How To Get the Guy Podcast

What’s the #1 most attractive thing someone can do on a first date? Play footsie under the table? Wear a stylish, confidence-boosting outfit? Whisper, “Hey, you look amazing” when greeting them with a hug? Nope. While those things might not hurt your chances, what really makes someone want to see you again comes down to how they feel in your presence. They need to feel intrigued. They need to feel attractive. They need to feel a sense of fun… This week, I’m going to share 5 powerful lines you can use to spark great emotions and leave them dying to

 In this episode, Matthew and Audrey dive into: Setting Up for Success in 2025: Practical strategies for making real, lasting changes in your life. Routines for a Better Love Life: Small but powerful habits to help you meet new people and feel more confident. Avoiding Burnout: Lessons from 2024 on why overcommitting can drain your happiness. The Power of Social Interactions: Why making an extra effort to engage with people can transform your opportunities. Navigating Toxic Friendships: A listener question about dealing with a partner’s problematic friend—when to ignore and when to speak up. The Truth About Social Media: How to take control of your digital

Why do people “fade out” in dating with no explanation? The good news is: It often has nothing to do with us. Yet there are also things we may be doing that push someone away without us even realizing it. In today’s episode, I share 5 behaviors that may make someone pull away . . . and ways you can leave people better than you found them (and wanting more!) Whether you want to learn how to become a better listener, not come across as too intense when you really like someone, or just be a better date, don’t miss

"I’m not sure if I’m ready for a relationship with you right now. . .”   Nobody wants to hear these words.   Especially when it’s coming from someone you genuinely care about.   Someone you’ve invested time and energy in. . . and someone you feel could be the right person for you in the long term.   It leaves you wishing they could just get over their indecision...   If that sounds familiar, I have a simple solution:   Because there IS a right way and a wrong way to handle this situation...   The wrong way is

In this episode, Matthew dives deep into why the "New Year, New Me" mindset often sets us up for failure and how true change is possible with practical steps to break through our old habits and wiring. Topics include: Why Resolutions Fail: How old patterns and beliefs hold us back, no matter how ambitious our goals are. Why creating new goals without addressing underlying habits leads to frustration. The role of action and getting new reference points to rewire our beliefs. Breaking generational patterns of beliefs, behaviors, and trauma. Deciding to "be the pioneer" who changes the trajectory of your

“I thought by this point in my life I definitely would have . . .” can be a dangerous phrase. Whether we’re “feeling behind” because we’ve never gotten married, had kids, or owned a house, or just wish we were further along in our career, it can be demoralizing. It’s the same feeling when you go through a breakup and feel like you just “wasted” all that time with someone. But this thinking is a trap. If you’ve caught yourself feeling “I’m so behind compared to everyone else,” use the four powerful mindset reframes I share in today’s episode to get out