In this week’s video, I’m going to go wildly off script and dive into these issues to explain exactly what you need to know to win in dating in 2019.
Believe me: This message will help you avoid the traps I’ve seen too many single men and women fall into…
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Nice message here, it’s like a way of cutting out anxiety and live your life with intention everyday. This guy must meditate every single day of his life, he is so aware of the importance of being present and value every single person around him. Thanks for spreading that everywhere you go. Keep going.
Well Matthew I am a relationship with my the guy which use to be my ex my first boyfriend to be expect we use to be so happy before but now as we back together I am so miserable he is no more romantic and loving wat do I do
It`s funny how my whole teenage years I have never been a groupie of any band, and never understood why people would. But now in my twenties, every time I listen to your videos and there is just so much truth to what you say…I am so glad that you do what you do. Thank you so much!
Hi im Indah from indonesia
Now I in situations that my partner want to break cos he really need to focus on work.
But when I asked him break = breaking up? He said for now yes.
Its make me so sad..
We matched each other we spent all time together I came to his town and stayed more than a month sometimes.. Now 3days he not contact me anymore. I feel weak and no energy at all.
Hr said he not ready anymore..
Actually we still new in relationship July we started talking/chatted then August first met and spent time 4days together sleep and make love everyday. Than met again in September (during the time we already made commit to be a partner.) And then intense and always met and spending time together. Once he made mistake but I forgive him and we still good and then i made mistake and he cant forgive me and want to break and see what happen to us. Time will tell he said..
Now am so sad..
I really miss him so much
What should I do…
I want to be with him
Thank you Matthew, you are an inspiration and this video made so much sense. You’re input and guidance is always appreciated.
BEAUTIFULLY SAID MATTHEW! A lesson for every day & every part of life…read ALL the way thru! God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can & the wisdom to know the difference. AHH. They left 1 out in case if emergency… Ah Fuck It!
This is spot on! I totally agree with you and I truly believe that’s the right approach but not only where it comes to men but the attitude towards life. It’s pointless to complain about things that are outside your scope or reach. It’s better to occupy that time in doing positive and challenging things that will make us grow in all many different senses, rather than be PREocupied about things we are unable to change. Thanks for sharing these kind of messages and for being so clear in your messages!
I just give up. I am 59, never married and am just tired.
Matt,
I really enjoyed watching rhis video.I have seen my own mother go through last 15 years of in out of dating and failed marriages. Breaks my heart. I’m on my new journey this is amazingly 100% true honesty.I love your passion in all you do.
Yes…. its exhausting. I literally cried watching this. Doesnt seem to matter what choices I make. Just so tired.
I have to level up! lol.
Hii Matt..your words really inspire me and boost my confidence. I owe you for taking right decision in my life. For selecting right life partner from all the odd ones whom I was assuming as potential options to risk my life with. Keep posting such videos to keep us on right track post weeding also. As it is very essential to remain focused and aviod getting distracted from men with hidden intention. Thank you for using your knowledge and resource for benefit of evolving society.
Your videos and messages have brought me wonderful, practical and humourous guidance which i very much appreciate, and will continue to. However im surprised at this responce. With all due respect, it sounds as if you’re dodging what is the truer reason you dont work with men: it would not be financial viable for you. What is the percentage of men that would sign up for a relationship course compaired to women? As a whole, women tend to take more reaponsibilty for what went wrong in relationship as well as take more initiative on self improvement.this sounds like a gross generalization but i dont think any relationship counselor would disagree.
I also respectively want to point out the in congruency bewtween the message of women’s lives being changed after a week long workshop with you, and the 10 years we wouldn’t want to wait while you make any difference at all with men. If your workshops are that powerful why is it conditional on gender? Its ok to admit that working with men is not your specialty or interest and that may be largely because you dont want a huge decrease of your income. We as women are used to these indescrepencies. I know that I still want to change my personal habits and that’s enough. Im not going to look to men or anything outside of me to change and take full responsibily for what i create in my world. I think this response could have been more honest and honoring to the insight of all of the couragious women that follow your work.
Hi Matt, you may have just saved my day after being ghosted by yet another guy. You’re so right. We are a an ADD generation, looking for the next hit. Thank you
Thanks for that video, you know I came to a point when I thought am done with dating. You have renewed my spirits .
Thank you… It needed to be said. And, hoping more and more men hear you because there are so many great women out there that are being overlooked for the wrong reasons.
Thank you Matthew for doing what you do.
I can see this addiction to novelty around me… And I found out (few months ago) my boyfriend having cybersex addiction, addiction to new people on FB etc…. On the other side, he wants to be in meanigfull relationship with me, he is trying very hard, is sweet to me, generous to me, lovely, trying to fix the relationship, trying to make me happy… but we still fight over this addiction (which he has problem to talk to me about openly and honestly – which is the main thing I wish from him). I have studied a lot about addictions since I found out… and I am afraid that this problem is secretly growing in our society, and for many people its not about moral standars and not wanting to have real relationship, but simply being addicted – thanks to these new dating apps, growing cybersex pornsites etc – it is so easy to fall into this… and it doesnt have such visible side effects as alcohol or drug addictions, for example…. I have no idea how to solve this with my boyfriend when he is so private about this. Its killing me :-(
Thanks Matt! I’ve long believed social media and texting have “ruined” dating…but I refuse to let it become an excuse for my singleness. Love your videos and will eventually get around to reading the books I downloaded. Too busy with my fabulous friends and career!
Calling him all the time,does it make me cheap?Or does it means I love him more than he does.
So called Online dating and the Internet has opened up a candy store for men. Easy as now for them. Why should the women work harder. If the Internet was disconnected most men would have to work harder. Welcome to 2018 and Mr Shallow who doesn’t need to work harder