How To Get the Guy Podcast

Whether you’re getting over a fresh breakup or are still having a hard time moving on from a past one, I hope today’s episode will give you what you need to finally feel like yourself again. --- ►► Limited-time bonus: Get 90 days of free Love Life Coaching when you purchase an in-person or virtual Retreat ticket before midnight Pacific time on September 30: RetreatAccess.com ►► Talk to Matthew AI anytime for coaching, strategies, and support. Try it for free at: AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you feel stuck on an ex . . . convinced you’ll never feel that way again? In this week’s episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen reframe “I’ll never be as happy” as an anxious thought, not a prophecy. They unpack nostalgia traps, why we over-glorify past relationships, and how to reclaim your power. You’ll hear practical ways to create new meaning (even at old places), how to stop social media stalking, and change the story you’re telling yourself. Plus, a Love Life Line caller asks whether it’s OK to date while ending a long marriage, and the Love Life podcast crew plays a

Why does it feel so hard to find someone who will actually commit? These days, it’s easy to get caught up in someone’s curated image: their Instagram-perfect life, charm, and seemingly deep qualities. But having great qualities doesn’t automatically make someone a great partner. And that’s where we often get stuck. In this week’s episode, I break down why we idealize people based on what they project, and how it distracts us from seeing what really matters. I also share the subtle signs to look for in someone who’s truly capable of long-term commitment. (Also: This is your last chance

We all know we won’t connect with everyone we meet . . . but one of the most frustrating situations we can find ourselves in is one where we feel an initial spark and a connection, but things just don’t seem to progress. And in the end, they end up fading as we feel a lack of momentum. Rather than giving in to our desire to double down on communication, there’s a simple shift we can make on a date that allows unique attraction to grow. And it’s the kind of thing that will leave them thinking of us long

Do you ever feel like you’re giving too much in your relationships? In this week’s episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen tackle the exhausting cycle of overgiving and people-pleasing in love. You’ll discover why so many people feel the need to be “perfect” to keep someone around, and how this mindset can actually sabotage connection and attraction.   Learn how to break free from this pattern, create space for others to invest in you, and build relationships rooted in mutual effort and respect. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the work in your relationships or struggling to trust that

What happens when the person you trust most becomes the source of your deepest betrayal? In this week’s new video, we explore the shocking Netflix documentary Unknown Number: The High School Catfish, where a young girl discovers her relentless bully is someone she never expected. Using this real-life story, we unpack the concept of “betrayal blindness” and the devastating effects of narcissistic behavior.   If you’ve ever struggled with betrayal or felt trapped in a toxic dynamic, this video is for you. Together, we’ll unpack the emotional fallout, the tactics used by narcissists, and how to reclaim your power when