a nice bar while out with a girl friend, and gatwick airport (we started chatting after we realised we were from the same country, ended up sitting together on the plane, and met up for drinks and dinner later- he was however on a boys holiday, and moved on pretty quickly when he was realised I was not a one-night-stand kind of a girl! I even used Matthew’s “I’m a lady” line on him!!)
My last boyfriend I met at work….. turned out to be a disaster mind you, when I discovered he hadn’t actually ‘officially’ separated from his wife! Been on a couple of dates since, but hardly any and those have been via dating sites. Previous boyfriends have met at work too, or through friends. But now, to be honest, I’m too fearful of meeting anyone, so just keep my head down and don’t attract anyone, anywhere! :(
I’m going out with a guy for about a month and a half. I met him in an empty pub an ordinary day. They’ve asked to take a picture, that was the way we met. You can find love everywhere, but you need to move and be ready to interact with people. :)
Hi Summer,
Agreed! Thanks for sharing. x
The last guy I dated for about four month I met at a christian student group. We met about each week at a parish hall and/or at a pub. We sang, prayed, read religious text or texts on the suject of religion and tealked about them. There were also evenings with special events.
My last boyfriend and I met at a party. Months later – through another friend – we came to spend about a week together on vacation and got to know eachother.
Seeking adventure, I went on a group holiday trek around Cuba to celebrate my 40th – there were some really great single men in the group but they were too old for me…. but I did find myself flirting with the gorgeous (but married) Cuban tour guide – it was harmless fun & boosted my confidence no end for when I do meet single men my own age!
I’ve also found that a well-directed smile can stop men in their tracks when walking towards you in the street – try it! It’ll make you keep smiling all day for making HIS day! One day, I might even chat to one of them!!
I met him at the St. Regis Hotel Bar near the Galleria in Houston, TX. He asked me to dance, We both danced “Greatm” together.
I was with a friend and told her after I looked up at the sky, it was a Full Moon out, I am going to meet someone tonight.
The last great guy I meet was new years eve at a singles party. Unfortunately he lives in America and I live in Denmark:(
Well to list where I have meet guys
University parties
A friend of a friend
Friends of my brother
Work
Airports, planes, trains
Weddings and other parties of some size
Met my last boyfriend on a night out in O’Neils in Islington. We were in love for 7 and a half years and lived together for 6 and a half.
My last boyfriend wasn’t really quality, but he was nice and I wanted to give him a chance. We met in the student center at our college through mutual friends. The last guy I went on a date with, is potentially quality, and we met online.
I have given up on meeting men spontaneously. I only meet men online now through dating sites. I am 50 and am 5 ft 11 in so I am in somewhat of a pickle when it comes to meeting tall men to whom I am attractive and who don’t live with thier parents or have crazy ex wives with young children. Most men my age don’t want women my age. Throw in the fact that I am very tall, and I am a dinosaur.
Okay well:
Guy 1 – at a sailing course in Scotland, he was the young instructor and we were only two years apart,it was one-on-one teaching so we got to know each other rather well, sharing many jokes and experiences over capsizing and camping out and the regatta in the storm… ah, good memories! He was really a decent guy!
Guy 2 – we were both working backstage on a play in a theatre. I was in charge of Props and he was my ‘muscles’ (to do all the lifting and carrying). Although from very different backgrounds, to this day I don’t think I’ve met someone with such a lovely sense of humour, manners and chivalry as him.
Hope this helps Matthew! xx
WH Smith Victoria Station – met a guy who paid for my magazines
bus stop Battersea London – met a guy who walked me home, bus was taking too long
Harrods – met guy at cookery course
The last guy I met was at a local pub as a blind date by a friend. All seemed to be going well for a few weeks and then he just disappeared without a word! So good quality honest upfront men I would love to know where to find one!!
Oh boy…the man I’ve in love with for a while now (unfortunately not reciprocated) I met him as a flat mate…I moved to a new city and went to a lady’s house to rent a room, and he was living there already. Similar background, we both did master’s degrees abroad, same age, lovely…
A second person, I started attending speedates events, and he asked me out. I don’t feel attracted to him but he has a great sense of humor and good conversation. I think he qualifies as “quality”.