Where do you meet men??
I believe good people are everywhere. In the video I want to demonstrate that to you, firstly by telling you some of the unusual places I’ve met people, and then by asking you and conducting a little experiment…
Where do you meet men? Where was the last place you met a quality guy?
Let me know in the comments below.
I want you to think of this as an experiment where the more comments we get, the better this is going to be. I’m then going to draw on all of your comments in my next video and let you know the results.
Be specific about where you were, what the location was, and what type of location it was.
Were you taking a class, doing one of your hobbies, were you grabbing a coffee, shopping…tell us!
Retweet this, get it to your friends, share it on your Facebook, pass it on to as many people as possible, and encourage them to comment too.
The more comments we get, the more effective this is going to be. So I can’t wait to read yours!
Matthew x
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The last man I dated I met at an evening event in a restaurant. It was hosted by the performer after his concert.
The one prior to this one that I dated for 6 years I met in a bus.
The man I am currently dating and I met in a weekend Spanish class over a year ago. There were a few cuties in the class both men and women and I believe based on our Spanish dialogue in class, we were both casually dating others at the time! Still there was a bit of a twinkle then and we kept in touch loosely through emails about common interests like SPANISH and the fact that we were from the same US state! Sure enough the man very casually asked me out a few months later to practice our Espanol and have some ritas and guess what? No Spanish or Ritas happened that night!
The last guy I dated I met in a bike workshop. He helped me work on my bike.
In Las Vegas !!!! Text on and off with him .
At His music video shoot. Still dating! thanks Matthew!! :)
The last 5 men I’ve dated, I met through mutual friends.
I met a really nice guy at my job site. I work in retail. clothing store
Hi Matthew! well I am dating too men right now ..lol o.o i I am NOT committed to either one I just met them so we are dating…one of them I met at an Italian eatery / night club… we had dance together and didn’t get our numbers until a month and a half later when we ran into each other again at the same night club… the other gentleman I met online on a dating site and we’ve gone out 3 times. I can’t wait to see what you come up with… thanks for all your fantastic input on relationships.
At a house party of a mutual friend.
At Home Depot in the paint department
At cowboys red river a country dancehall and bar
I was late for church, entered quietly, walked down the main aisle and there he was, giving a speach on the pulpit, I thought he stared at me because of my lack of punctuality but it turned out it was just me.
The last guy I dated I met at a CVS Pharmacy on the corner of my block. He worked there and I guess I went there enough times that we talked a little and he asked for my number. We’re not together anymore but I would LOVE to know how to make encounters like that happen more often!!
Thanks for all you do, Matthew!! You’re a treasure!
Hi Matthew!
This may be a bit off topic, but I thought I’d give it a shot and hope you see my question.
I’ve been dating this guy for two months, we’ve had a couple little blips but things have been going great and I really have confidence in our relationship.
For the past year and a half I have been having health issues that are still in the process of being properly diagnosed. I am going for tests in the next week or two, and I am concerned that with these tests I will be properly diagnosed.. My question is, how doi bring up health secrets to him, and when is the right time to do this?
A 6 week PMP project management training course and he was the director of training program. He was golden, so sweet and helped me through all the inane materials… It didn’t work out but he has a special place in my heart.
Nicest guy I met was online, at a vegetarian dating site. He lived in another city (a 3 hour drive away). In retrospect, I should have taken him more seriously, in spite of the distance. Niche dating sites have fewer weirdos, in my opinion, because the reason for being on the site is not just to meet someone, but to meet someone with a similar lifestyle or point of view. The singles on those sites are less creepy than on the standard dating sites.
The only men I’ve met and dated in the past 9 years have all been from Match.com. One relationship lasted a year, another a year and a half, and the last one was 2 years. What is strange to me is that I work out doing CrossFit 5-6 days a week for the past year & have lots of male friends who never ask me out. I often end up falling into the ‘friend’ trap – story of my life actually. I attended your seminar in Atlanta & read your book and have been working on switching my vibe out of the friend zone and raising my degree of difficulty. Its been fun making small changes in my behavior and experiencing little victories along the way.
Thanks for the work that you do!!
HI Matt,
I’ve met men while stuffing my face at Louisiana food festivals, online, in the grocery store, and through friends. Two guys got back together with their ex-wives!! Ugh. So far, most of them do not take the action to do anything more than the occasional phone call. Double ugh. Just this past Saturday. I met a new prospect while at work at a restaurant. He is a friend of the chef. Seems very promising and the chef says that we’d be a good match. Let’s see if he calls.
~Melanie
Hi Matt,
Melanie, here again. Details: When I met the guy at work last Saturday, the first time I saw him, he was talking to the chef’s wife, making some joke about not having had a good date in awhile and it didn’t look like it would ever happen, Without missing a beat, I joined their conversation and impishly said something like, “You don’t know that. It could happen.” I don’t know where that comment came from but I suspect that it was Matt Hussey influenced. LOL The guy looked a bit surprised and then he smiled. I smiled back. Later the chef introduced us and embarrassed the both of us by saying, “you’re both single, you know…!” I smacked the chef and we all ended up talking about an similar interest that we all shared. The chef later gave me his stats, from a guy’s perspective, I might add, and he said, “You guys would be perfect for one another.” Um. Ok. I gave my number for him to pass on. Meanwhile I live my life… : )
~Melanie
I met my former husband at our townhouse complex mailbox. He told me later had been watching me for months before he got up the courage to talk to me, and then had to have neighbors help him arrange several “chance” meetings before he asked me out. The marriage ran its course, but we’re still the best of friends.
BTW, I’ve been slowly using some of your tools and changing my attitude and actions. I’m now beginning to notice guys are noticing me, even while driving me car! This last weekend while I worked as a gate guard at our local renaissance festival I met several nice guys. One brought over gelato for me, another ribs, several workers came up at the end of the day to give me hugs…I was stunned but giggling and dancing a jig inside at how much fun it all was. I’m ready for more!
I met a great guy that owned the senior care home where my grandma lived! We were super good friends and then one day he just asked me to lunch, out of the blue… Everything between us got romantic from that point but we had started out as buddies first. :)