How To Get the Guy Podcast

When you’re in love and someone decides to end the relationship, it’s natural for your brain to go into panic mode. Why are they doing this? How can I be the person they want me to be? What can I say to get them back? If you allow these swirling thoughts to take over, you’ll only end up pushing them further and further away. Now, I’m not going to tell you whether or not you should give it another try with your ex. There are many factors to consider, which we can talk about another time. But what I do

Anxiety has a sneaky way of showing up in our love lives . . . whether it’s overthinking a text or worrying about someone’s shifting energy. But what if you could stop anxiety before it takes over?   In this episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen get personal as they unpack how anxiety sabotages relationships, from early dating to long-term connections. They explore the roots of anxious attachment, share practical tools for calming your mind, and discuss how to stop catastrophizing when things feel uncertain.   If you’ve ever felt tortured by your thoughts or struggled to stay grounded when dating,

Mixed signals can leave us feeling anxious, confused, and questioning our worth—whether it’s in the early stages of dating or deep into a relationship. In this epsiode, we break down the four stages of mixed signals, from the “pen pal phase” to the “relationship drift,” and show you how to navigate each one with confidence. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of overthinking someone’s inconsistent behavior, this video is for you . . . because the right person won’t leave you guessing. --- ►► Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com   ►► Join the Love

In this episode, you will see that the ability to differentiate between short-term excitement and long-term potential will save you a lot of grief and time. It will also give you tools to help you clearly see and navigate around any red flags that may appear on your path. --- ►► Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com   ►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com   ►► We're offering an exclusive NordVPN deal at nordvpn.com/LOVELIFE. Try it risk-free now with a 30-day money-back guarantee.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

There’s a lot of talk in modern dating of red flags, but what if you just disagree early on, and don’t know if this is a sign of doom ahead, or simply a chance to communicate and accept your differences? Maybe you have different ideas about where you want to live or the lifestyle you want . . . or your personalities just occasionally clash. In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey talk about signs of incompatibility, how to have better communication in arguments, and deciding what really matters when pursuing a long-term relationship.  --- ►► Try Matthew AI (and

What if the key to making love last isn’t a grand romantic gesture or constant excitement . . . but learning how to fight the right enemy? In this powerful conversation with Anas Bukhash, we talk about what it really means to be a team in a relationship, where the problem is the enemy, not each other. If you’ve ever wondered how to sustain your connection in spite of life’s challenges, this episode offers practical insights. Whether it’s learning to see your partner with fresh eyes or knowing when to let go, this is a must-watch for anyone seeking deeper,