Everything Wrong with Dating Today

In this week’s video, I’m going to go wildly off script and dive into these issues to explain exactly what you need to know to win in dating in 2019.

Believe me: This message will help you avoid the traps I’ve seen too many single men and women fall into…

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  • Hi Matt, Thank you so much for your concern with us, women to learn how to deal with men and to be stronger as dating becomes more and more difficult and complucated. i have been single for many years since my husband left me for another lady and another and another until his death two years ago. I know how to flirt but all too often, the men i get to attract are the married ones who flirt back but just like that, flirting. The other extreme group is of younger men of until 30 or 40 years my junior who couldn’t make up their minds because of so many hindrances like their own mothers who might be against such a relationship, their peers and so on. Hence, they could never be serious…Pls help me find a real man, a true gentleman who will commit, i really want to have a man to love me truly and whom i will love in return and live with for the rest of my life, who also share the same values i have. Thank you.

  • Hi Hussey I really enjoy reading your messages and it has help me a lot however I am a 59 years old,have been married twice and a mother of three children I have been Marie twice but don’t know the love of man.Now I have always longed for that kind of love,so now I am wonderingif it’s to late for me to even think of tha. But my body is saying something else.is there a phone contact for you I really would like to speak to you in person I need some answers please.

  • My first time watching your video. It was really worth seeing. The best focal point for me here is to become stronger in the face of our challenges .

  • After getting propositioned 5x last week even before a first date, I’m happy to hear this from you. Especially the part about your Mum. I’m not giving up!

  • I like what you said- life is not getting easier, and we become stronger. What are you going to tell yourself if you dated two guys this year that you are very interested in– after 3 months– they said they are not ready for a relationship. You had to walk away, and it is impossible to not have bad feelings.

  • I hear you, too! Thank you a lot, once more…
    This morning, I found myself trying to help one of my male students who lost his father some weeks ago, haven’t seen his mother almost for a life time. He missed midterm exams, and I gave a chance to him with a make-up exam. He said that he felt very lonely, now just has his girlfriend. And none of the other professors hadn’t asked his situation, feelings. I understood him with all my soul, because we are in the same ship. Talked to him, tried to show some ways!.. He invited me to a cafe where he works as his guest. When I touched him, I felt happier and stronger. Once more, today, I stood up again! But of course, I don’t want to add any other big problem onto my bill.
    So, what I know is I cannot give up as a strong woman!…

  • Dear Matthew, Stephen ,

    I would like to sincerely and gratefully thank you both and your family and team for such excellent content. It has been so valuable to us women out here and we are truly thankful.

    I would like to ask a favour that you would both put it out there what I am about to request so that women will be more aware and not get conned.

    My friends, friend’s friend have been conned and scammed. So many people from work, from our social group have been swindled of their life savings and they continue to be in debt because they were emotionally duped.

    These scammers are looking for prey via Tinder, LinkedIn, Facebook….. you name it. They are relentless and are getting worse as their techniques improve with more experience.

    They even have false websites, false bank accounts in never heard of banks, even sophisticated enough to use legitimate banks.

    I am sure you have been aware of this and I beg you, to bring it out to all vulnerable lonely women so that they will not be swindled out of their life savings, not to be in debt for the rest of their lives because of unscrupulous people.

    I pray that you will both at least think about this and make it happen. For all the women out there…

  • You have a heart of gold Matt, thank you for validating this issue. I’m sure many women don’t want to share their disappointment with the dating world & how men are treating them, but it’s the current reality that many of us women find ourselves in. I’m sure the novelty thing is true, but doesn’t that really just come down to a massive lack of immaturity within males today (yes women too) What is causing this? Is it how they are raised? The breakdown of families? Lack of proper male role models? Abuse issues? Society’s influence? Generally, men have always been slower to mature than women, but it seems so much worse these days. I’ve had my fair share of Dick pics, MPI’s & players, but I’ve also met some lovely guys, but unfortunately I wasn’t attracted to them. Sometimes the nice guys lack confidence & come across too passive & feminine, which isn’t attractive. I’ve also met guys I really liked but they either had an ex still floating in the background, had been cheated on by multiple girlfriends & was deeply wounded & a guy who wanted to keep playing the field. I could also write a book on my terrible online dating experiences; one guy rang me at the last minute & wanted to meet at the restaurant/hotel, but just sit in his car, as he wanted to wear his trackies!! He couldn’t even be bothered putting a pair of jeans & a nice shirt on for a first date, obviously I didn’t go ‍♀️ One of your best videos yet! Well, my favourite is still MPI guy & the one where you lay across the bar to flirt with a girl Your mum has done an exceptional job of raising you Matt xo

  • Thank you, Matthew. As a dating coach in the making, couldn’t agree more. Very well said. Hope your words reach every woman on earth who need to hear it. Your work is amazing. Thank you for being and giving:)

  • My comment has nothing to do with this particular video. I’d like to have more video in the future with advice on how to make new female friends. Meeting someone is really really difficult if you don’t go out, and if you don’t have many female friends to go out with, it is even more difficult.

  • I’m probably the strangest case of dating. For 1.5 years I love a man who unfortunately loves another woman. I’m unattractive to him. Unfortunately, none of us is so strong to end this relationship. I do not have enough strength in myself and he does not want to interrupt the correspondence with me, offering me only friendship. What should I do? because it costs me a lot emotionally. I can not imagine life without him. I love him so much. No man is a new anchor point for me.

  • hey mathew, so could you mabye do you’re next video on how to get rid of a crush. its a long story so im gonna shorten this out. me and my friend like this boy, friend loses oreo and forced to ask out crush, crush says yes = heartbroken forever. i always wished you would do a video about this it would really help how to handle a heartbreak crush edition… once again heartbroken forever…

  • How do you mmove on & maintain the confidence to try dating someone else again, when they guy you’ve just been dating goes cold & doesn’t give you a reason why he still wants to see you, but just as freinds?! Not knowing whether it’s because it’s something you said, did, or maybe they weren’t attracted to you, or, hoping that it was then with issues going on & couldn’t commit to you at the time, even though they said they wanted a relationship?!

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