This Journalist Set Out To Destroy Me!

Hi guys!

I had to tell you this story, it’s crazy. This journalist came to write a story about how GetTheGuy didn’t work. Watch the video and see the dramatic twist!

Also, if after the video you want to read the final story she wrote, I’ve included a link underneath the vid!

Matthew x

P.S. There’s a BIG learning point in the video, so be sure to watch it through (and don’t forget to leave a comment : ).


Click HERE to check out the offer that Matthew talked about at the end of the video

“…it was meant to be an exposé of dating gurus and their empty-promise tactics. But then Nikki Bayley heard what dating pro Matthew Hussey had to say, and her love life changed forever…”


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104 Replies to “This Journalist Set Out To Destroy Me!”

  • Loved this article :) Matt has personaly helped me out, probably a lot more than he realises! I will and have recommended him to anyone who will listen. Admitedly he ended up as more of a life coach than a dating coach at the time we met, which was what I needed desperately at the time. I was in a bad way, and may not have made it to where I am now without him, but things are now going brilliantly! A lot of his advice did not make sense at the time, but I persevered, because I had nothing more to loose, and it worked. I have yet to find my Mr Right, but with me happy, more confident and doing well in my life, he will come along eventually and I will be ready.

    And the reporter in the article is right! He IS gorgeous!

    1. Hayley! The same Hayley who travelled into London to meet me?? It’s so exciting to hear from you!! Send me an email and tell me about your life, I’d love to hear it. This is so amazing to know you are doing so well, I knew you could! WELL DONE!!!
      All my love! Matthew
      PS Don’t forget to email me, can’t wait to hear all about it : )

      1. Hello,

        I just watched one of your videos on youtube.. And I was wondering where can I get the DVD “get the guy” I searched all around the internet and didn’t find anything.

  • Funny thing. I live in Switzerland and read the article few weeks ago. For a while I’ve been thinking – maybe I should travel to London for a weekend. But after seeing the video I’m putting the thought away for 24 hours!!! :)

      1. Same thought here in Germany.. I really want to go but right now I’m kinda busy studying! So, I’m excited about the offer!!!

  • Hi Matt,

    I really agree with your reflection about the journey being more important than the outcome of ‘getting the guy’- believing in yourself, having faith and seeing beauty and love around you in the simplest of forms has given me a sense of happiness, fulfillment and strength that supersedes anything I’ve ever experienced in a relationship. I’m in Australia otherwise I would come to one of your events. I love the emails though!

    Erin x

    1. Hey Erin!
      I’d love to meet you in person, my cousins are in Australia right now and I miss them so much, so maybe I’ll make the trip sometime this year, who knows! Then we can run an event there : )
      Matthew x

  • I have a simple little question… I transfered to another office… but there’s this guy that flirted with me at the last place… could I call him and give him my number or have a friend of mine hand him my number… with a little message call me sometime? or would that be too pushy

    1. I know I’m not Matt, but I’d say go for it! If you’re on Facebook or something, just send a little flirty message saying ‘I’d love to keep in touch. Here’s my number’. :)

    2. Say to him cheekily “I always meant to flirt with you but ran out of time! Give me a call sometime” then give him your number with a playful smile!
      Matt x

  • I read Nikki’s article and have been reading and listening to things from get the guys since. Just from that I have already changed how I think about the possibility of being in a realtionship and I have joined a cycle club to create possible opportunities (that I have been talking about doing for 2 years). I am waiting with baited breath for tomorrow, thanks Matthew and gettheguy (and Nikki)

  • WOW! I read the article and saw your video: its amazing!!! Congratulations!!! She truly now became in a new different person!

    For me I what to be in one of those 1,000 but the thing is i live in a different country in the other side of the world, so, maybe next time. Later I put down what’s going on my “thing” with a guy (he doesn’t what to commit yet).

    I wish you the BEST Matthew :) I love yours videos and somehow you make me feel enthusiastic every time I watch them.

    =) Be well.


    1. Keep watching this space Lula, I’ve got something on the way for you in February. It’s going to change everything for those people who can’t make it to London for the live event!
      Thanks for your support!
      Matthew x

  • Loved the video, very excited to see the offer! I live in the U.S. and just can’t make it to the weekends like I want to. Happy New Year! :)

  • Still confused becacuse I have a lots of books that advised you the play hard to get, even grandmothers!… now my behavior is between hot and cold with men in general, Thanks.

  • Really amazing. I’ve read your eBook and I must say I’ve tried some of your advices,but after avile I stoped trying and i don’t know why. I didn’t get any date but at least I’ve chat with the guys. Now I read Nikki’s article and i decided that I will also (again) try your 7-rules. This weeked I’ll go skiing and it’s a great opportunity to try it. Hope I’ll succeeded to!

    1. Hey Sasa,
      “Every passing minute is another chance to turn it all around”. Let’s get out there and create some new results!!! Keep going!
      Matthew x

  • After coming out of very bumpy relationship (to say the least) I cant wait to get back out there and just talk to more guys and have fun with it. Matthew your videos and newsletters always give me a little boost after reading them so i cant wait to see what you have up your sleeve this year! SHOW ME THE LINK! SHOW ME THE LINK! :D

    – Abbie x

  • I get exited every time i see one of your video´s… and what a amassing article. I gif it a go.. see what it brings me!!!! and I´m relay curious now about the link you promised… and I will come to London to see it so count me in!!!

  • I have attended Matthews’ Women’s Weekend, back in November 2011, and can confirm that it does work. I’ve put into practice a number of ‘new’ behaviours and rituals over the past few months, including going out more and with like-minded women, talking to more men, smiling much much more than I used to, using more physical contact, complimenting men, being gracious when they help (like holding a door open or letting me go first – and lets face it, how often does that happen in London!!) and using the Texting technique to encourage responses. I have now found myself ‘courting’ a younger guy who i’ve had my eye on for about 6 months. He’s super hot and super positive and lots of fun – I have no idea where or what it will lead to, I’m just enjoying his company right now. And, if it leads to nothing then I know exactly what I have to do to create more of the same.
    Thank you Matthew!
    Sophie x

    1. Woohoo, yet another woman out there killing it! What an amazing mindset you have. Soon you guys are going to be running these courses without me haha xx

  • Love it! And back in the day, I was completely adept at operating the way Matthew recommends. But there came a time when I had to focus on other priorities, like child-rearing and making a living, and the male attention I was receiving was mostly unwelcome. So I devised this sort of cloaking device that, sadly, works only too well–I am almost completely invisible! But now I am resolved to fight my way out of this “shell” and be myself again. Good luck to us all–Cheers! :-)

  • Matthew,

    I will not only be one of those 1,000 women, but will also be leading the way for the group!!! :) I loved your video and admire that you had the integrity and gave of your time to help out the journalist, even after she confessed to you what her original intentions were! You are a true leader by your actions. I will be a lifelong friend and fan.


    (P.S. – Like the journalist, I too have picked up a guy at the Apple store! It is a MECCA of hot, techno-savvy guys with money to spend on the latest gadgets! I will be offering to take the ladies from the Women’s Weekend in NY down to the central Apple store in Manhattan and coach them on picking up men! :)

  • hey Matt,I’d love to be one of those 1000 women,but unfotunately I’m not in UK,I live in Iran.
    If you can do anything for me,I’ll appreciate
    thank you

    1. Hey Elham,
      We conduct one to one coaching all over the world via Skype, I can put you in touch with someone on my team to discuss if you would like? Simply send an email to and someone will be in touch!
      We look forward to working with you!
      Matthew x

  • I’ve followed Matt during his mens courses, but I just had to admit that I am gay… The mens materials are great but I want to learn more material that helps me with a guy who responds to ‘female’ tactics as I have no problems with guys who want to be with an alpha male but some guys like to be alpha too and two alphas dont really make a good couple . I realise I cannot go to the seminars but really want some DVD ‘s / ebooks.How do I get this stuff Matt ?.

    1. Hey Si! Great to have you here! The best thing to do is sign up for the GetTheGuy newsletter. Through that you’ll get a chance to get a copy of the ebook. I think you’ll find it fascinating and really helpful to learn that perspective. Let me know what you think!
      Matthew x

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