What It Really Means to Be a High-Value Woman

I wouldn’t be anywhere near the person I am today without my mum.

It’s easy to forget the sacrifices someone made just for us to be here now, able to live, think, work, and enjoy the relationships around us.

But as I see it, today isn’t only about mothers.

In fact, I have a special message for ALL WOMEN, and if you have 3 minutes to spare today, I’d love for you to take a look and let me know what you think…

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72 Replies to “What It Really Means to Be a High-Value Woman”

  • Thank you, Matthew! I love the idea of mom’s as agents of change. Never thought of it that way. Happy Mother’s Day to your mom. We’re all happy she had you :-)

  • Great Message today!! My mom is indeed a woman of high value and I’m not quite sure where I’d be without her! I have three sisters who are also strong, powerful, loving moms! They are deserve this day! As for me, I’m 36 and single and am not sure being a mom is in the cards! But as an aunt and teacher, I try everyday to be a woman the kids can look up to, count on and admire!

  • Matthew,

    Thank you so much. I have bought your program within 24 hours. I read you book for just a few pages about how to get a guy’s attention…. first 2 ways….

    You know. I know this guy since last August, I met him at a MeetUp event. He is from a rich family and he has a very well educated and very rich. I got his contacts from a friend we both knew. I invited him to a bar before Chinese New year with a few friends(also met form MeetUp). It did not turn out good. He text me back for a long time. In March, I tried to ask him out for watching movie ALONE. He seemed to not be very interested. Finally, almost 2 days before the movie night, he even ignored me!!!!! Did not reply me!!! two months later, the other day, I texted him again(Yes, I am very persistent), he talked a little but finally did not reply…

    Last night and this morning, I read your book. Then, I went to the MeetUp even again, he went to there too. I wore long dress and tried effortless for my dress up, then, he sat in front of me but sometimes he saw me back, I saw him back too with smile. Back and forth, when I knew we had eye contact, I smiled back.
    After my MeetUp partner went away, I did not try to go to his table, instead, I went to another table because I did not want to show I was too eager. After a while, he left too.. How could I know, he went up to me, patted my back and said “Goodbye” and to me ONLY. There were also other girls there. But he ONLY said that to me. That’s soo sweet. I never expected that.

    However, I tried to not be eager so I will not text him.
    I feel so good about what happened to me today, I feel more confident and released. Thank you Matthew.

    Love you.


  • Thank you for practicing what you preach!It’s refreshing to see you and your family showing so much respect and support for each other.It is truly a tremendous pleasure to hear and apply your wise advice and ignore a lot of dysfunction promoted by the media on “reality” TV shows that makes you wonder where is this society headed to.
    Thank you for your honesty,keeping it real,your love for reasearch and passion in all that you do.
    On a fun note…we need less “sheeple”,more men with”an English start in life” who can provide more “brainal” and are able to not overshare on social media:)
    Be blessed!Love you!

  • Thanks Matthew! You really are a testament to how you were raised & the wonderful person your Mum is…I have already told you this before…so true!
    I have a wonderful Mom too…She taught me to be a Hi-Value woman…as I have instilled the same values in my 2 grown adult gals..
    She told me NOT to be a “notch” in any man’s belt, growing up…She told me they will tell me they love me..if they want just casual sex…but, it would be ultimately my decision..but, once you give it away…you can’t get it back…so think about it before you decide to give away one of the greatest gifts…
    I stuck to that…& it was all worth it….
    Don’t ever compromise yourself & your values…That is what I was taught…& proud to say…My girls have been taught that…It is a choice…& what you do with that choice will affect you…the rest of your life…may be positive or very negative…Right??
    There are always consequences to one’s behavior…Be prepared to accept those consequences…
    ;) <3
    Don't ever let it be a REGRET!

  • Wow what a powerful and beautiful message. I am very close to my mum too and admire how she raised 8 children. She taught me to follow my heart and how when choosing a partner to look carefully at his background and the influences in his life. I’d love to pass on my love and respect for ALL animals and to raise a generation that celebrates love, freedom and respect.

  • I always love your messages. I ever thought about a mum like that. I always felt guilty about about giving to much attention to myour nonbirth mum. As always you’re right the influence of my other mum, in this case my mum-in-law, has had the best influence and change on me. Love her just as much as my biological mum. Thank you so much Matthew for your insight and words of wisdom Love you.

  • Dear Matthew,
    Your post made me cry as I realise I feel totally powerless. Everyone sees what they want to but nobody sees how I really feel. They think they see a strong and powerfull woman who has a good career and her own home but they do not see that I never wanted to be divorced or be alone or have a high flying career ( I just wanted to have a good job and have a family and be a mother and a mum and instead I feel like I am a nobody and nothing as everyone around me is married and /or have children and I have neither and i do not know why as I was married but I suffered terrible emotional and psychological and financial and physical abuse and even sexual rejection and abuse by my exhusband and have not managed to find anyone I feel safe with since.Men are all the same. It is about them and not caring what the woman wants or needs.I know you say that woman have to show men what their values are but it makes no difference as all men just revert to their bad behaviour the minute I show any vulnerablity. I do not want to be strong all the time as then I might as well just be on my own. The whole point of being with someone is that one can also be vulnerable and soft and show weakness and not be attacked and taken advantage of but it seems that is the impossible dream with a man.

    1. I think this is the problem that all men want a strong and powerful woman. Well what about a strong and powerful man who also appreciates a senstive and caring and vulnerable woman as I do not want to be the powerful woman all the time. I am a human being who also has needs and feelings and not just be superwoman all the time. Sorry but this is just wrong.

      1. How about men being men and like my father who took care of my mother and us kids and yes my mum did a huge amount as he always said he could never have achieved anything without her by his side. But most men I come across are too busy doing it all and not wanting to rely on a woman except whtn they need something.My ex was looking after me but he was a totally controlling and manipulative man so where does one find a decent man who does his share too and not just expects the women to be around when he needs her.I do not think there are any such men. It is all just a myth.

  • My Great Aunt Gertrude, who turned 96 in February and still works three days a week and volunteers serving food to the homeless, taught me how to live my life the way I want to live it and to serve others. She is an amazing, strong, kind woman who raised 8 children and yet always had time for her great niece.

  • My Mother, Mary. She has taught me that a woman works, and has her own money, way before a man even comes along in your life, and to never lower my standards when it comes to men. She’s a great Gardener, and an Interior Decorator, too. She has taught me that you dont have to got to college and have a whole bunch of degreees in order to be good at what you do. I’m so glad that SHE is my Mother.

  • What men want is a feminine woman who loves herself first and accepts him as he is. He dies t really care stet de is into, he cares that she is in receptive, feminine mode. So use Matts techniques to attract a man but don’t sleep with him wo a commitment and let him give to you, appreciate him and let him lead and leave all the contact up to him. Simples!

  • Hi matthew It’s Kirsty thanks to you I can just talk to men just being friend’s with them & nothing more cause I enjoy the single life peace & quite I will think about relashionships when I’m older I’m only 23 I’m still young I like to have freedom. Not get tided down to anyone.

  • There are so many things that my mom taught me far too many to mention. But by far the thing that stuck out the most for me was when my dad passed away, my mom had to step up to the plate and learn how to do the many things that my dad took care of. It was not easy for her, but she was proud of those things as these were things that my dad did for 38 years. This was just a demonstration of how strong she really was.
    And on this day, which was her birthday and mother’s day I find that I really am missing her.

  • Aw! How sweet are you?!?! Love how you made this about including how powerful all women are- not just mothers. <3

  • My mom taught me many amazing things but what I learnt from observing her was that you are never too old to learn and grow.

  • For me it would be my mother, grandmother and my one of my aunts.. they taught me to be humble and taught me the gift of serving others among many other things. ♡♡♡

  • My real mum always want to protect and stop us from falling. But it was my English mum who taught me to have courage in life’s challenges. Both ladies taught me to be kind and generous, and never expect anything in return. Sadly my English mum, my great friend and mentor have passed away 10 years ago. I miss her so much. Her teachings have never left me.

  • Thanks for chairing your concept of High Value-Woman.
    I believe, The standard value you give to yourself as a person, is exactly The same you’re going to transmit to your child as a mother, we all inherited what our mothers had, beside or plus if the child was desired or not, all her emotions thoughts feelings, what she talks, what she does, everything got imprint inner ourselves while the pregnancy, after the child is born, the way she treats that child, the love and care she gives, will define the human he or she will become.
    Matthew thanks again for your powerful video, which invited us to realize The importance of bringing quality in our lives.

  • What a great, thoughtful, and kindly message Matthew. You are a good guy with a lot of great wisdom in my opinion. Have a beautiful day !! :)

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