Why do amazing people—kind, self-aware, emotionally intelligent—keep falling for partners who can’t meet them halfway? In this week’s video, we uncover the five reasons behind this painful cycle and how to finally break free. From the scarcity mindset to the addictive highs and lows of unstable relationships, we’ll explore why we settle for less and how to rewrite the story we tell ourselves about love.
If you’ve ever felt stuck between the chaos of unhealthy relationships and the “dullness” of safe ones, this video is for you. Learn how to break the patterns that keep you tethered to the wrong people, and start creating the love life you truly deserve.
What’s the role of attachment in all this? The themes you explored here are underpinned by childhood attachment to parents and being recreated in adult relationships. Out of awareness.
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That was awesome!!! Experiencing this right now. Will this be recorded on May 20th? I am a member already and appreciate your information. I wish it didnt hurt so much and leave me feeling empty. He actually said he wanted to marry me and then he goes silent on me.
Mine is the same yet so different. We met at work n same Field n he pursued me. I had zero interest. I was straight up telling him I’m Shy, Introvert, Cautious n Paranoid. It comes w the territory n didn’t have a problem letting him know it was going to b hard to get thru to me, because I didn’t like him that way n had nothing to lose. I only date friends, ppl I know. Well his persistence paid off for mos on n off he continued n we’d see each other at work n talk on n off. I started to like him but didn’t show it enough! Was guarded as usual n kept pushing him away! Not listening enough to his feelings. It wasn’t until he suddenly had to quit work n wasn’t around the area close to me that I realized how much time I lost n was devastated!! What could have been. Early on I said what if we become close friends n u leave n I get mad or sad. He said then I’ll be able to comfort u at home.” I said it’s not the same I like seeing u at work. He would SingSong my full nameHe said the same n “It’ll b better but enough with the friends things, n you have to let your guard down n let me in. Try knew things for me Lisa” I didn’t ACT fast enough….show my feelings til late n we barely even text….I want to have the Same Connection or any Connection w him because I do care about him n Miss Him He made me open up n see things more now yet I want Him to b a part of it
Great video! I think another factor can be: if you’ve been single for a long time it can actually become a huge part of your identity. Something you’re proud of and hold onto, because you’re always the “sparkly, fun, free and independent” one. What happens when you find yourself ready for a genuine and healthy and love match? It’s uncharted territory! ⛵️
How to get past the preset level?