In my years of coaching I’ve seen men muck up the most extraordinary chances with women, I’ve think what is it about the male female divide that is so mystifying for the other. Today I’d like to look at ways women misinterpret common male behaviour in order to explain how men think.
Why Men Cheat
Why do some men who are deeply in love with their girlfriends cheat on them? The female answer is “he can’t have really loved her”.
The true answer is he did, he truly loved her, he was just terrified that he was no longer an alpha male now that he had settled down, and therefore not attractive to the opposite sex.
Understanding this is the first step to understanding how men think and why.
The Psychology of the sexes
It is frequently assumed that men think more logically than women, and there is some truth in this, but it is more common for men to think in a primal way. Evolutionarily it is important for a man to have sex with as many women as possible as this increases the likelihood of producing children.
Women are the opposite evolutionarily speaking.
The best chance they have of healthy children is if the man stays with them, provides and protects.
Everything you ever need to know when asking why men think the way they do is contained in this idea.
A man’s value in the eyes of the world is closely linked with his ability to attract women and when this stops (when he enters a relationship) his self esteem drops and sometimes the woman subconsciously looses interest.
Use the psychology of men to your advantage!
How can this theory of how men think be applied to more everyday scenarios? When a man comes up to you in a bar, he is looking for sex first off.
Everything you do and say has to convey far higher value so he starts to see you as more than just sex, someone that he wants to invest time and love in.
Once you understand how men think and why you start to see why you can’t sleep with a man on the first date, because you have to bypass this base instinct.
Why do men think the way they do? Millions of years of evolution. The good news is once you understand how men think you can control it and use it to your advantage.
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