How To Get the Guy Podcast

Why do we get so in our heads when we start dating someone new? In this episode, we dive deep into the most common fears people face in early dating — from getting too invested too soon, to navigating intimacy and exclusivity when someone’s seeing multiple people. With over 1,300 comments from listeners sharing their biggest dating anxieties, we unpack the most relatable ones and offer real, practical ways to reframe them. You’ll hear us talk about: What it really means when someone wants intimacy but avoids emotional connection How to slow down without feeling like you’re “falling behind” Why obsession isn’t

Long-distance love can be beautiful . . . or it can slowly drive you insane. In this week’s Love Life Podcast episode, we talk about how to know the difference. Are you in something real, or just filling a void? We’ll unpack what makes distance work: from actually planning to see each other to noticing when communication starts feeling one-sided. You’ll learn the signs your relationship is moving forward with real intention vs. when you’re being kept around for comfort or convenience. You’ll also hear from a caller on setting boundaries without feeling needy, plus a hilarious round of “Steve’s

Here’s a really tricky part about dating: The moment you realize you like someone, it can feel like everything’s riding on winning them over. But what really makes you magnetic isn’t trying harder . . . it’s showing up as your confident, authentic self, and bringing your own value to the table without overthinking. In this episode, I break down how to shift your mindset so you stay grounded and relaxed, even when your feelings feel super strong. Don’t miss this key to creating a real connection that lasts! --- ►► Find the Beautiful & LASTING Relationship You Want. Watch

Few things hurt more than watching someone you love move on. When the person you thought was “the one” starts building a new life without you, it can feel impossible to breathe, let alone imagine loving again. In this episode, Matthew shares a powerful step-by-step approach to healing after heartbreak—especially when your ex has found someone new. You’ll learn how to stop comparing, regain your confidence, and rebuild your sense of worth so you can open your heart again when the time is right. --- ►► Talk to Matthew AI anytime for coaching, strategies, and support. Try it for free

This week on the Love Life Podcast, Matthew Hussey and Producer David dive into some of the most-asked questions about modern relationships. Should you ever chase someone in love, or does persistence risk crossing the line?  The conversation also takes a personal turn as Matthew reflects on the strong women in his family who shaped his perspective on relationships and life. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of love and connection today. --- ►► Ready to go from casual to committed? Join the free training that shows you how to create the relationship you deserve. Watch now at GetCommitment.com

In the aftermath of a toxic or narcissistic relationship, we can lose all sense of self. Whether our partner tried to steal our joy at every opportunity, or they wore down our self-esteem with endless arguments and cold-shoulder treatments . . . the end of a relationship like this will leave us feeling disoriented and lost, and it can be hard to rewire our brains and resume normal life once we’re free. At this point, it can be unbelievably hard to trust other people again. Logically, we may understand that not everyone’s like our ex . . . but emotionally,