How To Get the Guy Podcast

Tired of putting in all the effort while others barely try? In this week’s episode, I share how to stop wasting energy on people who aren’t serious, and focus instead on connecting with people who are ready to meet you halfway. We’ll talk about how the story you’re telling (through your words and energy) can either inspire connection or hold you back. If dating feels frustrating right now, this is what you need . . .  --- ►► Try Huel with 15% off for new customers using my code LOVELIFE at huel.com/lovelife. Fuel your best performance with Huel today! ►►

Have you ever created an entire relationship in your head before going on a date with someone? Perhaps you’ve been texting with them for weeks and have already deduced they could be “The One,” or maybe you live for the two minutes of conversation you have with them before spin class. Unfortunately, living in our heads in this way can turn into obsessing, and render us incapable of feeling excited about anything other than seeing or hearing from that person. In other words, they occupy a space in our minds they’ve not yet earned! In this week’s episode, I share

Have you ever wondered why so many relationships seem to fizzle out around the three-month mark? In this week’s episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen tackle the infamous “three-month curse” in dating. They explore why this milestone often becomes a breaking point, the hidden dynamics that lead to early breakups, and how unspoken needs or mismatched intentions can derail even the most promising connections. Plus, they share actionable advice to help you navigate this tricky phase and build relationships that last. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of short-lived relationships, this episode will give you the clarity and tools

What if the way you view your past is quietly shaping your present in ways you don’t even realize? In this week’s video, I explore a book that has completely shifted how I think about dating and life. It challenges some deeply-held beliefs and the stories we tell ourselves. This video also uncovers how hidden goals might be influencing your choices, and shares the key to unlocking a more fulfilling love life. This one will leave you questioning everything . . . in the very best way! --- ►► Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com   ►►

Picture this. A guy sends you a sexual text. How do you respond in a way that gets him to slow down without sending him running away? Check out this ONE ridiculously simple but powerful text to deal with the situation. And be sure to watch until the end. --- ►► Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com   ►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What if the things you’ve been blaming for where you are in life—your past, your heartbreaks, your fears—aren’t actually what’s holding you back? In this week’s episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen explore a bold idea from Adlerian psychology: that your life isn’t determined as much by your trauma as by the goals you’ve set for yourself. The Love Life Podcast crew breaks down how this flips the script on what we think we know about change, self-sabotage, and why we stay stuck. If you’ve ever felt like you’re spinning your wheels in love or life, this episode will challenge you