How To Get the Guy Podcast

Modern dating can mess with your head. You finally meet someone you like . . . and suddenly the pressure kicks in. You start overthinking texts, softening your boundaries, and trying to “win” someone instead of just being yourself. If you’ve ever caught yourself getting attached too fast or reading into every little signal, today’s new video will change the game. You’ll learn how to stay grounded, protect your confidence, and find the sweet spot between showing interest and keeping your self-respect. --- ►► Try Matthew AI for 24/7 coaching and advice anytime at AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for

What’s your biggest regret in life? Is it a mistake you continue to dwell on? A path you realize you should’ve taken? A person you wish you hadn’t given so much time to?   And if you had the opportunity, would you go back in time and do something differently? Or would you take this Cormac McCarthy quote to heart: “You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from”? Regret is more than a sad, wistful daydream. It can cause us a tremendous amount of pain today and actually prevent us from enjoying our lives.  

Today’s episode is a proper grab bag—in the best way. If you’ve been feeling stuck on where you can actually meet people in real life, it explores the kinds of places that don’t just give you “options,” but actually help you grow as a person (and why that matters more than ever).    It also tackles one of the most painful relationship realities: where there’s real love, the relationship is good . . . but one incompatibility makes it impossible. What do you do with that kind of heartbreak when no one is the villain? --- ►► Want to be featured

Some big life changes don’t come with a plan. They just crack you open and make you see everything differently. Today’s unscripted episode is about what happens when priorities shift and you start choosing peace over pressure. It’s about fear, commitment, slowing down, and learning to create space for what actually matters. If you’ve ever felt pulled between comfort and change, this will resonate. --- ►► Try Matthew AI for 24/7 coaching and advice anytime at AskMH.com ►► The Year of Love is happening next week on Tuesday, January 20. Discover the simple 4-step action plan for finding your person in 2026. Sign

Narcissists walk among us . . . but what makes us stay with such people? In the beginning, sadly, many people fail to see the long-term damage a relationship with a narcissist (or narcissistically inclined person) can cause. From confidence to superficial charm or even intensity, it's easy to mistake narcissistic traits as positive ones in the beginning of a relationship. But after quickly sucking you in, they gaslight you, make you forget yourself, and cause you to start justifying all kinds of toxic behavior. All in the name of control disguised as love. If you've been in a relationship

If you’ve ever walked away from a relationship thinking, “I’m never doing that again,” you won’t want to miss this episode. Heartbreak has a way of creating rigid rules—what you’ll never give, tolerate, or risk again—and those protective habits can quietly block the kind of love you actually want. You’ll learn how relationship stress can show up in your body, why some people feel lighter and healthier after leaving the wrong dynamic, and the surprising connection between big-hearted, nurturing partners and anxious attachment. ---   ►► The Year of Love is happening next week on Tuesday, January 20. Discover the simple 4-step action plan