How To Get the Guy Podcast

Dating apps can feel like their own toxic relationship. We swear them off, only to come back because life is busy and meeting strangers in the real world feels nearly impossible. A Pew Research survey even found that more than a third of app users walk away feeling more pessimistic about dating than before. So why do we still cling to them, even when the experience leaves us drained? In this episode, I share the hidden truth that restores optimism in love, plus the one “dating app” I actually recommend if you’re serious about finding a real connection. (Spoiler alert:

This week’s episode with bestselling author and entrepreneur Marie Forleo is about one of the toughest parts of relationships: those hard conversations you’d rather avoid. You know the ones—where you’re afraid to say the wrong thing, or you’re worried it’ll turn into an argument.    In this episode, you’ll learn how to face those conversations with more confidence and care . . . so you can speak your truth without losing connection or respect. If you’ve ever frozen up trying to find the right words, or held back because you feared the fallout, this one’s for you. --- ►► Talk

Do you attract emotionally unavailable people? Or maybe you have a pattern of meeting good people and pushing them away because “something doesn’t feel right.” If this sounds familiar, you may struggle to trust your own decisions when it comes to love. This often leads to us looking to others to validate our choices and tell us we’re doing the right thing (which can be dangerous for many reasons). So how can you get out of this cycle? In today’s episode, I share 7 simple steps you can take to make better decisions in love and start building self-trust again.

Join the Love Life Podcast crew for this new episode as they examine the tricky link between money and self-worth in dating, answering questions like: • Do most men feel their value is connected to their income? • How big of a role does money actually play when choosing a partner? • In what ways do money expectations affect our relationships? • How has social media distorted our sense of what’s “enough”? You’ll also learn about the fears and insecurities both men and women face when it comes to finances and relationships, and why confidence and teamwork matter far more than the size

Marriage is one of the most important decisions you’ll ever make—but it’s also one of the riskiest if you’re not careful.   In this week’s episode, I’m sharing the lessons I’ve learned about what makes a marriage work, why rushing into it can lead to heartbreak, and how to know if you’re choosing the right person for the right reasons. (Plus, I share the one question you must ask yourself before saying “I do.”)  --- ►► Transform your confidence and your relationship with yourself, others, and life itself during my Weekend Retreat next week, October 18-19 (which you can watch

Whether your breakup was two days or two decades ago, you find yourself looking back and wondering how things could’ve turned out had you acted differently. Had you known then what you know today. Pretty soon, you’re living in the timeline where you didn’t “ruin everything” with that person . . . ultimately punishing yourself over a parallel universe you’ve created in your mind. In this episode, my brother Stephen and I answer the question, “Is it possible to ‘blow it’ with the right person?” and share how you can turn self-loathing into a better relationship with yourself (and your