Where do you meet men??
I believe good people are everywhere. In the video I want to demonstrate that to you, firstly by telling you some of the unusual places I’ve met people, and then by asking you and conducting a little experiment…
Where do you meet men? Where was the last place you met a quality guy?
Let me know in the comments below.
I want you to think of this as an experiment where the more comments we get, the better this is going to be. I’m then going to draw on all of your comments in my next video and let you know the results.
Be specific about where you were, what the location was, and what type of location it was.
Were you taking a class, doing one of your hobbies, were you grabbing a coffee, shopping…tell us!
Retweet this, get it to your friends, share it on your Facebook, pass it on to as many people as possible, and encourage them to comment too.
The more comments we get, the more effective this is going to be. So I can’t wait to read yours!
Matthew x
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I usually meet guys online (pof) but the last guy I met in person was in front of the hotel he works at in Paris. I was walking home one day and this was a new street I’ve walked on and I was in a good mood from watching the end of Tour de France earlier in the day. I saw a guy standing in front of a hotel and just said “Bonjour” probably because I was in a good mood and also because I was used to doing at our workplace (it’s a norm to greet everyone all day and wishing them a good day/lunch/evening/weekend). I kept walking but he stopped me to ask where I was from etc. because he could tell I wasn’t French. We chatted (in English) and he asked for my number.
Actually, he’s not my boyfriend but we kinda have a romantic friendship and I met him at University.
Thanks Matthew for your help with dating and so much more!
Tili
I met him at church.
I met my last boyfriend at my best friend’s prom (quite a looong time ago). Be danced all night (he was quite drunk, so not afraid to ask for dance), than chatted on Facebook and after few days we exchanged our phone numbers and went on a date.
The rest of my boyfriends I met on parties or concerts or other similar events where we were introduced to each other by our mutual friend.
I met a guy I dated when I traveled with a friend to her ex-boyfriend’s house for New Year’s. I didn’t know anybody so I was really nervous but I went anyway and met a really cool guy who I dated for a while, then had a romantic friendship and now we’re just(!) friends.
I met another guy through a friend I made in a writing workshop.
And some guys I met through work.
I met my guy on…youtube! He was uploading really funny movie reviews. What I did was nothing like me, but I actually found his Facebook fan page, liked it and sent him a message about how he is doing great job. Nothing flirty, just a few nice words. Turned out that he lives in city next to me so we talked on facebook for two months and actually met. Like Mathew says, you can meet someone special everywhere!
Hi Olala,
That’s a great love in the new age story. Thanks for sharing!
x
The last good guy I met was at a former boyfriend’s party–it seems like attracts like. I decided to go at the last minute and, wha la, an amazing energetic connection occurred. While this man is a good person, I’m waiting for amazing. Does anyone know of a good party?
I met my ex whilst waiting for a bus with a mutual friend at the time. He was passing by in his car and kindly offered us a both a lift home. Which took three times as long as it should have. In any case we were together for 7 1/2 years after that.
I met the last guy at a midsmmer eve’s party with some friends of friends that I had never met before. We dated a few times and then it ended and I have been single ever since.
I met the last guy at a midsummer eve’s party with some friends of friends that I had never met before. We dated a few times and then it ended and I have been single ever since.
The last guy I dated I met when going to work, walking to the bus stop. I tried to ignore him but eventually gave in. He was very looking but never had anything to say about himself he constantly touched my legs…. he was weird so of pervert type behaviour. I was confused I liked this guy but just couldn’t get him to focus on me not my bra and legs!!, I just couldn’t handle his sordid ways! Eventually I gave him the heave oh! Months later another man – again while walking to walk tried to date me! I said NO! I think the worse thing a woman can do (well me anyway) is to pick up men from the street – there’s no way of knowing who they really are, where they live and what they are up to! Its scarily – there’s a lot of creeps out there! Well Matthew – where – are the good men? I’ve had a nightmare time last year – really awful! I couldn’t go through that again – I don’t want a break down! help!!
Hey there, my last really cool and lovly guy I met was in the ladies bathroom. The signs on the doors got changed by some guys so he ended up standing in the ladies bathroom and here we go.
The other really nice guy I met at a airguitar contest.
Hi Nadine,
I love that story! Thanks for commenting. x
Hello Matt,
I met my last two boyfriends during my first two years of university, it didn’t work out with either of them. After that, there was this one guy who was the security guard where I parked my car at university. He asked me out couple of times and he told me he loved me without even knowing me, so i got freaked out and I refused to go out with him. Couple of months ago, I went to a night club with some friends, there I got really drunk and started flirting with a guy who worked there, after that we started talking for a bit, but it didn’t go anywhere. That’s about it :)
Been on dates with guys through work, friends and online dating. I’ve always been shy and dorky around guys who I was attracted to. Most recent chemistry I felt was a guy seated reading across from me on the Tube. This cute silver fox was staring at me from his book but said nothing, I smiled back but he didn’t step up so I waited till I was nearing my stop, stood up, said Hi and asked if we had met before. He smiled, a lovely smile, and said I dont think so but I wish we had. So I smiled again and by now was at my stop so I came off. That was that. I’m high value afterall. I need to work on the mindset of a chooser from now on, and need help with Keep the Guy. I plan to bring along some galpals to your events this year Matthew, congrats on the book.
I met my now boyfriend on the train back from a Cambridge Postgrad Open day… Waiting for the train back to Oxford, I saw a woman who I had seen previously around Cambridge and asked her if she was also in Cambridge for the Open day. It turns out she was actually a student there. But, being a naturally shy person I was elated by how interesting my conversation was with her, a complete stranger, which then gave me the confidence to also ask the same question to a gorgeous guy also queuing for the train. It turns out he was just visiting a friend in Cambridge but was about to embark on postgrad at Oxford… there was great chemistry and we had so much in common.. We got eachother’s numbers, and have never looked back. We’ve been together for a blissful 4 months! I’m so grateful I finally gathered the courage to speak to one of those attractive people on the train!
Hi Katie,
Congratulations! Glad you are reaping the rewards of stepping out of your comfort zone.Thanks for commenting! x
I met him in front of a pub somewhere around Shoreditch on the street( dont exactly remember the name) , my friend asked him for directions to a club but I started talking to him as he was just way too cute not to….:-)he decided to move back to Paris in the end…:-(
I believe there are good guys everywhere. Maybe we are not looking, but maybe we are blinded by other things.
The last really great guy I met was kind-of at a cliche location. aka a Wedding. What was not so cliche was that I was the one to ask him to dance. Dancing led to drinks and if nothing else we have a really great friendship because of it.
I also have met fantastic men at work or coming out of church in Los Angeles, just asking directions. Great guys are everywhere. It all depends on what you are looking for, and how much you are willing to take a chance. A simple “Hello” could spark a relationship to last the rest of your life, or it could be just that a “Hello”. Who Knows? ;)
I met the last man I dated at a pub where he was DJ-ing my kinda music. I met my last boy friend (a different man) through a friend. He was part of a circle of my friend’s friends.
Well, I met my last boyfriend in my back garden around last April- he was my next door neighbour’s brother who lodged there.
My current crush I work with – and have had this crush for about 8 months (before the last boyfriend) – we have kissed, he definitely likes me but there’s a whole lot of resistance coming from him….I wish i knew how to play ultra cool!
Hi Helen,
That’s a great story, your next boyfriend might be in your own backyard! Thanks for commenting. x
The last guy I met was at my last job. He was cool at first but he ended up being really needy and the kind that got upset if I didn’t drop everything to be with him. Sucked for me because in order to get away from him, I had to quit. He was also one of those guys that went around asking the people I knew, especially my poor sister, things about me. Just ask me! He made it seem like I was doing something wrong by him doing that. Anyways, I’m just focused on school and finding a new job. So for now the Cupcake Shop is closed.