What makes someone truly irresistible in the early stages of dating? In this video, I share four powerful ways to boost your attractiveness in the first weeks of getting to know someone . . . so you can create intrigue and keep things moving forward.
If you’re over surface-level chats, have a hard time balancing your heart and your head, or just feel stuck, this one’s for you. I also tell a personal story that shows how small changes can make a huge impact on your dating life. Don’t miss it!
Matthew, thank you for your helpful video.
Just a quick comment: not everyone can afford to be in places or workshops that you mentioned. You talked about boundaries…. the whole purpose of this video was to help or guide people not brag about all these fancy places or how amazing you are etc. Over the years, your videos are turning into self promoting sessions rather than focusing on what you promise.
Thank you love your videos
Thanks for this video. Just last week, I came to this conclusion. They guy will tell you what they want you to hear at the 1st conversation. Almost a small, subtle form of love bombing.I told myself I need not to get too excited. I need to wait until I see if there actions meet their words.
Just this week I had an eye-opening experience with someone who had no regard for my boundaries. When setting up our very first date after a week of what I call “love bombing” from him, he wouldn’t even consider meeting me halfway. He wanted me to “prove” I was serious about him by driving 5 hours all the way to him. And when I told him I would be happy to meet halfway the first time, he flipped a switch and told me I made it impossible for people to date me because I have zero compromise and that’s why I’m single. Clearly he doesn’t understand the definition of compromise. And in that moment, I knew he held zero value for me and was no longer a candidate. Thank you for confirming my decision! This video was exactly what I needed today.
Hey there! I totally relate to the struggles of early dating—it can be so tricky, right? I remember once fumbling over my words on a date and laughing it off, which actually broke the ice way better than I expected. Anyone else have a funny or awkward moment like that?
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Hey Matt – I can’t believe you and Audrey have been doing this amazing content for years and I was missing out.
I’m honestly going post by post on everything I missed. I think at this point I “wasted” more time on your Blog that I care to admit.
When is the next Love Live Club?
So many variables in early dates and boundaries. Take into account how lonely one can be can affect the boundaries. I was 21 years alone he was 3. Looking back I had no boundaries. I was enjoying the attention. I moved in quit my great job and totally took care of him. He had early cancer. 4 years later I broke my leg and the role’s reversed. I no longer supplied his needs. Between the pain meds and his family he let me know he no longer wanted to be in a relationship. Left me disabled at 78. What a fool! I thought he was the kindest person I had ever met. I’m still trying to figure out just when he decided he didn’t want me in his life. Everyone is shocked including me. Zero communication. His friends became my friends. Now I’m really alone.