Waiters make their tips based on good service. But regardless of what we do for a living, we all serve others in one way or another. So the question becomes: When presented with a complication, do you use it as license to complain, or an opportunity to show your value to others? In other words, do you “earn your tip?” The right approach can create incredible opportunities, and we’ll explore how to do that in today’s episode.

For any woman, it’s extremely tricky to answer a guy’s question, “So…how many men have you slept with?” But what if you’re a virgin? How do you tell a guy you like without making it weird or freaking him out? I get asked this question a lot, and today I’m going to tell you just what to say, how to say it, and – most importantly – how to respond to his reaction. Oh, and by the way, we’re also going to talk about why being a virgin isn’t a B(ig) F(reaking) D(eal) to begin with. So relax already!

What happens when you hurt your man and he loses trust in you? Can you ever what you had together? My answer is yes, but it can’t happen overnight. In today’s episode, I share my 3-step process to help you hit “reset” on your relationship and prove that you’re worthy of his forgiveness and, once again, his trust. 

How should you communicate with a guy you like in between dates? If you think texting is the only answer, then this episode is for you. I’m going to reveal a surprisingly simple – yet incredibly sexy – way to keep in touch that builds way more connection than sending emojis. Do this and he’ll be dying to take you out again!

There are a lot of ways men show affection through chivalry – holding doors and bringing you flowers are a couple of the classics. But what are some gestures women can do to show love in return? That’s what our caller, Angela, wants to know today. Listen in as I give 5 simple yet surprising ways to show your guy you care, and how to strike the right balance so you keep it authentic and don’t go overboard trying to impress him.

You may relate to today’s caller, Diana. She doesn’t have much trouble dating, but then she can’t seem to get past the first few months where she officially becomes the “girlfriend.”  I reveal the ONE thing that keeps relationships moving forward (hint: it ISN’T love), and two quick tips anyone can use to keep men coming back for more.