Where do you meet men??
I believe good people are everywhere. In the video I want to demonstrate that to you, firstly by telling you some of the unusual places I’ve met people, and then by asking you and conducting a little experiment…
Where do you meet men? Where was the last place you met a quality guy?
Let me know in the comments below.
I want you to think of this as an experiment where the more comments we get, the better this is going to be. I’m then going to draw on all of your comments in my next video and let you know the results.
Be specific about where you were, what the location was, and what type of location it was.
Were you taking a class, doing one of your hobbies, were you grabbing a coffee, shopping…tell us!
Retweet this, get it to your friends, share it on your Facebook, pass it on to as many people as possible, and encourage them to comment too.
The more comments we get, the more effective this is going to be. So I can’t wait to read yours!
Matthew x
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I met my most recent ex-boyfriend on the dating website POF. We dated for a little over a year, and discovered he cheated on me and was a very deceptive person, to the point of having two lives… So this is where NOT to meet a quality man.
Guy 1 I met at a work party with mutual friends. I asked him out eventually, but he just saw us as friends. We’re still friends today. He’s a quiet guy, but a great friend now that I’ve just accepted the fact.
The last decent guy I met was at a festival in the US. We were both drummers in bands that were playing and we were all staying at the nearest YMCA for the week we were there. Unfortunately, it couldn’t go anywhere. He was a US marine, and I was a Scottish Uni student. Maybe if they get invited over to play in the UK, it would be nice to see him again and catch up. Fond memories. :)
Unfortunately, on the other hand, I never had much luck with work or coffee shops..
I met a guy when I was having dinner with my friend in Akbars restaurant on Greek St, Leeds. He was on the next table with his friend and apparently they had spent the evening daring each other to talk to us.
I met another guy in terminal 2, Gatwick airport whilst having a pub lunch waiting for my flight.
I met one boyfriend at an Open University lecture at Leeds Uni and the next boyfriend I met at a party held at the ‘dancing Chinese’ Willow restaurant on Coney St, York
Both my last 2 relationships started at work. 1 begun at a colleagues party, although we were currently working together. The other was a guy I had my eye on for about 3 years and my colleagues craftily set us up on a date.
Party guy cheated on me…set up guy was hot and cold and it dwindled off…we still have flirty text every now and then but he is flaky I.e. time waster and obvs not interested.
I wish guys would just be honest and say if they are not interested, we are women and we won’t break.
Frustrated and straight talker from London
I work in an English School in France; so it’s for everyone at every age. And we have almost 800 students in our school, and I see a lot of faces everyday since I’m also at the reception. Well as you can imagine, I met him there, he was one of the students, and he had the guts to ask me out, not immediately of course (he asked me out 4 months after he started his training, hahaha. ), but he would always say something funny whenever he would come to our school, therefore I would always remember him. And it’s only during one of our pubnight event ( we often organize those pubnights events between the students and the staff to make them practice their english in a more comfortable environnment), that he would finally admit that he always wanted to ask me out.
Then we had several dates :), and we’re still having those dates.
I met my ex in a club in mallorca. We spent the evening chatting i went to go and get a jumper from my apartment. When i came pack he had gone. I spent te rest of the week going back to the same club. On the last night, he appeared in front of me. We swapped numbers and met half way between our homes when we got back to the uk. We had a long distance relationship for a year and then i moved 250 miles up north to live with him. After 3 years, we went our seperate ways but i have some great memories and have continued to live up north after building a career and making some fantastic friends.
Randomly on the street through a mutual friend but we discovered we had been at the same university for 3 years – immediate big bond and short term relationship; online dating – a few horrors, yes, but nice ones on there too who have remained friends; a musician who i fancied the first time i saw him on stage and then i asked him for an interview and when the interview was over he stopped the dictaphone and asked if i was single and was surprised when i said yes and then said ‘there’s something beautiful about you and you’re cool and i’d like to hang out with you, would you like to hang out with me?’ i was like “YES!” Romantic, short term thing with good and not so good stuff, but we are still friends to this day and have a lovely friendship bond! I’ve also met a fair few guys through work but tend to avoid men at work but sometimes it happens; met guys through friends; sometimes i see guys on the street and they’re just staring at me and like they’d like to work up the guts to speak to me but i don’t always feel like encouraging them but am sure it could easily happen! Met guys i don’t really like but who i would deem quality for others at meditation groups, yoga classes, writing classes – i would like to meet guys interested in these things but have not yet one who has been right for me; friends’ parties; networking events. But to be honest, i’d like to meet a guy who really makes an effort with me. Many do not because it takes a lot to impress me because i am high value. Although i am doing my part in making efforts with small things like smiling, making small talk, blah blah…i think i am real good socially and meet folks all the time but just not the right one but will carry on making efforts because you never know where the right one will spring from! :)
The quality men that I have met so far were fellow students of mine in university. I took up a trinational course combining Business Administration and foreign languages. I studied every year in a different country, including France, the UK and Germany. The men that I met were smart, intelligent, cultured, fun and the most interesting men that I met. I believe this is due to their interest in so many things, economics and languages combined. I believe that women should just do what they love & then they’ll automatically meet men who are doing exactly the same thing. They will defintely have something else in common apart from the particular activity.
I met him at my cousins 21st party, which was in the middle of the countryside. He said he spent most of the night working up the courage to talk to me and, when we got to the club, he finally did. We got talking and danced a bit and it got going from there.
I met my ex boyfriend at work. We worked in a nightclub, he was a barman, I was a trainee manager. We chatted and got on well, but as I was involved with someone else at the time (who also worked at that nightclub – small world eh?) neither of us had admitted to liking one another as anything more than a friend. In time we each moved on to different jobs, my relationship had long since ended. I had joined Facebook and was adding various friends and colleagues. He was one of the people I added since we’d gotten along well. He could see from my online profile that I was single, so he sent me a message confessing that he had feelings for me and asked if I felt the same way. I replied and confessed that indeed I had liked him as more than just friends. Se arranged to meet up and things went on from there. But after 4 months we had a fight over something really very petty. He changed his number, deleted his facebook page and email account. I’d only been to his house once and couldn’t remember how to get there. A few months later he reappeared on Facebook. He’d moved to Australia.
These are some of the places I’ve met guys (not necessarily dated everyone but at least had a convo with)
-at school (when I was younger)
-at work (nowadays)
-thru friends
-going to sporting events, and concerts
-while I’m walking my dog at the dog park
-while on holidays whether its camping or at a sunny resort
I say get out there and join some coed sports or social activity and start with a “hi” and go from there…. after a few times try saying more even if its “whats the time” while holding your cell haha. Eventually sometime positive will happen. Good luck to everyone out there :)
I met my current boyfriend at home. He came to fix my computer for me and we’ve been together since. Ok I am cheating slightly as he’s a blast from the past and I first met him when I was 19. Several years later we met up again via facebook and a mutual friend.
I did meet one guy in Paul’s (so there’s a change from Starbucks). He was working behind the counter, I flirted with him a bit mainly because of your Feb 29th leap year challenge last year. We went on a couple of dates, it didn’t last but he was lovely
A car dealership. I know that sounds funny.
I was scheduled to meet with someone else but he was no longer available and I was given another salesman. There was an immediate spark and it was the best dealership experience I had. We dated briefly. The car has a longer shelf life :)
I met one ex on holiday in Zante on a bar crawl and the other randomly messaged me on Facebook as we had mutual friends (we were together 2 years).
I met my most recent boyfriend at a theatre in Kansas. We worked the tech lights together and he got my number then everything went from there. my ohter guys were introduction from a mutual friend, school, and a bithday weekend party.
I don’t know while I cannot watch the video. Is it just me having a slow machine?
Here is mine: I attend an event because I knew this guy would attend. All along the time I did not get the chance to contact him in anyway. Then there was a 5 minutes break and I quickly went to toilet. There was a long queue for the ladies but only a few ladies queued up for the gents, so I went to the gents- the 1st time I ever used the gents! Just when I came out, I nearly crushed into him! IoI! – Well, the 1st time I came face-to-face with this guy we had the same need and nearly locked down one another! HaHaHa!!!
I am a single mom and to date can be very expensive because of baby sitting I live in a country where I have no family and some friends help but I don’t want to wear out my welcome anyway the last guy I never really dated we met online and immediately had a spark he had his kids come visit so one day he said I’m going to this jumpy house place and I said I’m going to an indoor amusement , mind u we never met as of yet , then he took the chance to go to the amusement park with his kids and we met , it was an awesome time out kids got along and we actually were together for 7 hours my longest first meet it wasn’t eve a date it was a day for our kids and an opportunity for us to meet , yes it’s scary because I never exposed my kids to a man I’m dating till I’m sure about a guy. My problem was I cut it off too soon plus we only contact each other by email coz I was still holding back on giving my number, I still think of him but I think my past of getting hurt still comes along whenever I meet someone that I get too like so much how do I over come this.
I met my current boyfriend on an airplane field in London, at a video shoot. then it took us about 2years from then to get together! good relationships take time to grow naturally. I never realised Mr right was in front of me until the time was right.
I met someone learning how to ballroom dance
I got a bunch of friends together one night and we went to a local bar and grill and told my friends to bring their friends. Anna had met two guys she liked while working at the Renaissance festival and brought them with. I really liked one of them.