Where do you meet men??
I believe good people are everywhere. In the video I want to demonstrate that to you, firstly by telling you some of the unusual places I’ve met people, and then by asking you and conducting a little experiment…
Where do you meet men? Where was the last place you met a quality guy?
Let me know in the comments below.
I want you to think of this as an experiment where the more comments we get, the better this is going to be. I’m then going to draw on all of your comments in my next video and let you know the results.
Be specific about where you were, what the location was, and what type of location it was.
Were you taking a class, doing one of your hobbies, were you grabbing a coffee, shopping…tell us!
Retweet this, get it to your friends, share it on your Facebook, pass it on to as many people as possible, and encourage them to comment too.
The more comments we get, the more effective this is going to be. So I can’t wait to read yours!
Matthew x
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I met the last boyfriend that I dated at the hospital in Rockland Maine, it is called Pen Bay. But it wasn’t a good place to meet a guy. I was at the Psyc Unit.
Good place to meet a doctor
I am a junior doctor and I met my ex (a health care assistant) when I needed a male chaperone for performing an intimate exam on a male patient! I had moved to the area recently and was talking to the patient about where was good to go out etc and after I had seen the patient my ex offered to take me out for a drink. It would have a hilarious tale for the grandkids but sadly it wasn’t meant to be :p
The last job I had,I was working with the boss‘ 2 sons a lot and even tho they were guarded when they talked to me,€theyd talk to each other. Tats how i got to know them.They didnt know i was paying attention lol.And like they were already gorgeous,and then i saw the way they treated their women and I was drooling.My gosh it was so respectful,and im sure it was hot in bed;)
I want a quality guy like that but those types r always like 40,but Amazingly tho the one was in his early 20s ,my age.Not that i wud date someone from work but i was impressed nonetheless
I met my love through a dating website. But we always say to others that actually we met in the train as it sound much more romantic like this. I was actullay about to cancel my membership to the dating website as I started to find this time wasting. But I answered to him as a “let’s try, last chance” and I have never been so happy with a man! I think I have been lucky as I would have never met him as our life are totally in 2 separate world.
Guys are usually way too intimidated to talk to me in person, even if I talk to them first, I’m told they don’t want to strike out especially in front of friends. That’s why I tend to meet men mainly online.
I met my boyfriend online & it’s great because you can just scan through & see who’s at least 6’4″ or 6’5″ & hot, & only send those guys pictures & only talk to them. Then no one else even knows you’re on there.
I met my last boyfriend at a pub in Vancouver on Granville Street. My two girlfriends and I had come from a masquerade that UBC put on and thus were wearing masks. In a weird way, wearing a mask gave me more confidence. Also, we were pretty dolled up…
This guy was staring at me, and in the process wasn’t paying attention to his surroundings and walked into someone, spilling his beer all over himself. This made me laugh, and we spent the rest of our times together at the pub. He took me out on a date the next week.
As a college student, I have met several people I was interested in and people that have been interested in while in class. I have also met men on the train. Parties at friends’ houses are pretty common places to meet guys. And of course, the workplace is another common place.
I met the last guy I dated while I was helping set up a theatrical production of “You Can’t Take It With You” for the college I’m a student at.
the last guy met was about 5 years ago,
that was in an italian restaurant north mexico.
and my mom was with me we where having lunch, so she said hey look this guy seems his italian, you wan’t write little note to him? and i was like omg no way. woman approaching to men is not very common, she said why not? here let me do it, my name is .. this is my phone number etc etc, so we left from restaurant, he called me after hr or so. so we started to chat by phone, and we went out days after, we had great chemistry, but he was in mexico for work he was going to be move back to italy, so we had a long distance relationship, and with time just didin’t work out he was men that travel for work. and i was more city home girl.
since then haven’t met any guy.
also think men are shy or scared of pretty woman.
there not secure of there self’s perhaps? i don’t know.
im mostly home girl as take care of my mom.
online dating sites, haven’t really try them, because i don’t know how serious men can be online, as im a very honest girl. some might lie and only thing want is to find someday the right person . im more looking for long term relationship.
I met my ex on a snorkelling trip in Belize, we were on the same sailboat. I had taken this trip with a friend and he had taken the trip with a friend too.
My last boyfriend walked up to me at a bar in Philadelphia during a work conference.
the last guy : I met him at the last place I would ever imagine going – an Irish pub in the neighborhood where I grew up. we would not have met at all, had I not had to wait for my friend who insisted on driving me home that night.
the last good guy : I met him some place I go regularly (but don’t go to meet guys) – my yoga class. my knees were weak at first sight.
the last nice guy : an old friend introduced me to his best friend when I moved back to my hometown. we became fast friends, then bf/gf, broke up, then back to being friends.
the last great guy : in graduate school – he was my teacher. it was instant, intense, and mutual attraction. unfortunately, he was not available. but the connection we had was pretty deep and inspired me to do my best work.
the down-side is, the guys are no longer significant parts of my life; either it was not meant to be from the start or the relationship did not last long. the up-side is, I had the chance to meet someone new, interesting, and was interested in me, and our time together made my world expand that much more !
In a wedding of my friend in another city.
In a wedding of my friend in another city. another one in college in my graduate studies.
The guy I’m dating is fantastic – we share similar values, make each other laugh ’til our sides hurt, and both work at meeting each other’s needs – but I never would have guessed I would meet a guy like him in a club!!!
I had been hit on earlier in the evening, but without Matthew’s techniques would have not known what to do when I saw a slightly out-of-place looking guy, with a super cute smile, dancing with his group of mainly female friends.
After a bit of coaxing, from my group of mainly guy friends and that night’s birthday boy, I was deploying the skills from Month one on matt’s Finding Mr Right programme; he noticed me, found himself looking over as I was dancing, and had come up with a passable excuse to talk to me by the time I casually moved to within speaking range!! I teased him for complimenting my [flat, children’s!!!] shiny flashing light-up shoes, which I put on to dance more easily, as i had sore feet from wearing high heels; but I had forgotten I was wearing them, would never have been confident enough to wear something that silly and fun before and instead would normally wear heels,to be attractive to guys; but these silly happy flats were secretly my favourite shoes and even months later, his love of shiny objects and bright lights is one of our running gags…! :)
We had an amazing chat that night, bopped around the dancefloor for hours with our friends, swapped numbers and started texting; after our first date, with quite a few dates already scheduled for the next fortnight, I started to realise how special this guy might be. By date two we already had an insane connection, and were having so much fun!
So, even in a really dingy little indie club, with the right attitude and techniques you can meet Mr Right! He has since confessed that, like me, he wasn’t looking to meet anyone that night – without my catching his attention and standing near him, he wouldn’t have noticed my daft shoes – and without us both immediately finding ourselves in this immediately ridiculously fun, silly, teasing conversation, neither of us would have taken that initial time away from our respective groups of friends to talk, swap numbers and build connection!
Very lucky I went on the night out, and decided to dress down/not dress to impress a guy…. And very glad to have found a guy I can have fun with, heels or no heels, who gets my sense of humour and loves the little things.
And shiny things. Lest we forget shiny things. :)
YES – lest we forget shiny things ! and unexpected things !
The one place I met the most guys at was a summer arts’ program. 500 students and the majority knew no one. The first person I introduced myself to was a guy sitting alone at the BBQ on the first day. He said he figured someone would walk up to him eventually and was glad I did. As I made more friends, I started meeting more people through them, not to mention on my own. I met one over a game of cards. Another I met at lunch. Anywhere from the dorms to the theater to the sub levels of the main building. Most of the people I met I still keep in touch with. Some of the guys still flirt with me across the miles.
The second place I’ve met guys since I got back was at shows put on by my friend’s old band. They’re good. After the last show, the guitarist stopped me and asked if he knew me from somewhere. He seemed friendly enough, so I can’t say if that was some line or if it was genuine.
Being a college student, I’ve met guys in my classes and in the library, but never any that stuck like in the previous two cases. Hope this helps some.
O.o same name, same occupation, pretty much same stories, got to say that’s kind of freaky
I met a guy on a school trip to Wales. It was actually strange because we went to the same school a long time but had to go to Wales (I live in Germany btw) to notice each other.
Mostly I meet the guys I am interested in in school, we go to the same classes or get to know them over friends.
I met my boyfriend at work. A coworker invited us both out to karaoke in a big group and the rest is history :).
I met a lovely guy at work, that I messed up with totally. Did everything I shouldn’t do but he still came to see me until recently. I decided to try some of your techniques on him, but its hard to break habits of a lifetime, I suppose I keep trying, but he might have met someone by now :( I have met a few guys and have been asked out, and gone out with one at a tamla motown night. Gave my age away there :) It Might sound smug, but I can meet guys , I just cant get the ones I like, I mess up every time , HELP !!!!!
Last time i met a guy was in Marriott hotel, where I had a business meeting scheduled with him, not knowing who will show up.
The previous guy (I was asked out by) I met at breakfast in a hotel in Geneva, where I stayed alone, simply by asking how to get internet – I saw him browsing web pages as he was sitting close to me.