Where do you meet men??
I believe good people are everywhere. In the video I want to demonstrate that to you, firstly by telling you some of the unusual places I’ve met people, and then by asking you and conducting a little experiment…
Where do you meet men? Where was the last place you met a quality guy?
Let me know in the comments below.
I want you to think of this as an experiment where the more comments we get, the better this is going to be. I’m then going to draw on all of your comments in my next video and let you know the results.
Be specific about where you were, what the location was, and what type of location it was.
Were you taking a class, doing one of your hobbies, were you grabbing a coffee, shopping…tell us!
Retweet this, get it to your friends, share it on your Facebook, pass it on to as many people as possible, and encourage them to comment too.
The more comments we get, the more effective this is going to be. So I can’t wait to read yours!
Matthew x
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I have met my most recent boyfriends on-line. (2 year relationships both times). I know this is not your place of choice Matthew but I am not lucky meeting “quality” guys elsewhere.
At an old part-time job working at a grocery store!
Kara: a friend’s wedding. She went as her brother’s date and met his friend through her brother.
Becka: The bank. She was opening a new account and he was very flirtatious.
Kate: Volunteering at a youth event. She was an usher, he was a friend of one of the speakers.
Laura: Set up on a blind date by mutual friends.
I met him in a basketball stadium we both go to every week to compete. He goes to my brother-school but I only met him there when we were leaving and my brother said, ‘Bye!’ to him and I was just standing there, so I said bye as well. He stopped, made this gorgeous smile and said, “Bye Bye!”.. I know it’s wierd. Our first word to eachother is ‘bye’. But he’s really a sweet guy. The air was pretty calm when I was watching them play.. All of them are so determined and dedicated.
After that, we’ve been seeing eachother a lot– not because we planned to, but because we’re family friends. We don’t talked much, unless we’re leaving. I don’t know what to do! He’s too cool :(. We have this air of awkwardness between us.
I met my ex at my senior prom lol
I met someone recently on an online dating site.. after swearing up and down to everyone that I would NEVER try to meet anyone online. After one week of messaging and chatting with each other, we decided to meet in person. He seems like a great guy! I was surprised he was very much like I thought he’d be from his online profile.
I met him at a charity event. It was like we were both hit by lightning and are still very close after 5 years.
MY JOB: LOCAL GROCERY STORE AT MY REGISTER!
In a bar in a remote village in Kenya where I was volunteering with a school and he was based with the British army.
Very romantic! Thanks for sharing. x
Hi there Matt….Happy New Year!! BTW
I hope this comment finds you well :)
Anyhoo, I like to meet guys where ever they care to genuinely listen. Nothing worse than a distracting environment to totally take the attention away from the magic of meeting. It would take a powerful magnet to draw a quality person out from all the noise & clutter, so, I prefer subtle ambience. I find that it helps, personally, with the process of quality attraction, and engaging conversation.
I’m currently “talking” to a lovely German I met in Las Vegas, who was my midnight kiss during a trip where I vowed off men completely! He jokingly kept stealing something out of my hand at the club, and things began from there. Others were met through mutual friends, or at work in college!
He was a friend of a friend and we were all going to the No Direction Home festival – amazing guy but sadly he was only in the UK for a very short time. Before that I met the last guy I dated in a pub in Clerkenwell – out with a friend.
Dear Mr. papi chulo British Man,
Although I think, I know what your going to tell us in the next video….. I anxiously await! so I’ll go ahead and tell you where I met the most organic, raw, beautiful man I have ever met. About a month ago I had my first installation art piece at a gallery. I gave a lecture on it and after it was over , here comes this tall handsome man up to me.. He, being an artist himself gave me the most endearing complement in regards to my art. As the night continued we talked about collaborating and creating art together and like a true romantic ending he kissed me unexpectedly without any regard as to who was around…..sigh!! Sadly he lives in San Francisco and I in LA…but We still talk and are getting ready to work together. I guess it’s true, do what you LOVE and love will find you!!
Ps- my art piece was on love letters :)
Hahaha, “papi chulo”, are you from Puerto Rico?
I met him at school, we were both taking a night class in business at college.
My last boyfriend who actually ended up becoming by fiancé was someone I met online through a friend I’ve known since junior high. Everything seemed fine and wonderful actually, we got along great and had tons in common, but I started to suspect something was off, so I started asking around for information about him. Turns out he had tons of debt and I found out through an interesting phone call one Monday morning from my personal banker that he had call asking what my “Net Worth” was. I was cautious about bringing it up directly but tiptoed around the question waiting to see if he would get it. He said he had to go and pay the meter on his car and would be right back. Moments later he hadn’t returned but instead I got a text that sounded very suicidal. I panicked and ran around the city looking for him and even filed a missing persons report with the police. Then two weeks later I text his brother and his brother said that my (now ex) fiancé was just fine, and hadn’t been missing at all other than calling in sick to work for a few days he was fine.
I think that will be not only the last time I listen to that friend from junior high but also the last time I’ll go out with someone I meet online. Never again!
So…Mathew, my question is…where do I find someone who’s not gonna do that or worse to me? lol
I met the last guy I dated in a beach bar at a sunset party in Portugal. Nice music, nice landscape, nice people. He was from Paris and I’m from Madrid, but we liked each other and we travel as often as we can to eachother’s cities to spend time together. It is not a proper relationship but he makes me forget about everything and gives me very good moments, so I guess we have a romantic friendship that will last until we decide to end it up. Or, to be honest, when one of us feels this relationship needs to go to the next level and the other one doesn’t feel like that. But right now it is the most relaxed, funny and fulfilling relationship I’ve had in months!
I met my last boyfriend on Face Book, believe it or not. I’m on my brother’s Friends List and my ex-boyfriend was a friend of one of my brother’s friends.
He (ex) noticed that we had similar musical and film preferences. This was a LDR, by the way. I won’t be ding that (neither meeting men online, nor a LDR EVER again, lol)
I met my ex at a Bush Doof, (that’s what we Aussies call an Outdoor Rave), he was a friend of a friend. We didn’t immediately start going out, but I bumped into him at our mutual friend’s parties throughout the course of a year. Then that friend moved in with me and one night she asked if I wanted to join them for dinner. The rest is history.
The other exes I have also met through mutual friends and school.
Gab
Bush Doof! That’s great! Thanks for commenting! x
At a friend’s wedding.
I meet a great guy on the Internet, more specific on Attractive World. I really think Internet dating is a good ideea! But I think we all need Magic Matthew to help us do not make mistakes falling in love to bad until becoming needy…That’s the worst mistake I did…
Thanks to you I learned so many things Matthew! I’m happy you are here for all off us!!! :) to help us find our love or to not lose her…