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How Men Think

How Men Think When It Comes To Dating And Sex

A lot of women worry about men only wanting one thing when they go on a date.

Here I want to break down a couple of facts about how men think when it comes to sex. Once you know where men are coming from, the whole dating game becomes much easier.

Fact no. 1 – If he’s on a date, he wants to have sex with you

For women the case is often different. Often a woman will go on a date with a man without having at all decided whether or not she will sleep with him.

But trust me, if a man asks you on a date you can rest assured he has 100% definitely thought about sleeping with you.

Whether he sees you as more than that of course all will depend on how you play it

Fact no. 2 – You can judge his intentions by how he reacts to being denied sex

Though there aren’t any really hard rules about when you should sleep with a guy, I would generally advise refraining from having sex on the first date.

The reason is actually because denying him sex will give you a good indication of what his intentions are and how he sees you.

If he gets upset and stroppy with you, this should send alarm bells ringing.

Think about it: Why might a guy get angry when you tell him you want to wait another couple of dates before jumping into bed?

The answer is simple: it’s because he doesn’t plan on sticking around for very long!

So the rule is, never judge a man for just wanting to have sex with you. That’s human, and if he’s on a date with you it’s because he felt some initial sexual attraction.

What you judge him for is how he reacts if you tell him the first date is a bit too soon for you.

Fact no. 3 – But – Sex isn’t your power as a woman!

All this being said, you should never get wrapped up in the idea of using sex as your power with men.

Because once you see sex as the only card you can play, he’ll notice that and then guess what? Once he’s had sex with you he’ll feel like there’s nothing else to you.

This is why some men run away or lose interest after women give them sex. Because the woman made the whole focus of their dating a game of when they were going to have sex.

When it comes to understanding men, it’s similar to what’s called Cat-string theory: If you dangle a string above a cat it will go crazy to get it, but once you drop the string and let the cat have it, it won’t be bothered anymore.

This is the exact same thing with men and sex.

If you use sex as your bait, don’t be surprised if that’s all he wants you for!

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How Men Think – Secrets Behind The Male Psychology

In my years of coaching I’ve seen men muck up the most extraordinary chances with women, I’ve think what is it about the male female divide that is so mystifying for the other. Today I’d like to look at ways women misinterpret common male behaviour in order to explain how men think.

Why Men Cheat

Why do some men who are deeply in love with their girlfriends cheat on them? The female answer is “he can’t have really loved her”.

The true answer is he did, he truly loved her, he was just terrified that he was no longer an alpha male now that he had settled down, and therefore not attractive to the opposite sex.

Understanding this is the first step to understanding how men think and why.

The Psychology of the sexes

It is frequently assumed that men think more logically than women, and there is some truth in this, but it is more common for men to think in a primal way. Evolutionarily it is important for a man to have sex with as many women as possible as this increases the likelihood of producing children.

Women are the opposite evolutionarily speaking.

The best chance they have of healthy children is if the man stays with them, provides and protects.

Everything you ever need to know when asking why men think the way they do is contained in this idea.

A man’s value in the eyes of the world is closely linked with his ability to attract women and when this stops (when he enters a relationship) his self esteem drops and sometimes the woman subconsciously looses interest.

Use the psychology of men to your advantage!

How can this theory of how men think be applied to more everyday scenarios? When a man comes up to you in a bar, he is looking for sex first off.

Everything you do and say has to convey far higher value so he starts to see you as more than just sex, someone that he wants to invest time and love in.

Once you understand how men think and why you start to see why you can’t sleep with a man on the first date, because you have to bypass this base instinct.

Why do men think the way they do? Millions of years of evolution. The good news is once you understand how men think you can control it and use it to your advantage.

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